My Experiences With Females So Far

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I'll tell you of my experiences with women so far, this Take isn't meant to offend anyone. I just think it's fun to share my experiences with females.

My first communication with females started when I was in kindergarten, obviously I didn't have romantic feeling for them because I was little. I remember how girls also didn't have romantic feelings for boys either. We play together during recess and help each other during group work in class but we didn't flirt with each other.

My Experiences With Females So Far

1st-3rd grade: That's when I actually made more female friends. I remember when I was in 1st- 2nd grade there were two girls who would call me cute. They would both hug me and they would take pictures with me during field trips. I didn't think much about it until now. When I look at those pictures I get watery eyes because now I know that those two girls did care about me as if I were a brother to them. People would call me adorable when I was little and I started growing a mustache in 2nd grade. In 3rd grade I would talk to everybody, I developed my first crush for a girl.

My Experiences With Females So Far

4th grade: I remember 4th grade when I got along very well with the girls in my class. There were two specific girls that I became good friends with. They were so polite, they had the "awww he's so cute." View of me. I remember when I slipped in the school hallway and fell on the ground/pavement, I was embarrassed. I remember hearing one of the two girls say "oh my God!" both came to help me get on my feet. They asked me if I was alright to which I replied that I'm fine. I didn't think much of it until now.

It warms my heart to think that in total, there were 4 girls that cared about me. I also stopped crushing on the girl from the previous year and developed a crush on another girl. Rumors would spread about who likes who. Since I started puberty in 4th grade at 11 years old, that was the year when I started to develop sexual feelings and kinks only for older girls though, although I didn't know they were sexual feelings. Whenever I saw a teenage or young adult gothic girl with tight pants and a navel piercing I would get so aroused. I was only 11 years old so I didn't know what sex was.

My Experiences With Females So Far

5th grade: I got along with most girls at the beginning of that school year. This was also the year I started to become interested in fitness, so I started exercising. I started using Hand grippers for my hands and forearms. I was also the strongest, fastest boy, one of the tallest boys and I had the deepest voice in the school. Most of the girls were so nice to me. I also continued to have a crush on the same girl. It turned out that she had a crush on me in 4th grade but she got over it in 5th grade. It seemed like a good a year for me until the middle of that year when some kid told my crush that I had a crush on her. She told everyone and soon all of her female friends which were almost half of the female students in fifth grade became hostile towards me.

I don't know why she took it so personal that I had a crush on her. However there were still a lot of girls that were very nice to me. Towards the end of the school year, I found out that some students would go to one middle school and rest to another middle school. I was sad to know that my crush would go the middle school I wasn't going to. Even though she treated me badly I still liked her. I'll admit that had bad fashion in Elementary school. I think that might be why my former crush treated me badly. The last day of school, I felt happy because it was summer vacation and because I would move on to 6th grade. I felt sad because I wouldn't be in the same school. When the bell to end the school day rang, I saw most of the girls crying because it was the last day of Elementary school. I almost cried as most of the boys were trying to hold in tears as well.

My Experiences With Females So Far
6th-8th grade: The summer after 5th grade, I started to change my fashion. Instead of wearing baggy sweatpants, I started to wear Skinny jeans. In that summer vacation, I went to Las Vegas Nevada for a week. I remember checking out all the beautiful women in the Vegas strip and I would glance at their bare midriffs, it was such a fun vacation.

On the first day of 6th grade, I showed up to school in skinny Jeans. Most of the students I knew from fifth grade were surprised to see that I changed my fashion. Even the girls that were nice to me complimented me on my fashion. I made a lot of new friends in both genders. There was a girl that would compliment me on my deep voice. She would then give me a note, the note said "Hello, I like you" with a heart. I couldn't believe that the most beautiful girl in the school had a crush on me.

I remember arriving to school one day and the girls I knew from Elementary school ran up to me and greeted me "Hi!" They were smiling and blushing. I couldn't believe even more girls were giving me attention. 6th grade seemed like my best academic year. Not only was I doing excellent in academics, I also was getting attention from a lot of girls. The following year, the girl that gave me note continued to flirt with me and I flirted with her as well. In the middle of that year, I made the mistake of bragging during a class presentation that the girl had a crush on me. I even mentioned her name to the class, soon the rumor spread around the school that I liked this girl and that girl started to avoid me. She would treat me badly and would make fun of me. I started to avoid her as well.

My Experiences With Females So Far

Half way through 7th grade I got my first girlfriend, I thought she was the most beautiful girl ever. She looked like Amy Smart. We would hang out during snack and lunch. We would get unwanted attention from many other students. The relationship only lasted a month, it was clear that the relationship wasn't working since we only saw each other in school during snack and lunch.

At a party I attended, there was a girl that I met, we instantly started flirting. She approached me first. We watched TV together, we actually snuggled. We kept talking, eventually she gently rubbed my right thigh, I was in shock as she giggled. That was the first time a girl ever tried to seduce me. After the party, the girl confessed that she liked me. I told her that I like her as well. After I left the party and returned to my house, I couldn't take my mind off her for a few months.

My Experiences With Females So Far

Towards the end of 7th grade, many girls would flirt with me. At snack and lunch a group of girls would approach me and flirt with me but unfortunately they weren't very attractive. During my physical education class, there were two girls that were very friendly, they would call me "deep voice guy".

I remember how I used to feel sympathy for girls that suffered misfortunes. I would actually care about women. That was because these women were nice, they weren't rude.

In 8th grade I was desperate for a girlfriend, however since I'm a shy person I didn't approach any girls. I waited patiently for girls to approach me. I remember two girls in my English clash that would always stare at me and smile. On my birthday, they gave me a note saying "Happy birthday" with a heart on it. I thanked them, these girls were very nice to me. I remember, there were other girls that stared at me during class. One "skater girl" in my drama class, a German girl and two gothic girls in my history class would stare and smile at me while they gently bit their bottom lips.

The last day of 8th grade was kind of emotional, because we are all moving on to high school. There were two female twins that were very friendly with me, we would hang out during the "8th grade party". 6th-8th grade were fun years but 7th grade was the year I learned about the infamous misandrists and white knights but I didn't pay too much attention those people.

My Experiences With Females So Far

High school: I have so many memories of high school. The high school I went to was very fun because there weren't any stupid school uniforms and the dress code wasn't strict. Technically you weren't allowed to use bad words but the teachers "looked the other way" if someone cussed. The only place you couldn't cuss was in class but the teachers didn't punish students who cussed in class. They just told the student t watch their language. Even some teachers cussed.

In the first year of high school(ninth grade), I met new friends. Although I didn't have too many female friends. I was too shy to talk to girls. I only talked to the ones that sat next me in my classes. I remember health class were the teacher was so nice and hilarious. That was my favorite class because everyone got along. There was one girl in that class that would always stare at me. I never knew who she was.

In my science class the teacher was also nice, I did communicate with some of the girls but there was one girl I didn't like, she sat next me. She was obviously a misandrist and that was the first misandrist I communicated with, I couldn't believe the nonsense that came out of her mouth. She would constantly claim that women are superior to men but would say that she likes guys, she fit the stereotypical physical description of a misandrist; she wore skirts, she had dyed hair, she had a rude look on her face, she was rude and she was chubby (no offense to chubby people).

One day during group work, she stuck her finger in my navel for no reason. Thankfully when I asked my science teacher to move her away, the teacher moved this girl away from me to another assigned seat. I always get along with my teachers, my science teacher would always greet me with fist bumps and he would always ask me if any students were bothering me.

My Experiences With Females So Far

In 10th grade I realized that I could compete for school popularity against my former crush from 6th grade that made fun of me. She relied on her good looks for attention while I used my charisma and my good looks for attention. During classes whenever I gave class presentations, everyone would show respect as I gave my class presentations. All the girls in class would smile at me and I could see their breathing pattern change. Even whenever the teacher would want to hear each student's opinion on a subject, I would give the best opinions and correct answers to the teacher's questions. I know a lot of stuff from reading books and stuff on the Internet. The girls in my classes seemed to like how I am knowledgeable.

Soon everyone in the school knew who I was and my former crush who relied on her good looks lost her popularity. I also met another girl, she would always stare at me during class. She even asked me if I needed help with my class work, I told her that it's alright, it's easy. We would both smile at each other during class. The weird thing is that she reminded me of one of my cats. As a compliment I told her that she reminds me of my cat. I even told her that it's a compliment. She would smile at me.

From then on we became friends. So every once in a while I would playfully call her my cat's name and she would smile. There is another girl that reminds me of my other cat so I playfully call her my cat's name. Sure enough we became friends. In my biology class there were two girls that invited me to their desk. In that class the teacher was so lenient that she let the students move around the class and be on their phones. The two girls that invited me to their desk were friendly and kind of funny. I remember that one of them would rub my thighs and ask me if I liked it to which I said "I don't know" she giggled but we kept talking about our hobbies so it was nice to talk to two girls.

My Experiences With Females So Far

In 11th grade: I continued to use my charisma in my classes, however misandry started to become popular amongst girls. A lot of girls would like to bash men. There were three misandrists in my Sociology class, part of the class was debating in class on controversial topics. The three misandrists would simply bash men in all of their arguments. I would use logic to counter their statements. Apart from being misandrists they showed another bigotry; racism. They criticized Asian-Americans based on stereotypes and I would argue against their bigotry by using logic. Eventually the three misandrists would shut up and the rest of the year went smoothly.

My Experiences With Females So Far

Those three misandrists made me realize how dangerous misandry is. I realized that misandry was corrupting the minds of women. I also realized that it was turning some men into white knights. I investigated on the Internet and saw how much damage to men that the feminazis/misandrists were causing. For a while I lost compassion for women that had problems because I started to be angry at women. Until I realized that not all women are feminazis/misandrists. I was so happy to know that there were groups like the Men's rights activists and Egalitarians that are fighting the feminazis/misandrists.

I created a Facebook, Instragram and Twitter account and on Facebook I found Men's rights activist pages and Egalitarian pages. I "liked" those pages and learned even more about misandry. I realized that men and hopefully women need to unite to fight misandry. Those pages even have female followers who are MRAs.

I asked my female friends what they think about feminism and they told me that they hate feminism. I'm not a misogynist, I just despise all bigotry like misandry.

My Experiences With Females So Far

12th grade: This was my senior year of high school which was last year (2015). The whole school year went smoothly and I made new friends. Since I had a public speaking class I used my charisma during speeches. While students were disruptive during other students speeches, they stayed quite during my speeches because I gained respect from everyone.

My Experiences With Females So Far

A few months after high school/college: I started to wonder if women actually found men physically attractive. I wondered if women are as visual as men. I wondered:" If women find men visually/sexually attractive, then why don't they check men out?" It really angered me because I thought perphaps women don't find men attractive. I started to think that women looked at men in the same way us straight men look at other men. I thought that perhaps they only liked men for their personalities.

I then thought "Why don't women get excited when they see shirtless men at pools? Why don't women ever call men sexy or hot? Why don't women ever acknowledge a man's good looks in the same way us men acknowledge a woman's beauty? Why don't women ever call men handsome? Why don't women get turned on by how a man looks?!" Then I noticed "straight" women checking out other women and that angered me. I thought that perhaps all women were either asexuals or lesbians(no offense). I started to think how blessed/lucky women are to be so beautiful. I even wondered if perhaps women are lesbians since women are so beautiful. I was going to ask some of my female friends to help me understand women but then I remembered about this website(GirlsaskGuys). So I decided to create a account here.

Now you know why I asked so many questions about female behavior. The first few questions I asked sort of made feel better but then I heard some women say that they find women more aesthetically appealing than men but they find men more sexually attractive though. That angered me some more. How can a straight woman find women more aesthetically appealing than men?! Then a lot of women told me that men's bodies are ugly and that's it's all about his personality, his scent, confidence, his talents/skills, how he makes the woman feel and money, I started to cry due to anger.

To me that's not love or attraction. I thought if women don't like how men look, then why do they even date us? Why don't they date women instead? I started to worry because I want my future girlfriend to like me in the same way that I like her. I won't date a woman that only likes me for my personality, scent or my talents. That's not love! I want her to love me for everything: my looks, my personality and my talents.

My Experiences With Females So Far

For a while I thought how unfortunate that a man can't be beautiful. Only women can be beautiful. The only way a man can be beautiful is if he is feminine looking(no offense). I thought too bad us masculine men can't be beautiful. Until a lot of people said that Handsome is the male equivalent of beautiful. Then I felt a little bit better. I wondered if women only liked feminine guys but thankfully most women said they prefer masculine guys.

It disturbed me to think that women aren't visual. Then I kept asking questions here and women told me that they are visual and they like how men look. When I asked them what they like about men they only said eyes, smiles and jawbones. I wondered "Is that all?" It disappointed me. So I asked if that was all women like. Some women said they also like lips, certain types of cheekbones, overall face, body, and everything about men.

Some of the women here knew how stressed I was so they tried to assure me that women do like how men look. Some women even said that they find men more aesthetically and sexually appealing than women. A lot of women say they find the entire face and body of a man aesthetically, sexually and physically appealing. That made me feel better. I'm glad that straight women are real. I hope that those women are being sincere.

My Experiences With Females So Far

Now that I go to college I see more and more women staring at me. Since I wear sunglasses I spotted on various occasions, women staring at me. Most women only move their eyeballs to look at me, it's the way many women say that they are subtle. I am almost certain that women are visual.

I want to get married to a beautiful woman and have kids after I graduate from college and get a well paying job. Now you know my experiences with women so far. Occasionally I wonder if women are actually visual and care about men but I always assure myself that women are visual, a lot of women do love men and a lot of women find men more aesthetically, sexually and physically appealing than women. I'm sure I'll make more female friends. I actually keep in touch with most of the girls I mentioned here(not my 6th grade crush or the misandrists) through social media, I even keep in touch with my ex girlfriend and the two girls that remind me of my cats. Anyways, I hope you enjoyed my Take.

My Experiences With Females So Far
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