I like the female gender. But growing up you realize that there are different kinds of them, some of them you like more, some of them lesser and some you really despise. I for one didn't even hear the term "real lady" or "real woman" and so I want to mark the beginning of it. Of course everyone has a different opinion but here is mine if you value it.
Disclaimer: I may suck at this (trying to consider the concepts of being a lady) but I am trying my best.
Being a real lady-
is not about how much money you have.
is not about how good you give blowjobs or are in bed.
is not about how tomboyish or nerdy you are.
is not about how much make up you wear.
is not about how often sex you had or how you are sexually.
is not about how many dresses you have or how much you love shopping.
is not about having breast implants or surgically-beauty-operations.
is not about being the hot and pretty, sweet doll or striving to look like Jessica Rabbit.
So what makes a real lady?
1. A real lady will not hinder, sabotage, undermine or disturb her man or her children from their goals and wishes.
Seriously, the last thing a man needs is yet another obstacle for his goals. Quite many men do have goals, which they want to achieve and some of them grow impatient. A real lady also would consider the goals of her children, whatever they decide to become they have their reasons. Same goes for the man, his goals are not without a reason.
This is just an example of what is supporting emotionally and it does give inner boost to willpower, knowing someone actually cares for them. Much better!
2. A real lady will be considerate and understanding.
She won't have issues with someone having personal characteristics such as hobbies, interests, preferences, belief or philosophy. She does understand why someone decided to have these and is cool with it.
She does not try to change anyone and does accept the person for whoever it is.
That doesn't mean she should be shut! No, never. She has the right to voice her own opinion and suggestions like a true friend and supporter. Or talk like a very rational open-minded person.
Additionally a real lady will not expect the man to solve every problem. It takes two to tango!
3. A real lady will be loyal.
This is actually androgynous but it still does apply.
No one in his right mind would consider an easy clubbing party-girl a relationship-material.
Regardless what happens and which barriers are to come, both parties will work it out through thin and thick.
That also means if the man has financial issues, she will stand beside him and not jump onto another. This is something, that the soldiers (who are mostly men today) in the army learn very quickly. A true lady who is loyal can be seen as her own kind of a soldier.
A true lady stands besides her lover even if it's them both against the world!
4. A real lady will never try to prove herself superior through fighting or heartbreaking others because that's not how she handles insecurities.
This goes almost without saying. A real lady does not pick up fights on the others especially if she fights the males and calls them gay AND doesn't expect to get hit back. Generally that's androgynous too: Fighting to prove something is just considered immature (it's fine if for someone it's a hobby as a rule of exception).
However playful fights or competitive fights are different stories.
5. A real lady will never allow her temporary emotions claim and drive the best of her. She will never yell and scream at the others on purpose. She will also NEVER let her frustrations out on the others, who didn't influence.
Another thing, that virtually any man cannot stand is a constantly screaming woman. I call them sirens.
Don't get me wrong: Emotions can be strong and it's not easy to control them. Life is at times sad and dreadful and when this happens, to some their emotions will start to drive them out of control and commit something, that later on they will regret because they were too emotionally driven. Not only the woman would suffer from the outcome but the victim too! To me it seems like yet another excuse where the same can be applied to drunk people, forgetting what they did because the liquor hit them.
A real lady would never scream at someone for no valid reason. Almost anything can be expressed in a calm state where the voice loudness is not exceeding an ear ringing decibel level.
A real lady would never unleash her frustrations out on somebody else, who didn't influence her.
6. A real lady is not mysterious!
A real lady see's no point in holding back what she is thinking or feeling which she wishes to share. She see's no point in making it a riddle or mind-gaming.
She just takes it, gets to the point politely and expresses herself.
She's worried about an event? She say's it.
She wants to know where someone has been so long? She questions it.
She wants to try a new sex position she really pleases? She asks for it!
She has an idea what to do? She speaks it!
That's it. You don't have to beat yourself up. All these characteristics are easily obtainable and require no amount of material to possess them.
Just take care of yourselves well and it will be fine.
Inspired by: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a28429-what-makes-a-real-man-6-essential-things
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