Guys: How often do you think about your girlfriend when she's not around?

[xB4N5H33]

Lets say you've been in a relationship with a girl for a month or two, how often do you find yourself thinking about her?
how often does your thinking of her lead to you contacting her?
Just curious.

Updates

+1 y

l'm mostly just wondering because my bf doesn't contact me much and I don't know if that means he isn't thinking of me or what? it's not that big a deal but its just odd because it seems like it's still a bit early in our relationship for it to slow

[UPENDRA123]

Always. Infact it is not possible to take her out of thought. More she is far from me more i think about her. This is bonding. But it happens only if u in serious relationship.

[Rail2k]

Pretty much this.

[xB4N5H33]

and how often would you contact her if you were always thinking about her?
would you let her know?

[xB4N5H33]

also how would you define "serious relationship"?

[UPENDRA123]

I CONTACT HER DAILY. I CHAT WITH HER. NORMAL AS WELL AS SEXUAL ALSO. INFACT IT INCREASES LOVE BETWEEN US. I ALSO TEASE HER ON PHONE AND SHE SOMETIMES GETS ANGRY. THIS IS LOVE. I FORCE HER TO THINK OF ME.
AS FAR AS SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP IS CONCERNED --- IT MEANS LOVE , CARE , RESPECT , FULFILLING DEMANDS , FIGHTING EACH OTHER, TOUCHING , KISSING. IN THE WHOLE I CAN SAY CARRYING A RELATION BEYOND SEX. SEX IS JUST ONE PART OF SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. IT HAS MANY WINGS. YOUR PARTNER SHOULD NOT USE AS A MATERIAL.

[xB4N5H33]

alright thank you :)
i meant more of a new relationship but this is also insightful

[UPENDRA123]

If it is a new relationship u need to see that how far it will be carried. I mean just for one night stand or u r planning to be partners forever. The latter one is better.

[xB4N5H33]

we started dating on June 20th and he asked me to be his girlfriend on July 8th.
I'm really hoping this relationship will make it.
And he says things about the future, even earlier in our relationship he mentioned us going to Italy because we're both italian, taking me to Utah to meet the rest of his family. More recently it's been his college buddies birthday next month, and how he'll be on a cruise with his family early november. (so idk, guessing he sees it lasting at least until then, or why tell me?)
I don't know i find myself thinking about him A LOT.
I'm afraid of overcrowding him so I let him do most of the contacting, but it isn't very often and I don't know if that just means he isn't thinking about me...

[UPENDRA123]

The best way to find he likes you or not is by texting him and talking to him . U should notice that how long are his messages. is he replying in yes/no or some longer messages. U can also notice that when one topic ends does he start a new one or not. These small things tell he loves u or he is just passing time.

[UlsterScot]

I think about my lover every hour.