Make her see the light. Another male is emotionally abusing a female you care about. Subtly hint how he's a shitty boyfriend and let her realize on her own that he's no good for her. Also, are you physically stronger than her bf or not? If you were, you could also intimidate him in that way.
I was in a smiling situation. I had a crush and liked a girl who had a long distant boyfriend. She was all about gay pride and supported gay people and her boyfriend kept using homophobic words. It bothered her, but she always forgave him. Weird thing is that if I said anything even close to homophobic, she'd fucking explode on me. She exploded on me for saying no homo about something gay. Turned out she got a weakspot for her bf and was super faithful even when he was emotionally abusive. I ended up getting friendzoned. I no longer care cause she clearly has fucking issues. You have to act or you will be friendzoned to and some other dude will be fucking and emotionally abusing the woman you love.
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hmmm your in quite a spot so you really like her yeah?
Why wouldn't you take advantage of this situation? Not her but the situation.
The way I see it it's been put on a platter for you to express how you feel and more than likely she feels the same way. Best of all her boyfriend isn't in the way as much as he use to be considering he's trying to change everything about her and beats her emotionally.
Someone that loves you wouldn't never do this and you need to tell her that.
Personally I see this as your opportunity to step in a message sent from above to follow your heart but if you're still not comfortable doing that you as her best friend should step in and at least tell her that she deserves better.
As for following your heart that much is up to you, but you could be missing out on an opportunity thay you'll never get again. But over all life is just one big risk.
Good Luck
I think you just need to be there for her and let her know that you're there. Tell her how amazing you think she is, tell her everything you love about her, let her know that she deserves better and that she doesn't need to change anything about herself because she's perfect the way she is. Hug her and tell her you're there and always will be. Don't try to break them up or say anything you might regret, don't mess with their relationship because it's theirs but let her know you're there for her and that's all she needs to know right now and from then on let her take the wheel and if she ends her relationship with her boyfriend then be there for her some more and see how things go. Good luck:)
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What I would do is: propose her to think about being firm and loving towards him at the same time.
So to let him feel that she loves him and that she would do an effort for him, but that they'll gow apart if doesn't to an effort back.
A relationship where it all comes from the same person, who's feeling unhappy about that, is not a healthy situation. And the trick will be to put pressure and gradually increase it while remaining friendly.
Use of the sledge hammer will mean a relationship crisis.
But being clear about what you expect in exchange from your partner, for the effort you do, it not wrong at all.YOU should not :
Take an advantage of it but try to help her ! Tell her that she deserves someone that treats her well and not like that ! Tell her that if he liked her truly , he wouldn't ask her to change into a completely different person that has the same looks , which obviously means that he is probably not looking into a serious relationship. Just using her bcz she is probably pretty/hot. Or just for sex , but the guy doesn't seem to be into a real relationship. That would probably break them up , she will become sad and you are gonna probably be blamed and feel bad about it. Try to stand with her as a friend but dont try to break them up , even if it bothers you ,, but if you are like sure that the guy is serious and probably gonna ask her for marriage , then tell her how you feel about her (but not now) i hope this helps !Looks like you have a crush on her but she's taken. Correct?
You can't really be there for her as a friend because you don't just want to be her friend.
She may be just hitting a rough patch in her relationship that she will move past and you are only going to be hurting yourself if you do something that will make you two bond.Well just make sure you're always there for her cause she'll need you 24/7. she's going through a tough situation with her boyfriend but i think if a boyfriend of a girl wants her to change for him then thats not really a great boyfriend. he's sposed to like her for who she is, you've gotta explain to her what you think , I don't know if that helps but yeah
i would wait for my turn. you dont wanna screw up anything with her since she is providing for you.
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