The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

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Things to Avoid

Appearence Traits

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

1) It all begins with appearence. If she is dressed scantily, usually overpaints her face etc you know that chances are she is bad news. Do you really want a partner that needs to oversexualise herself to compensate for lack of character?

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

2) Her body language can't lie. If you see she is too anxious. She lights up cigarettes one after the other. Looks around worried constantly. Bites her nails frantically. You know problem is on the way.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).
The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

3) Eyes, the mirrors of the soul. If she has the 1000 cocks stare. You know what i'm talking about. If her eyes scream she rode the cock carousel since she had ponytails, you know there is no future there.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

Also if she has that cunning look, like she is planning to conspire the next genocide. You don't want to be with a cunning person, she'll manipulate your life to her liking and exhaust you holistically.

Or when her look is overly sad, you know you receive damaged goods from an ex.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

4) Overly quiet, and introverted appearence and avoidance of expression of character is suspicious as well. It takes discretion to tell a really introverted character from one that hides her foul side through a reclused facade.

Character traits

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

1) An obvious source of red flags is seeing how she treats others. Her parents, her friends, the waiters when you go out. All these are good indications of what to expect later in your relationship. The more spontaneous the reactions you sample the more accurate they are.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

2) Trashes people behind their backs and gossips. Has friends who are like that. Also trashes her exes. He had X thing, the other one Y thing. Believe me one day you will be in that list as well... . When you see women that claim they had the "asshole magnet" you know who the real asshole is... .

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

3) Is a self entitled little princess. Was brought up by her daddy as a little barbie princess.

4) Thinks men should always pay.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

5) Asks you about your salary, houses and material belongings. (I've heard from guys, that these can go as far as to put accountants to search your exact market value and fortune).

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

6) Is a pathological liar. Its not easy to spot these in the begining but sooner all later the lies begin to become incosistent. If you are careful enough you'll detect them.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

7) Is not congruent. Can't keep her word. Always is late in appointments and in her work. Forgets things. Oversleeps. Lies that she didn't promise something she couldnt keep etc.

8)Puts you down, does subtle insults and confidence attacks, looks down on you etc. It will only get worse.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

9) Bad hygiene. Smells weird, doesn't take showers, doesn't brush teeth etc

10) Has sudden rage bursts and/or uses physical violence.

11) Has serious addictions like gambling, smoking, drugs, alcohol, is above a phone screen all day long etc

12) Is not goal oriented and seems apathetic about her own life.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

13) Tries to control who you are, what you'll wear, who you'll hang around with, how close you'll be to friends and relatives etc. Avoid- like- the plague.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).

14) She has the victim mentality. The whole universe has conspired against her. You'll never hear her say things like "I am to blame", "It was my fault" etc.

15) Shows little to no empathy for the pain of other humans and animals. Seems void of humane emotions in general.

Things to Look for

1) A smiling, radiant, positive person.

2) Someone who makes you smile and you desire to make smile

3) Someone you share some common goals and life theories with, a Huge one that many couples overlook with longterm consequences.

4) A girl that was brought up in a good house, with good values, from good parents. (Although you must been openminded cause i met a couple orphan girls that were true gems as well as girls that managed to come almost unscathed from a toxic environment and thrived.)

5) Someone who values her life, her health and her Time.

6) Someone in whom you see the future mother of your children.

7) Someone with lots of love in her heart to share.

8)Someone who doesn't embarass you and knows how to handle herself in social situations.

9) Someone who treats you with respect.

10) Someone who knows how to take responsibility for her mistakes and shortcomings.

Thank you for reading guys and you are welcome. Similar things could be said for girls looking for a man.

PS. For the very subtle or small daily things its up to your individual character to decide what you can take and what not. For example if you can't take snoring, a nervous eye twitching tick, a bad habbit, a daily ritual etc, its up to you to decide if its something you can live for a life with or not. But remember simplicity is everything. Don't have ridiculous standards. Have smart standards. Don't sabotage great chances for silly reasons.

The Ultimate Guide for Smart Men to Choose a Woman (from a Woman).
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