My girlfriend says she feels used by me...?

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My partner & I have been together for almost 8 years & I love her so dearly. The problem is... We only have sex once a month (if I'm lucky) and she has the cheek/audacity to say she feels used every time we have sex.
Please forbid me bringing it up in conversation with her because the punishment/abuse I receive from her is uncanny.
I've mentioned it several times to her that I would like it if we could have intercourse more often & she always gives the same reply...
You are only using me for sex & if you want sex that badly go elsewhere & she will cause an argument everyday with me just so she don't have to obliged to satisfying my needs & she'll keep acting like this until two months have elapsed. Which in heinz sight means it's better if I keep my feelings to myself.
As I stated we've been together for almost 8 years & love her with all my heart & don't understand how she's cone to the conclusion that I'm using her. Could someone enlighten me please because I don't know what to do
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We are both in our mid twenties, She claims she just doesn't like sex and ain't willing to compromise and her having sex with me once a month makes her feel used because she's only doing it to shut me up.
Is this what my future is destined to be? :(
My girlfriend says she feels used by me...?
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