I wouldn't be okay with that, and i would dump him. reading arguments you had with someone over the phone is usually what boyfriends/girlfriends do not what boyfriends do behind girlfriends back with best female friend. cuddling like that is intimate and he shouldn't be cuddling with anyone at all but you.
the fact that he is only arguing with you and not sticking up for you shows how much of a douche he is and a crappy bf. he clearly doesn't respect you or your relationship and its obvious this girl is into your bf. this is a crappy situation and im so sorry you're in it. i can imagine you feel pretty upset and ashamed (at least i would), but its not your fault, he is just a douche and thats that. please escape the drama and leave this guy in the dust because he doesn't deserve you.
your bf doesn't deserve better, you do. guaranteed even if you continue your relationship with this guy and try to move past it, it will always be in the back of your mind and you'll still feel hurt years later. its better to move on from him and find someone who treats you right, respects you, sticks up for you, and when you part you are left without any doubts that he will be true to you.
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What a jerk! I'd dump his ass so fast! Him and that skank definitely deserve each other, so just break it off right now. It would be more his loss than yours, trust me. You're the one who deserves better.
Normally I would say that you can work past a row in a relationship, but the things he's doing are big red flags. Do you really want to stay in a relationship with a guy who
1. cheats on you?
2. gets his friends to gang up on you when he doesn't get his way?
3. and doesn't stick up for you?
4. has obviously been talking crap about you behind your back?
5. clearly doesn't respect you or care how you feel?
Get rid of him now, he will only bring you down. Relationships are about being with someone who makes you happy.
How old are you? There's so much drama going on.
Personally I can't believe that your boyfriend is letting her say all these things about you. I'd go with dump him but it's probably going to be very hard.
I mean geez, it's like he's taking her side in the whole situation. And the whole fact that he cuddled her isn't too great.
First I want to say how sorry I am that all this crap has happened to you and whoever made fun of you for having a medical condition is a complete lowlife.
If your bf hasn't stuck up for you after all the crap these people have said to you then you should consider dumping him, you don't deserve to be treated like that! You deserve a lot better and you can find someone better. And whatever you do, don't stay with him just despite his close female friend.
i used to cuddle with my ex gf's best friend.
One day i ended up cuddling with her while watching a movie in her bed, and i cheated on my gf.
You should dump him. This is common sense.
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I'd try and talk to him again calmly about how it makes you feel about everything but if he can't see that what he did was unacceptable id dump him, I know if it was me id be PISSED.
It means you have some sort of trust issue
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