Ladies, tell us what men in the real world could learn from Christian Grey.
Also if you were more confident in the bedroom would old boring regular sex still be your thing?
well first of all i love ur question and secondly i read the books last year and as all typical girls, i was in complete love with christian grey..i don't know but there was something about him..as in he was dominant and aggresive but at the same time he was so damn caring and loving and the funny part was he didn't even know that about him till the last book..but i didint like some parts of him also..esp his mood swings.. i dont like guys who im not sure what theyr gonna do the next minute..and also when he was super instusive..i mean a girl needs her space..but the things i liked most were that, he surprised Ana in such amazing ways as well, and she was never sure what he was gonna do when they were together (talking about the s*x parts) and also he was really possesive, i like that in a guy.and the most imp parts were that he was filthy rich and super Hot and handsome and Dark and dangerous.. well i can go on and on about it but i guess that about it..hope i was some help to you :)
Ladies and gentlemen that's exactly how you get into and stay in abusive relationships.
Yeah, a perfect guide for how to be a terrible person that no sane person would date, but insecure desperate emotionally attached women would. It's literally Twilight all over again, except it's worse. At least the worst thing Cullen did was stare at Bella for 8 hours because he had nothing better to do, then was acting like a prissypuss when Bella started talking to other males. Ugh. People seriously need to learn to appreciate sanity, rather than mistrust and jealousy. That's not romantic, that's creepy.
"i dont like guys who im not sure what theyr gonna do the next minute"
Really? Because many have said that one of the reasons women don't like "nice guys" is that they're boring and predictable.
My girlfriend said that she pursued me because I was "mysterious" (the opposite of predictable) and that made her want to know more.
Oh god I love the books reading for the 3rd time. I love that christian is unpredictable. I like that although he is dominant he has a soft caring side. He can be very loving and very aggressive. Sexually surprising and oh so sexy in just words. Imagination is key in these books. But overall unpredictable Grey is key I believe. But I guess mysterious to me is sexy and Irresistible. So what your girlfriend thinks is key.
have not read it but it sounds horrible.
he sonds like an impulsive spoiled man chid with no sense of boundary and a tendency too act nice when it works for him. sounds kind of socio actually. being possessive is NOT hot.its psychotic
>>if you're with a woman why not learn from her w/e it is you need to know about what she wants you to know about her?
I think it's because a bunch of people have terrible taste, and have zero clue what to expect from a properly functioning well-established relationship that is not relying on emotional abuse, maintained merely by confusion and financial status. Same for Twilight, really.
BDSM is hot and gaining in popularity.
Guys need to learn how to really pleasure a woman, and sometimes that involves pain.
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There is something definitely alluring about a dominant man in the bedroom. I feel that if you're going to take anything from 50 Shades, it should be that. Christian Grey might be pompous, but there's no denying that the man knows what he wants and takes it.
What men can learn from the whole "50 Shades Of Grey" hype? I don't know, maybe that there are way too many women who seem to enjoy badly written, lengthy soft-porn literotica, labeled as "novel"? That's all I can think of.
I have not read that book, but aggressive men in the bedroom are HOt! I love both, i dont want D/s in the bedroom all the time, but changing it up; is what makes sex Hot in a relationship
The primary lesson here is that after decades of repressive feminist ideology women are finally beginning to realize it's OK to admit they love being dominated in the bedroom.
hahahah good point
Hell yeah.. tie me up and make me cum multiple Times idaf lol just me?
is it so bad to want something so taboo?
That pulling out a girl's tampon and putting their wienerhosen in is perfectly fine.
Nothing. No matte who you are some will love you and some will hate you. Some will even hate you at first and then love you. Don't try to fit a mold because a lot of book sold.
Reading 50 shades of gray would be like listening to a woman talk for hours - something I have no interest in.
Maneuver read it, never going to read it or watch the movie
It takes 2 to tangle and both men and women should make sex exciting. It shouldn't be no one's sole "job" to make it exciting.
Nothing they couldn't learn from Mills & Boon
We can learn that girls have some kinky minds.
Bigger than crush
what not to do
What would that be?
The dominance.
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