Where can we find the mysterious "Mr/Miss Perfect"?

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Well before I start talking about finding the "Perfect soulmate" I would like to ask you, who is perfect? And isn't it boring if everything goes perfectly to plan? I mean imagine if this was a perfect world were the guys did everything the girls say or if the girls did everything that the guy wanted and there were no poverty or no stealing. It all sounds wonderful until you start to think about what's right or wrong? Relationships are built on compromise which isn't perfect but close if your willing to make it happen. I was told by a friend years ago which makes me giglle ever time i think of it yet haven't really made my mind up about whether I agree or disagree. She said; "Finding your soulmate is just like solving a puzzle, you just need to find the one puzzle piece that fits with your personality." It's upto you if you want to agree or disagree.


Where can we find the mysterious


We all have read about 'the right one' in books, maybe even seen them in movies or even in our dreams. The one who looks perfect, has a perfect personality and would do anything for you, basically your dream partner which ticks off all the things on your list(s)...


Where can we find the mysterious "Mr/Miss Perfect"?


Have you ever thought about why do we persue this fantasy person and ignore anyone who doesn't fit this list? When you truly fall in love with someone you don't only look at their looks but also their personality. I always believe that our minds look at the person logically but our hearts go for the emotions. Have you ever looked at a person and wonder "he doesn't even fit the list but he still has the personality that i would like to date." Or maybe you came across the person who looks hot but doesn't seem to be nice. I'm sure many of us here would agree but also say that there are still chanlenges after you have found that person with a bit of both. I'm not saying that there wouldn't be challenges, however thse challenges are the ones that make you want to be with your better half. In my personal opinion, the right one could take time to come around, but i'm sure they will come to your lives. It would be unexpected, there will will friendship and being in a relationship will be a step up from there. I know it can sound like it's not possible no matter what your age is, i don't think you will look like the people below:


Where can we find the mysterious "Mr/Miss Perfect"?
Where can we find the mysterious "Mr/Miss Perfect"?


I do feel that love is a strange drug, you can't control your heart but you can look at the world differently. You may be a person who has choosen the wrong partners to date over and over again or a person who never dated but both ways you are still special. You might have just missed seeing the person who truly cares. Do you have that one friend who talks to you after a break up or just generally shows interest that you don't notice? Guys you need to be more clear cause we girls can't take hint sometimes and as for you girls, most guys need a blunt girl cause they are quite bad at taking hints. We have to just stop thinking that being friendzoned is a bad thing, look at it this way, you get to know this person very closely and you have a chance to make him/her feel loved. I can say from personal experince that we girls just have to tell your crush how you feel and stop the waiting game cause in the end you might regret not telling them before and having a longer time to spent together if things go well. If things don't go well after you have told them then yes it will hurt a lot, however you have gone through it and won't have to keep persuing a person who never would be with you. You will be able to find that person who would love you for who you are, not saying it will be easy but you won't have that false hope. I know I said this to the girls but it applies for all genders. Also would say that I might sound like i'm only writing my views on straight couples but that would be because I'm talking through my own experience but it is open for everyone, you maybe a lesbian, gay, bisexual or straight but finding that 'right one' is the same for all. It might be funny to say but I did love that old couple from the movie UP. I learnt that you don't need the perfect one in you life, you just need someone to love you and take you as their only one.

Where can we find the mysterious "Mr/Miss Perfect"?


I know that this cartoon couple showed me that the perfect partner isn't the one who has the most money or the one who has the most hot and sexy looks. He or She will be the one who can make you smile when you least expect it, who will imagine a future with you, they will be the one who takes care of you and is there beside you at your best and worst times. You will come to love not the perfect one but the one who may be imperfect but you see them as the perfect partner through your heart.


I will end this take on a note that don't look for the perfect one through your lists but use it as a guide or as a past experience to fall in love with someone who really cares. Don't limit yourself cause with that image of the perfect partner your limiting your chances to find true love. Despite the fact that this world is filled with more than 7 billion people, with only going for very high expectations will only end with less than 30 matches. Do have expectations which will get you a good partner but not very high ones where the right one might just give up trying to fulfil your expectations.

Where can we find the mysterious "Mr/Miss Perfect"?
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