Why Girls Should be Careful in Relationships

Anonymous

I don't mean that you have to be so paranoid or overly insecure, but girls in general have to be a bit more careful than guys. Guys have a long history of courting or asking girls out on dates to 'get the girl'..that's all apart of the challenge. The girls on the other hand actually take relationships a bit more seriously, when someone asks her out..she assumes that the guy genuinely is interested in her. YES. There are guys out there, who are genuine but there's guys who are out there because they're lonely(desperate), thirsty, or bored. When the guy gets the girl and he completely has her swooning over him, he gets bored and the girl experiences heartbreak.

Why Girls Should be Careful in Relationships

1. Girls feel the need to be protected.

The want to be in the arms of someone who will protect them (not that they can't protect themselves), the need in an evolutional sense is there. The non-serious guys will provide the illusion that she is perfectly safe in his arms.

2. They believe what you say.

They believe you when you tell them that you love them. They believe it when you tell them that you never felt this strongly for anyone else before. They believe you when you promise to stay with them until the end. FATAL MISTAKE. When the guy (the guy who was playing around) leaves, the girls have a hard time accepting and realizing that it was all words with no meaning to it.

3. The break up

The guy apparently loses feelings for her in a day. He will say that it's about him and not her. He's too busy and he think that they should just be friends for now. (for now- in case he get bored of being single or in case he doesn't find anyone else)

4. When they are betrayed, they feel confused and wonder what they did wrong.

Which bring me to my next point. They feel that they're at fault when all of that 'love' turns into nothing, even though they have done nothing wrong. There's no reason for it, guys who will play around will play around without reason.

5. Girls are hurt and emotional.

Then the harsh reality kicks in and it hurts the girl's self confidence and affects how she perceives herself. She cries to herself because she never loved someone that much before, when it wasn't really love in the first place.

Be strong and be bold. Don't fall for lies and traps when guys use words to get into your pants, it's fuck-boy proof. When you meet someone who really loves you, you will know by his actions. He doesn't stay short-term and he doesn't stay until you stop crying. He will stay for the good and the bad sides to your relationship.

Why Girls Should be Careful in Relationships

Why Girls Should be Careful in Relationships
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