5 Reasons Why I Enjoy Having a Gamer Boyfriend

[Kayla43]

In this day in age video games have been becoming very popular among teens and young adults, gamers are growing in numbers everyday. Here is some reasons why I think having a gamer boyfriend is fun!

1. He Doesn't Give Up

Even if he's not playing a game and struggles to do something he will always see it through. He's always happy to help out and solve problems, if something is wrong I can always count on him to help fix it. Gamers never fuss about a problem they work until they can fix it!

2. He Loves To Play With Friends

It's no secret every man or woman wants friends to hang out or even play a game with. With a gamer boyfriend I don't have to worry about waiting for a turn, I know there is a controller waiting for me when I want to play. He's very happy to play with me and that makes me feel happy, it bonds us together even more over a good game.

3. He's Not Clingy

By far the best thing about dating a guy who is a gamer is he lets you have free space! I can go out with friends without him crying over my shoulder and asking when I'll be home. He's totally cool with it, and when I do come home we usually hang out and play games together with zero drama. We can give each other space and it won't be a big deal.

4. He Compromises

It's so easy to get along with him, nothing is ever a problem when we can agree on just about anything or come to a compromise. "Want to play Call of Duty?" He will ask and if I'm not feeling like it I'll say "That's cool, but I want to play Battlefield" So we end up agreeing after a couple of matches in CoD we switch to Battlefield, or even the opposite where we play my game first together. It's not hard to compromise with a gamer.

5. He Doesn't Require Much Maintenance

He doesn't want anything fancy, he doesn't require constant attention, and best of all we don't argue about where we go to eat or what we order. He doesn't care about fancy outfits or the best looking cars, he just lives the basic lifestyle and is the one guy in the world who can rock super mario pajamas while playing games! :D He rocks that carefree look which to me I absolutely love.

Thank you so much for reading! :)

[vishna]

Oh my goodness, when a new update comes out or a new game, my boyfriend is lost to the world for a while, haha. It's ok though he can have his fun.

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah yeah, we know it's because he's too busy to cheat >.>

Lol just kidding.

[Unit1]

Hahahaha, good one ;D :D

[Kayla43]

XD I occasionally cheat just to tease him.. :p screen peeking, he always gets his jimmies rustled when I do that. :p

[AleDeEurope]

Hahahah that's evil lol

[coachTanthony]

I play call of duty... SMOOOVE NOOOB is my gamer tag and I love it. Nice Take

[DaniaMQ]

@Ydude 1, 2 and 4... so youuu ( "It's so easy to get along with him, nothing is ever a problem when we can agree on just about anything or come to a compromise" ) ❤

("I don't have to worry about waiting for a turn, I know there is a controller waiting for me when I want to play. He's very happy to play with me and that makes me feel happy" )

aaaand ("Even if he's not playing a game and struggles to do something he will always see it through. He's always happy to help out and solve problems, if something is wrong I can always count on him to help fix it." ) >>>> "I got this" xD

[SarahD094]

As a gamer girlfriend with a gamer boyfriend I totally love this. I met my boyfriend online through games. I'd say this is pretty spot on really. I get plenty of free time to myself and so does he because it works both ways. If he wants some space then that's fine I'll go play League for a few hours and then we'll hang out afterwards watching a film or something :D Sometimes it is a little hard to drag him away from his computer and into the real world but I'm sure I'm the same as well lol

[Infynis]

Oh god, don't tell them you met your boyfriend online! They can only take so much false hope!

[SarahD094]

@Infynis lmao I did though technically. A guy I was friends with at college met him on WoW about 10 years ago. I was a bit of a gamer girl so I used to join them when they played League of Legends (which was pretty much every night) and that's how we met. After a while I knew the group pretty well and was a full time member lol. Played all sorts of different games with them. Started talking to the guy more 1 on 1 (nearly put 1v1 then lmao oops).. 4 years later we admitted we'd liked each other for 2 years an finally met up in person. Not long after he asked me out.

[SarahD094]

He likes to tell everyone it was the longest courting of his life lmao

[samhradh_leannan]

Most of these characteristics are just part of being a mature person and knowing how to have a healthy relationship.

[Kayla43]

Yes, but it's also the reason why I love him. :) He can be a mature gamer, that's something hard to find in relationships like these. I'm fortunate to have him in my life. :) Thank you for your opinion.

[samhradh_leannan]

Very true. It's a blessing to find someone who is mature and knows how to be a good partner.

[Unit1]

I honestly don't see how all of these traits have a relation with being a gamer except 2.
I'd say gaming teaches logical/strategical thinking, multitasking and maybe a bit of education depending on the game. And reflexes. That's all.

Some good coop games are pretty good for this kind of relationship like Resident Evil 5, 6, Killing Floor and some other titles!

[Kayla43]

Not exactly with being a gamer but, the personality that comes with it. That's kinda where I was going with this. Thanks for your opinion, gave me some insight on how I could make these takes a bit better. :)

[Unit1]

Anytime!

[SkyrimAndHugs]

I like clingy boyfriends. It makes me feel very loved :) Anyways yeee gamer boyfriends are the best! I don't know how I'd ever manage to date a guy who's not a gamer!

[John_Doesnt]

I'm not clingy because I'd rather ignore my girlfriend than ignore my PS4.

[Kayla43]

That's perfectly okay. :) Thanks for your opinion.

[TripleAce]

It's cool. Love games. Played them for years. But I tend to notice most of the ambitious women above 25 are defiantly not a fan of her hubby playing video games

[WaterRat]

True. Just don't get frustrated if I don't want to play viddies with you all the time (i smell codependency? Play with other guys/girls and just be happy) unless it's Diablo...

[Unit1]

What about world of warcraft ;) ? or pay2win games? or overly grindy games, which drains your time constantly?

[WaterRat]

@Unit1 I never played those. I like more chill puzzley games without scary music and killing like the great Escape rooms but they make my eyes red o.0 I used to watch my brother play all kinds of arcade games when younger, my fave was this ninja game can't remember the name. He drained quarters like nothing.

[Hidden_P]

I agree.
At times I wish he would spend more time with me and help me and others I'm glad he leaves me alone.

[meatballs21]

Very true. It's true of a lot of hobbies but games can be more social than people realise. I'd hate to be the guy you describe who feels hopeless and helpless when his girlfriend wasn't there.

[Edymemelord]

Same thing with a gamer gifrlfriend ;D
And when they're both gamers it's awesome

[TheDevilInside]

When they're gaming, they ignore you. Like totally. And they compromise? Who says? As long as you don't ask them to compromise their gaming, sure. With gamers, you can only be their side chick. Those consoles are their true loves

[TuMeManques]

I'm glad it makes you happy. This is a good take but honestly a couple of these sound like negatives to me in a relationship.

[_Be_Just]

He sounds like a casual. Probably never even been to a tournament.

[Kayla43]

Yes, he's a casual gamer. :) He's always wanted to go to a tournament though, unfortunately because of time restraints this hasn't be able to be achieved yet..

[_Be_Just]

Well, I meant that to be derisive, but you're disappointingly civil in your response. Well, good luck to him if he ever gets the chance to go competitive. I've played in some locals for Mortal Kombat, Tekken, and a few others, and had a good time.

[Kayla43]

That's very cool, I suppose you a really big on fighting games?

[_Be_Just]

Yes, though I'm having a harder time fitting it in myself with my current course schedule and other responsibilities. I can see why time would be an issue.

[DiegoO]

For someone who don´t care to travel and discover the world I guest having a SO that lives in front of a screen is Ok.

[madhatters4]

i feel like all the traits you described here could be true of non-gamers and gamers may not have most if not all of these traits

[Lucifer_666]

Cool take. I used to be gamer a long time ago. It made me very lazy :P

[jestingdemon]

And this is why they need more couch coop games that aren't just shooters. There's a game for everyone out there but seriously what happened to multiplayer?

[Lopezz1999]

Exactly!

[jestingdemon]

@Lopezz1999 until they start producing more of them I guess we just have to deal with multiple tvs and consoles or pcs in the same room but the best games are still left out.

[scooogy]

I don't either, and I wouldn't consider myself a gamer.