Okay, so I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 10 months. We've been through many ups-and-downs, including a few break-ups on rare occasions.
Some bad things about him is that he's:
•Aggressive
•Very persistent
•A "Horn-dog".
Keep in mind this is a long-distance relationship.
Now, I know you're probably wondering, "WHY ON EARTH ARE YOU DATING SOMEONE LIKE THAT THROUGH LONG DISTANCE?"
Let me tell you, he isn't really as bad as he is described. There are some good things about him, which is why I'm even dating him.
ANYWAYS, the reason why I'm here is because I need advice. Badly.
Recently my boyfriend has been constantly asking for a nude picture from me, specifically the "pusseh".
I constantly reject him, mainly because I'm insecure.
I promised, and we both agreed, that (In a couple weeks), I'd send him a picture of it, as a birthday gift of some-sort. Even though after the agreement, he still asks to send one anyway to "just get it over with" because he wants to see it badly. And whenever I still reject him, he always brings up the, "but I'm your boyfriend." crap. He even threatened me that if I don't send it to him on the day I promised I would, that he'd end up dumping me.
It's really annoying honestly and I hate how persistent he is just to get what he wants. And I have a feeling that he is probably going to dump me before I send the picture I planned on sending on the planned day because of how impatient he is. I love him with all my heart and I really care about him.
What I'm trying to ask here is, what should I do?
Do I just dump him before he tries to dump me, even though I definitely know it's going to hurt me more than ever to let go of him, or do I just continue to reject him and hope for the best that he doesn't dump me, send him the nude on the planned day, and continue to hope the relationship can continue?
Feedback is VERY MUCH appreciated.
Thank you!
Some bad things about him is that he's:
•Aggressive
•Very persistent
•A "Horn-dog".
Keep in mind this is a long-distance relationship.
Now, I know you're probably wondering, "WHY ON EARTH ARE YOU DATING SOMEONE LIKE THAT THROUGH LONG DISTANCE?"
Let me tell you, he isn't really as bad as he is described. There are some good things about him, which is why I'm even dating him.
ANYWAYS, the reason why I'm here is because I need advice. Badly.
Recently my boyfriend has been constantly asking for a nude picture from me, specifically the "pusseh".
I constantly reject him, mainly because I'm insecure.
I promised, and we both agreed, that (In a couple weeks), I'd send him a picture of it, as a birthday gift of some-sort. Even though after the agreement, he still asks to send one anyway to "just get it over with" because he wants to see it badly. And whenever I still reject him, he always brings up the, "but I'm your boyfriend." crap. He even threatened me that if I don't send it to him on the day I promised I would, that he'd end up dumping me.
It's really annoying honestly and I hate how persistent he is just to get what he wants. And I have a feeling that he is probably going to dump me before I send the picture I planned on sending on the planned day because of how impatient he is. I love him with all my heart and I really care about him.
What I'm trying to ask here is, what should I do?
Do I just dump him before he tries to dump me, even though I definitely know it's going to hurt me more than ever to let go of him, or do I just continue to reject him and hope for the best that he doesn't dump me, send him the nude on the planned day, and continue to hope the relationship can continue?
Feedback is VERY MUCH appreciated.
Thank you!
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