The things that you have in life are the results of your coices. And most of the time, you know how bad your choices will effect your life yet you do it anyway. If you give a decision by knowing what it will bring, isn't it your fault if it ends in a bad way? Nobody forced you but you did it with your free will. So there is nobody to blame but yourself.
Don't blame others for your actions
Sometimes you just go for some things, even you know how bad it will result. Like, you go outside in a rainy weather, you get wet and enjoy it. But when you become ill you blame the rain for it. But rain has nothing to do with your illness. You knew that it was raining outside and you went out without taking an umbrella. You even enjoyed it but when you get sick you blame the rain!
That's just a simple example to show that sometimes you do things even you know how bad it will end. Especially when it comes to love. You choose the wrong person and try to change. No, that person won't change and you know that very well. Don't fool yourself.
Accept the results
If you are going for it, you should accept the results too. You shouldn't get mad or blame others when things get bad. So if you like bad boys, don't get mad when they do bad to you. That was your choice! And you knew it!
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