Is it fine for my boyfriend to flirt, talk, text, kik, and give his number to another female even though he has a female?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a public instagram and I could see where he and a girl had a convo through webstagram. I on the other hand don't have a instagram, Facebook but he does. The only thing we have together is tagged and he snoops on me there by reading my messages. I don't even do him wrong. He got my username/password by telling me he wanted to upload pictures of him on my profile.

A girl had posted like a sexy picture I guess like to him and he was like Hmmmmmm and she was like what James lol. Damn can I get your number oh gawd and she said Lol you silly. No games call me and he gave her his number. The girl didn't type nothing else so he was like is that a no? So I don't know if she called him or not.

On instagram, I saw where he typed a shoutout to another girl and he was like I want to get such and so to kik me. The girl responded with kik me. To another female he was like Tbh loving your smile. Tbh your pretty you seem nice.

My boyfriend and I both have tagged accounts but his top friends and other females he have added seem like the wild/fast types. There have been times he has updated his status with LMS for a poem, LMS with a poem dedicated to you with a picture, and the yes or no game: Are you cute: Are we friends: Would I date you: Would I hug you: Would I kiss you: Should we chill: Are you nice: Have you made me smile: Have you made me mad: Do I see you in my future: Does my boyfriend put this as his status to make me jealous/feel bad because I can see it?

What kind of boyfriend does he seem like? Does it seem as if my boyfriend was being flirty with this girl? Why would he want her number when I am his gf?

[Jdwoods93]

Nah that is no bueno. He sounds really boyish, it is not okay to do crap like that. If you are dating someone, you have at least SOME kind of commitment to that person. No, you aren't putting a ring on it, but still you can't be going off flirting with other girls like that. Douche move. I'd drop him.

[Asker]

He tells me he loves me and that I will be his wife and the mother of his kids. He even calls me through the week on his way to work and after he gets from work and sometimes on weekends. Now I'm hurt and worried over what I see on these sites. Does it sound like he's a flirt?

[Jdwoods93]

It sounds like he may be, I'd talk to him about it if I were you, set up some boundaries! If he is saying all that stuff about loving you and being his wife then he should NOT be talking to other girls like that. Call him out! Don't have to be agressive about it but he needs to be told if he hasn't figured it out already!

[Anonymous]

Ew. He's a little trashy? and trampy lol...
He seems like the kind of boyfriend to want an open relationship? Are you two in an open relationship? Or like a friends with benefits situation?
Is he trying to make you jealous? Idk. If so just dump him 'cause that childish.

[Asker]

We are not in an open relationship and are not friends with benefits. We are a couple and in a relationship. He calls me on his way to work and when he gets off through the week and sometimes on the weekends. We are both 20.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh so yeah then you should break up with him.

[Asker]

Alright, are there any questions I could ask for him to open up?

[Opinion Owner]

You can ask him questions like, "Who shamelessly flirts like that when they have a girl friend?" or "What the heck is wrong with you?" but you would be wasting your breath and time because unless he's stupid he already knows better and is just a bad boyfriend.