When a guy cums too fast?

[Anonymous]

ok so I have known this guy 4 8 yrs, but he has always been my best friend... now recently we started having sex with each other, I am more experienced than him he has only slept with 1 other girl and that was a 1 time thing... we are only 20 years old... but he comes like really quick wen he had sex with the other girl he never came, but with me now he only last like 2 mins max... I do a lot of foreplay and he stays hard for that but as soon as we go at it he cums. I feel like its me, but I don't know anymore we have had sex together like 6 times and every time he sumes like with in 2 mins of intercourse, and the whole foreplay is on him, because he really doesn't know what to do so I do all the work... and the one time he lasted longer than 5 mins he wasn't even wearing a condom and he was on top... I really don't know what t think of this and I don't think it is a medical issue... please help me any way you guys can.

[Kayaking]

I was bangin this older lady who used to have me do her doggy style. When she felt me ready to bust, she would stop, reach back, gently grab my nut sack and pull my balls down. Then, she would control the pace with her hand on them the whole time.

It was only after she got her's that she stopped controlling my balls and let me finally get off. Needless to say, by then I was so stoked that she always got anything she wanted.

Good luck!

[sadnddepressed]

well if he is still new to sex this is bound to happen. I mean you turn him on with foreplay so all he wants to do is get to the sex and finish. As time goes on hell get a little more used to it and hopefully attain a little bit more tolerance. Why don't you have him jack off right before sex that way the second time around it will take him longer.

[Asker]

The thing is I do have a lot of tolerance, trust me, beverytime it happens he can never go again, because he is tooo embaraced about it... I told him I am still here even aftr all this and he is jus like how he wants to give up and jus ot bother! I don't kno what else to do to convince him tht I am not all tht mad, except for chillin on the foreplay, but he likes it and doesn't want me to stop.

[sadnddepressed]

Well I know that when I finish sometimes I don't want to keep going but my girlfriend will keep playing around and eventually it will turn me on again. why don't you keep playing with him after he finishes, just tell him to chill out and that you really want to do this with me. is it one particular position that makes him bust quicker or is it any?

[Asker]

Well we hav done it in missionary, and he lasted longer than 5mins and th was the time without a condom which I don't get because there shud be more senitivity... and one time wen I was on the edge of the bed and he was standing and he came really quick he stopped but didn't say it was because he was going to come and I told him to multitask and he came. and all the toher times it was with me on top.

[sadnddepressed]

I figured with you on top it would make him come a lot quicker. do you guys just have rough sex or is it more intimate? Depending on which one it is. if its rough I think it makes him come quicker. this may sound uncomfortable but what if you guys just switched positions every few minutes. keep interesting you know. do one position, then switch to oral or something. then try a different position you know. does he know how to have oral sex. maybe do something like 69.

[Asker]

Its not rugh sex. because I kno he is not as experienced as me I don't want to push him.. its really slw you kno tking it easy, the thng is he doesn't last long engh to evn get to nother posit!! lol I kno it sounds weird but I really dontkno what else to try, I'm gonna try and giv it a shot wit the whole minimizing the 4play and wrk mainly on the sex.. oral I dunnno he said what if I said lets do 69 right now jkingly I think frm the beginin he told me he won't do tht, but I hav kissd it a few tms and he freak

[sadnddepressed]

Lmao are you drunk? cus I am. I will answer ur Q tomorrow I am sooo gone

[sadnddepressed]

Ok sorry bout my last comment. have you guys tried again yet?

[Asker]

Nah, I think he is nervous... is there nythng I can do to like get him tryin again?

[sadnddepressed]

Hang out in the house and give him a nice massage. Let him see you naked. Tease him a little and he will sure enough want to do it again. He is a guy so regardless he is going to want to try as soon as you arouse him. Be sexy. What kind of guy is he anyway? like a shy kind of guy or more outgoing?

[Asker]

Hey is really shy guy.... tht is what makes it so much harder

[sadnddepressed]

You have one of the toughest sexual relationships I have ever heard of. have you tried everything?