This myTake is about having a long-term partner. The real question is "Do you deserve one?"
1. You're insecure
Your insecurity would negatively affect this poor person, which is why nobody likes to be with an insecure person. No one deserves an insecure partner.
2. You're immature
Let's face it; relationships are not for immature people who don't fully know what they put themselves into. Relationships are for people (teenagers and adults) who think/act like adults, not for people who think/act like kids. Sex is definitely not for immature people because sex can lead to unplanned pregnancy and STDs.
3. You don't like to listen
What's the point of someone being in a relationship with you if you won't listen to him/her? No one likes to be ignored and no one deserves to be ignored in a relationship.
4. You have commitment issues
If you can't commit to one person then you shouldn't be in a long-term relationship. You shouldn't be wasting someone's time. No one deserves a person with commitment issues.
5. You're emotionally or physically abusive
This one doesn't need to be explained. There is no place for any kind of abuse in a relationship.
6. You haven't moved on
How are you supposed to start a new relationship if you haven't moved on from your previous relationship or your crush? No one likes to be part of a rebound.
7. You're selfish
Let's be real here; you can't be selfish in a relationship. That's not how it works in a relationship. You have to sacrifice for your partner and you should reciprocate.
8. You're not honest
Liars don't deserve to be in relationships. No one deserves to be lied to, especially the person you will be emotionally intimate with. Your partner needs you to be honest with them. For example, if you don't want a long term relationship then you shouldn't lie about wanting one.
9. You only want people out of your league
Yes, this shows you're not worthy of a relationship because you're so irrational and immature. Before any relationship starts, you have to date people first. Let's face it; you're most likely going to get rejected by people out of your league. I mean, people prefer to date within their league... To be honest, I would never date someone out of my league. It makes you a hypocrite if you think they are shallow for rejecting you because how does it not make you shallow when you only want to date people out of your league?
10. You're busy
You're partner needs your time and attention. If you don't have the time and energy to show attention to him/her then why would you want a partner?
Now ask yourself, would you want to date a person who has any of these signs?
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