Is that possible for a gigolo to love his girlfriend? Please help me out?

[Novia_mertha91]

I just found out that my boyfriend is actually a gigolo like 3 hours ago. He said that he was doing it because first, it's about money and second of all is that he just kinda enjoy it that much until he doesn't know when and how to stop it. But he told me that he want to change and stop being gigolo for me. He said he loves me and finally understand It's not the right thing to do. If you were me, are gonna you believe that and should I give him a chance to change or I should just dump him?

[halafax]

So your boyfriend is a male hooker, he says he likes the money and he enjoys his job. This sounds like a trainwreck waiting to happen.

Its your choice to stay with him, but you have to remember he isn't going to be totally yours he keeps this up. I dont share well so I couldnt do it. Also you are expecting him to change, he has to really want to change his life in order to get out of what he is doing. If he is doing this what kind of job is he going to get afterward. The money he makes is probably really good, so finding a job that pays close to what he is making is just not gong to happen. But again your choice to get involved with that.

[Novia_mertha91]

Gosh I even more confuse right. He works as a sales marketing, yeah not really promising.. i think I'm gonna give him a time and see the progress..

[jacquesvol]

Gigolos are male prostitutes. Prostitutes are human of course but I think it's a 'job' that kills sentiments.
Cashregister sex. And easy money is one of the most addictive drugs.

It may happen but don't expect him to be really in love.

[Novia_mertha91]

Yeah I don't expect much

[findingdreamland]

We can't decide on this. Only thing is can you accept him as he is.
He has different past himself and I guess it's difficult to bare those for you.
If he says he will change for you, believe in him. Give this chance. But there is no second chance in this. You will survive or not.

[loda1994]

what would happen when he leaves that woman? he will unemployed and expect you to pay for him and give him money and treat him like she treated him. noooo dont think it would go far. enjoy it while he is a gigolo or leave him but dont expect him to stay with you for long if he leaves his job

[Jungledoc]

I think trying to have a normal relationship with a guy like that would be really challenging... very risky... I would think long hard (no pun intended) about where a relationship like that would go... probably not very far I'm afraid...

[Theguywhomadeurday]

Well it totally depends upon you.
Get him checked up regarding HIV.

If you love him more than anything and can't live without then give him a chance to change him.

I would never be in a relationship with a sex worker!
sorry.

[jacquesvol]

Neither would I.

[raj2022]

Yes, why not. It's his profession.
As a add-on you are getting more erotic time with new positions and ideas... Isn't it?

[AidenBlue]

First things first. Get to a dr and check for STDs.

[jmmmfi]

If my girl told me she was fucking other dudes for money no amount of apologies is gonna save the relationship

[Anonymous]

give a chance. what's wrong with it? if he is not good then dump

[Klaatu51]

but of course... they're humans too!!!