How to Make Her Love You Forever

ElissaDido

Disclaimer: If you're a MGTOW and/or hate women, this MyTake is not for you.

The following notions intermingle. They are not rules but they can definitely give you glimpses of what many of us like, want and sometimes even need.

How to Make Her Love You Forever

1. Make her feel physically safe

He hugs you and makes you feel small, safe and secure. His arms feel more like home than any house ever did...

How to Make Her Love You Forever

On average, men are stronger than women, it's a fact. In most societies, men have been expected to be their women's protectors since the beginning of times and this need to feel physically safe and protected by their man is still present in many modern-day women.

How to Make Her Love You Forever

Sometimes, just hold her and make her feel safe and loved.

2. Make her feel emotionally safe

How to Make Her Love You Forever

Don't give her a reason to feel jealous, don't give her a reason not to trust you and doubt you.
For example: Don't like your ex's photos, don't go out with your ex as "friends", don't flirt with other women, don't compare her to other women (duh).

Don't be inconsistent in showing your love to her , she can start worrying and start asking questions.

Is something wrong with me? Why is he avoiding me? Does he really love me? Only a week ago he was telling me he loved me to the moon and back, so why is he ignoring me now?

How to Make Her Love You Forever

Do not confuse her.

3. Make her feel desired

How to Make Her Love You Forever

We love to feel desired by the man we love. Nothing else to add.

There's nothing we desire more than to be desired.

4. Don't ignore her, make time for her.

How to Make Her Love You Forever

Make time for your woman! Even if you're extremely busy sometimes, try to reassure her, tell her you're busy because *insert reason*.


It's your wife/girlfriend don't keep her on read and ignore her. If you're busy you can postpone answering your other messages or phone calls and you can prioritize, making her, your work and your family your priority.

5. Make her feel loved

How to Make Her Love You Forever

Women most times feel the constant need to be reassured, tell her you love her. Do small gestures of love and romance, kiss her, hold her hand, hug her.

6. Give her attention!

Often times, some men claim that women are "attention whores" and love to get attention from men. It's partially true, we love attention, actually we crave it, but from OUR MAN. A woman in love doesn't care nor need the attention of any other man besides her own.

Hey babe! I'm here. NOTICE ME!

How to Make Her Love You Forever
How to Make Her Love You Forever

I personally like to tease or even sometimes provoke him just to get a reaction! I prefer having a reaction even if it's a small argument over than feeling like he's not paying me (enough) attention!

Sometimes, when she pushes you away and asks you to leave her alone, it's just a cry for attention. She wants you to understand her and be there for her.

How to Make Her Love You Forever

Yes. We can be quite complicated sometimes.

7. Always keep on cultivating your love

How to Make Her Love You Forever

If you don't keep watering the plant, it will die. Just like how her love can slowly decrease if she feels neglected.

If you don't make time for her she can slowly get used to not having you around her and the emotional distance may eventually make her stop loving you all-together or make her stop loving you the same way as she might of previously have.

How to Make Her Love You Forever
How to Make Her Love You Forever

Don't neglect your woman.

8. Make her feel like you're willing to burn the world for her

Unconditional love, you are piece of her and she is a piece of you.

I have heard more than once women telling me that they initially fell in love with their Husband/Boyfriend because of the how much they loved them and were willing to do A LOT for them.

How to Make Her Love You Forever

9. Make her your number 1 confidant

How to Make Her Love You Forever

It will make her feel like you trust her but also value her opinion and advice.

10. Respect her

How to Make Her Love You Forever

Not only her, but also her family, background and things/people she cares about. If you want a healthy relationship with her you can't be dismissing her and her entourage.
Respect her opinion.
Respect her as a person.
Respect her physical integrity obviously.
Respect her feelings .
And the list goes on....

How to Make Her Love You Forever


Example: Your wife gained 20 pounds?
First of all, if you truly love her you will still be attracted to her, just like if she truly loves you, she will still be attracted to you even after you start loosing your hair and growing a beer belly.
Instead of mocking her or disrespecting her, kingly and genuinely help improve her lifestyle primarily for her own good and health.


11. Prove her that you deserve her trust

How to Make Her Love You Forever

Don't DEMAND or expect her to fully trust you if you have already broken her trust in the past. You love her? You care about her? Show her that you do. Prove it. Actions speak louder than words.

How to Make Her Love You Forever

I wanted to add: I'm not trying to claim that this is what every single woman wants or needs, but these are things that I gathered from many of my friends and from myself.

How to Make Her Love You Forever
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