Why You Don't Need Negative People In Your Life

[whyisitso]

Each of us has probably been in a place where you feel like you have to make a choice whether a person is worth your time or not.

It is difficult and feelings often make us see the reality with blurry sight. You may think they will change or they didn't mean it. But in the end you gotta see that some people just isn't what they seem to be.

We all wanna be the responsible person who makes good choices and still knows how to enjoy life. We don't wanna throw a good friendship or relationship away just because of a few problems. Maybe you think: people make mistakes! Forgive them! Everyone deserves a second chance.

But what if it is their 120,000th mistake, what if you already have forgiven them for all of them, what if they destroy every chance they get? What do you get from it? Think about it: how much negativity does it bring to your life?

From own experiences I have learnt that only after you cut the negative out you see how much they have been weighing you down. It is like, you see it before it too, but you never realize how much it is. You don't see that the positive are very small compared to the bad.

Maybe you have a close friend that makes you annoyed all the time? Maybe that same friend makes you feel guilty all the time? Or maybe you have a fling with a person who constantly make it seem like you are making them let you down. Often negative people try to push the blame on you. They also complain all the time and are very self centered.

You need to put the boundaries there. You have the opportunity to back up and say: Hey I do not need this bad vibe in my life!

DO IT NOW. Vibrate higher.

[FrankReynolds]

Their negativity can hold you back. The worst ones are every time I try something new I get "I don't want to dash your hopes but I don't think you can do this crap". If you that kind of idiot in your my advice put some good distance from the idiot, the farther the better. If you cut yourself from these people you will be surprised of what you can do'

[whyisitso]

I know! I had a friend who always wanted to do something, but never the things I suggested. She had also always something negative to say about everyone and everything. She also tried to scare a guy I really liked away 'cause she was jealous. She was jealous on everything I did. Soon everything she talked about was how jealous she was and then she tried to say mostly mean things to hurt me. I got very grumpy. She also called every day and tried to poison my mind and soon I realised that my other friends were not that close anymore. It was horrible but just what she wanted to do. So I had to cut her from my life. It was a hard but after I finally did it I felt so released! I felt more alive and soon my other friends were back and even better than before.

[Anonymous]

Agreed. I try to cut out every negative person in my life.

[legalboxers]

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[whyisitso]

Immidiately when I saw you had linked a video I thought of this song... 😂 it fits perfectly 👍

[legalboxers]

You know me :)

[martyfellow]

Unfortunately, people aren;t n neat groups labeled 'negative' and 'positive.'
Positive people have a negativ side to them, quite often.

[whyisitso]

But in this case I am talking about the people who have a bigger negative vibe and they make you also more negative. I mean, they lower your positivity. I think this is not anything to disagree with. I have met people that have been poisonous as hell... and I am a person who always tried to see the good in everything and everyone.

[DiegoO]

Because life is to short and to beautiful. Don't trow a diamond away, you might never get it back.