MGTOW, The Red Pill, Whatever... Real Men Don't Quit, They Improve

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MGTOW, The Red Pill, Whatever... Real Men Don't Quit, They Improve

Yeah, I know. A thousand guys just jumped up and said, "oh, so you're saying we have to improve now? Screw off!"

I understand the sentiment behind movements like MGTOW and The Red Pill, I really do. I, like every other man with eyes, has noticed some of the frustrating double standards that exist in society today. We all have the sneaking suspicion - and sometimes we damn well know it to be true - that women now have the upper hand in the job market, will always win the day in divorce court, and all a woman has to do to ruin a man's life is make a false sexual assault or harassment claim. Game over. Especially in a culture dumb enough to embrace the idea that "intent is irrelevant," which does indeed translate to "woman right, man wrong," and there isn't a damn thing you can do about it.

I'm well aware, guys. I promise.

But have you ever considered the possibility that running away from women, essentially doing what you can to distance yourselves from the opposite sex, is sort of...counterproductive? How is that going to help? What, the general philosophy or statement? You think the world's going to change because you're running away? Evasion and quitting has never solved anything, not at any point throughout human history. And if you're so gung-ho about the way men "should" be, wouldn't you support the idea of a man stepping up and facing this hurdle? You know, like a man?

MGTOW, The Red Pill, Whatever... Real Men Don't Quit, They Improve

If things really are tougher for men - and yes, I do believe they are, to some extent - your answer is to say nasty things about women and then run in the other direction? That's the playground reaction. That's what 6-year-olds do. "You no good bad doo-doo head!" 'scampers up a tree and sits there, sucking his thumb'

Point is, you're only making things worse. You're giving the enemy (and obviously, you do see women as the enemy) more ammunition. You give them more license to turn to their friends and say, "See? Men are all the same; they're all insensitive, alpha douchebags." If you want to battle the rising tide, you need to step up and try to prove them wrong because as of right now, you're proving far too many feminists right. It's mathematically and realistically impossible that every single woman on the planet is out to get you. So, be the best man you can be and approach them with the best part of yourself on full and vivid display.

Guys who subscribe to either the MGTOW or Red Pill ideology and do nothing to improve themselves, and consequently have little to offer women, have absolutely nothing to say. Just shut the hell up. If you sit at home and whine about how girls don't want anything to do with you, and you've got zero ambition and drive, the situation is your fault, not theirs. Now, if you're a determined, intelligent man and a good guy to boot, and you honestly believe you have a package (no pun intended) worth presenting to a female, you owe it to yourself to try. And don't get all dramatic when it doesn't work once. It may not work dozens of times. And newsflash: Women get frustrated and disappointed when romantic endeavors don't work out, too.

MGTOW, The Red Pill, Whatever... Real Men Don't Quit, They Improve

Got shot down? Get UP and try again. Oh, you think the girl rejected you 'cuz you're carrying a few extra pounds? Fine, lose 'em. You think the woman didn't want you because of your dead-end job? Okay, get some ambition; try a new career or go back to school. A girl thinks you're not the greatest lover in the world? Oh, the humanity! Yeah, it's a wicked sting for any guy but hey, maybe you're not the greatest lover in the world. Maybe you can get better.

Maybe you can get better in more ways than one. In the end, let me just say this: If you really believe you've exhausted all possibilities in life when it comes to self-improvement and offering women what you have, and it still isn't working, okay. I sort of get the whole MGTOW and Red Pill thing. But how many men out there really have exhausted all the possibilities? How many are simply too petrified to look in the mirror and maybe accept some of the blame? Only when you've convinced yourself that the blame lies entirely on the other side can you throw up your hands and go, "Fuck it, I quit."

Until then, be a man. Please.

MGTOW, The Red Pill, Whatever... Real Men Don't Quit, They Improve
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