What My Ideal Boyfriend Is Like

[Anonymous]

What I care about?

9/10 to 10/10 face

This is subjective and its based on my own scale. I can't have sex with someone whose face doesn't look appealing to me and I want my kids to become more attractive than me. If his face isn't appealing, I won't be interested. If his personality suck, I won't be interested.

Over six feet

Blue or green eyes

Blonde or brown hair

Romantic

Nice to almost everyone in the past, present and future

Loyal and Trustworthy

Liberal or moderate

Doesn’t smoke or do drugs

Good listener

Thoughtful of me and others

Easy to talk to

Fun to travel with

Mature

Affectionate

Respects me and others

Empathetic and sympathetic

Compassionate

Committed

Not a trouble maker

Protective

Not obnoxious

Patient

Not uptight

Doesn't have a temper

Happy or tries to be happy

Things I don't care about?

Education

Salary and money

Mental illness (as long as it's not a substantial impairment)

Humor - I don't have humor

Confidence (as long as he's not too insecure and unconfident)

Intelligence (as long as it's not below average)

Whether or not he wants kids (I can see myself with and without kids)

Whether or not he drinks

I know my standards are high and I'm okay with being alone forever if the ideal man never shows up.

[TomBradysJersey]

I understand that everyone has their standards and that you should respect those even if they are unfair. But you do know not every guy is born with a 9/10 or able to attain that to most people? I just had to point that out. Other than that I'm okay with what you listed.

[lovelyhoneybones]

I'm pretty sure you're a troll, if not, you're in a for a rude awakening hon. You can't expect guys to be perfect and if you do, you better be perfect yourself. If not, expect to be single for the rest of your life or have failed relationship after failed relationship.

[SakuraShae]

The problem in doing this is that we’re unintentionally looking for something that doesn’t exist.
It’s good to remind yourself that the right person will be selfless and caring, affectionate and kind-hearted, or any of the other valuable qualities you desire. But you can’t expect your future love to be perfect.
You can’t force yourself to wait until the perfect person comes along. You can’t encourage yourself not to settle for anything less than the man who upholds his values all the time, or calls his mother every day, or always stays up late with you and talks about dreams. Because yes, those qualities are wonderful, but no person will be able to measure up to them all the time.
Real love is not about holding out for the perfect person or finding someone who meets all the criteria on your list. Real love is about finding an imperfect person and building a messy, beautiful love.
And I hope you find it.

[Peachman]

1. your goal isn't two high and you might want to state what you mean by ideal next time you do a post like this, im guessing you meant this a sa perfect guy not your minimum and try to be more open about the hair and eye color etc

2. guys dont be dicks about people having a goal

[dragonfly6516]

You also used a few known to be openly gay men for reference photos lol Irony at it's finest!

But seriously, it's women like you with standards like these that give men reasons to feel that it's pointless to commit.

[serria054]

Thank you. I needed to invision a lonley. Cat crazy 40 year woman to cheer me up.

Christ in a crock pot. If you are that picky and unwilling to date a real person yiur going to be lonely.

[SteppingOnRoses]

I hope with time her list of demands can get more flexible lol

or she should rather just rip that list!

[SteppingOnRoses]

XD good luck with your list!

you might just miss the man that is perfect for you while you're pursuing the unrealistic ideal of perfection.

[Unit1]

Nicely said lady :)

[Warmapplecrumble]

Wisdom and intelligence is so important to me in a man. :-/ if I can't have a conversation with him, how can I spend my life with him.

[MarkGerrits]

the perfect lad does not excist, i hate women like you.. but yh good luck in ur lonesome life. >.>

[Unit1]

And women say we are shallow because we care only about looks. Just saying.

[samhradh_leannan]

Superficial people reflect badly upon their entire genders.

[Unit1]

@samhradh_leannan That is unfortunately true. I try not to pay attention to that kind of stuff.

[samhradh_leannan]

I think that's the best thing to do. There are women out there who can make the entire female gender look bad. There are also men out there who can make the entire male gender look bad. The best thing to do is to realize that no individual is necessarily representative of their entire gender.

[Unit1]

@samhradh_leannan Exactly. As such I disregard the bad sort and pay the most attention to the awesome sort. I met cool men and amazing women! I count on them.

[samhradh_leannan]

Yep, me too! There are amazing people of both genders out there.

[IreneKot]

Appearance plays a decisive role before you start socializing. But an empty soul is nothing even if you see a handsome man in front of you.. I respect men, who know what they want and don't dissipate.

[scorpioDude]

lol I don't have a type or a girlfriend :( oh well :) I think you will change your mind when u get older

[Anonymous]

It's posts like this that show why the dating world is messed up and why society is a joke.

[helpman]

i think we should get married :)

[Anonymous]

My ideal girlfriend: a reasonable woman (NOT you)