5 Reasons Why I Love Being In a Relationship

[Anonymous]

Recently I met someone and it is still early. But this is stuff I simply had to share. Things I had forgotten in life which this guy has now reminded me of... The reasons to love life...

1) I have a partner in crime

This is one of the most fun parts. Knowing you can get up to no good and corrupt him the same way he can with you (in mostly legal ways of course!). I dunno there just has to be the spark of banter there so you just know there will be good times ahead!

2) He has my back

This is an important one to me after a relationship where the guy did not. I can take care of myself, I am a big girl but knowing if someone even thought about harming me that he would want to tear them limb from limb is a good feeling. The same feeling I of course have if anyone was to hurt him.

3) I am part of something and that something is great

It's bigger than me and it's bigger than him because it is us together. A whole future of unknowns which you will happily jump into hand in hand whereas alone you wouldn't be brave enough. This is less partner in crime, more he and I v's the world!

4) The sex is great

This is a given irrelevant of his or my skills. The feelings involved when we are together bring me to new highs I never even thought existed. You can have good sex, but the great sex needs to be with someone great!

5) The Nook

I know all you ladies (and possibly some men) know about the nook. Its that space in his shoulder where no matter what is going on in your life you feel better. The safe place. A tip for guys here, never say anything negative or give your girl bad news in the nook. It ruins its magic!

For those who miss it and want it I know it will be there for you soon too!

[Anonymous]

I could not agree more with this, i love being with my boyfriend. We do so many amazing things together and i love all the gestures and romantic stuff he does and one of my favorite things to do for him is to cook his favorite meals every once in a while and just being next to him while he holds me... mhmm, there is literally no feeling as good as that. Oh and that "nook" is heaven for me too. I love it, we compliment each other and its almost like we dance to our own rhythm through life. Its beautiful when you are in love

[gobsmacked3]

I think it is so about how you compliment and complete each other

Very much like two beings in perfect synergy as if they are one

[Anonymous]

Isn't relationship for most women when it comes to men an obedient puppy dog who showers her with gifts, romance, and makes her feel special while also being her entertainer and giving her regular dickings?

[Afrochick]

and his regular pussy fucking?

[myTake Owner]

nah its about more than that for me :)

[Anonymous]

and now lets get to the real deal. lust and the inability to live alone. that's what makes most serial daters to always be in a relationship and not be able to do otherwise.

[orphan]

nothing don't with that

[myTake Owner]

Not at all... A relationship for me is a mental connection with someone. That is the whole point of this. Not just having someone be there.

[Opinion Owner]

nonsense. i can have a much greater "mental connection" with a colleague or a friend.

[myTake Owner]

just means you haven't met someone worthy yet...

[mermaidrocketship]

I love this! It gives me hope! :-)

[myTake Owner]

At 21 I hadn't had this yet so don't worry!

[19MK34]

I've never had a relationship, I'm just too ugly for them.

[myTake Owner]

I am sure this isn't true!

[19MK34]

Of course it is, why would I lie?

[myTake Owner]

because you are down on yourself... You most likely see something others do not.

[19MK34]

Then why do women not want to date or even speak to me as soon as they see me? What else could it be?

[Anonymous]

Aww <3 these are the same reasons why I love being in a relationship. My boyfriend is the best.

[Roxasthekid]

Lol five minutes later on GAG "he's cheating on me what do I do?" XD

[Anonymous]

5 reasons why relationships suck:

1. Women leech off men
2. Women expect special treatment
3. Women threaten to leave
4. Women play games
5. Women nag you to death

[Opinion Owner]

the list goes on...

[matt1209]

I agree with the game playing

[Opinion Owner]

The rest are also facts of life... at least... generally

[myTake Owner]

1) I know plenty men who leach off women.
2) Not all of us, we treat men how we expect to be treated
3) Only if you treat us badly
4) Not all of us.
5) Again not all of us but it depends on what you see as nagging. If we have asked you politely 100 times to help us with something then number 3 shows up.

Sounds like you don't want to make the effort for the right type of girl? A good relationship is not that hard!

[Anonymous]

Slightly off topic, but you ever catch feelings for someone early on, like 1-2 dates, but get self conscious and self aware about it so you don't get too ahead of yourself so you don't scare them off?

[myTake Owner]

If you hold back too much you can miss out though! The right girl won't care!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, what I mean is you can still stay in touch but not moving too fast or getting too serious soon.

Me and this girl are still talking but she doesn't initiate contact much so I'm being a little cautious about it.

[Doffydood]

Reading number 5 made me look at my shoulder. I had no idea the nook existed! :p

[Anonymous]

Reading this makes me sad, because the guy I like hasn't replied back to me :( I guess some people just won't ever experience that happiness is feeling right now...

[myTake Owner]

Maybe he is just busy? Tell me whats happened...

[Opinion Owner]

There's a guy I know personally whom I've been talking to for the last two weeks. He told me that he was attracted to me and wanted to get to know me better. He even asked me out. He usually replies within seconds when we talk back and forth. However, it gets to a point where he stops responding and takes 3 days to initiate a new conversation. I followed up with his offer to go out one day and asked if he still wanted to hang out. He said "yes!!! sorry I've been busy". We were in the middle of making plans to go out until I suggested that he choose what to do instead. He has not responded since I sent that last text.
It has now been 5 days since I last heard from him. I'm just worried that I may never hear from him again... I really do like him and believed that he felt the same way with all of the conversations we had. 5 days is 2 days past his normal texting behavior. He does have a busy life, but I'm not sure if he just lost interest or hasn't decided what to say...

[myTake Owner]

Suggest doing something maybe he doesn't like the pressure of deciding what to do... My most recent guy and I went bowling on our first date and it was loads of fun!

[Opinion Owner]

Do you think he hasn't replied because he hasn't decided what to do? How should I tell him after not talking to him for days?

[myTake Owner]

I think you should just drop a message saying 'Hey I wanna (input activity) you coming' and see what he says :)

[Opinion Owner]

I asked him and he said, "yes, been working a ton of off-duty". Do you think he would've said yes if he wasn't interested in me?

[myTake Owner]

no... just don't look too far into it... x

[NatashaaaDream]

Lmfao this is the funniest thing I've heard , first of all relationships dont even last second guys only want to use and fuck you in, relationships. Third the girl probably is a whore and is cheating at the same time.

[myTake Owner]

Don't judge us all by your own standards please

[Roxasthekid]

True true XD

[AriadneSky]

really nice take :)

[Anonymous]

Love it! Couldn't agree more!

[CancerianMan81]

great MyTake I agree with everything you say

[CancerianMan81]

it's an awesome feeling I know that

[Anonymous]

Meanwhile... All the single people be >:(

[Anonymous]

Was this made for me? The 17 yr old

[Loveherbut]

To be honest I find all of them not real

[myTake Owner]

why is this?

[Loveherbut]

Because there is no realtioship make u feel like a part of simething bigger... And is not necessarily that u both would like to do the same stuff... And having ur back well guess what most people now are selfish even family won't have ur back so u expect a complete stranger to have ur back just because u r his girlfriend believe or not chances are u will be disappointed... And great sex well thats not always the case many partners have complete different needs in sex so great sex doesn't automatically comes with being in relationships... Last thing what u called feeling save and no issues well believe me if u don't feel safe on ur own this temporarily safe feeling will crushu when everything end no one would give u safty and its not a nice thing to do lying there expecting everything to be perfect thats just in the movies.