1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Many times when couples break up, it doesn't always have to mean: Goodbye, my love. And along with the 'Missing and the kissing,' also comes sometimes a few Regrets--------After 5 days back...
I recognize the signs of a man who wants his girl back. I believe he is putting his tail between his legs, giving you 'Obvious' Helpful Hints Here, that he wants to talk things out and see if perhaps there might be a chance you could both work this out.
And by you Putting him on your pay no mind list, 'Unfollowed him on Instagram,' this has got him even More Determined, Motivated to chase you around and leave his-------Love bite.
Being he IS making some sort of initiative, you could go in the chat box on FB and say "Thanks for the likes."
It's your call, but I am very familiar with a man who is "Missing the kissing."
Good luck. xx1100 Reply- +1 y
hey! but again now its been 2 days and no move made by him...
also he told me the reason for the breakup was that he still loves me a lot but he can't make me happy and that i will leave him in the future. he still did not deny the fact that he loved me! do you think he will contact me soon? - +1 y
I think that if he still loves you, yes, he will contact you to still at least keep you in his life, maybe do what a lot of exes do---Friends with or without benefits perhaps.. And he 'Likes' the pix in both cases, FB and Instagram... However, he may be waiting for You to make a move with your Rely to his 'Sly' of the 'Likes,' so if u want or Not---Just send him a 'Thanks"... xx
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how long do you think it will take him to contact me? i miss him soo much.. i want to know whats going on in his life :(
but i dont want to message him saying thanks or anything coz i have begged him three or four times to come back and he ignored me. now if there is alil bit of hope left i dont want to ruin it by contacting him first coz than he will take me for granted forever! he will know that i cannot leave him :( - +1 y
I think being I know that you Say you have tried to get him to come back, that perhaps then with his 'Liking' he may want then, knowing you're vulnerable: A friend with benefits factor, who knows... And perhaps he is waiting for you to contact him to the 'Likes,'... Just wait and see, and if you want, no harm in just asking him: How is his life going? He did afterall, do some 'Likes' on FB and Instagram, no harm in just sending a polite hello... See what happens... I say this because he did initiate This... xx
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maybe i should just wait for sometime.. :(
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so yeah yesterday nite i talked with him over d phone.. he sounded happy to hear from me and we talked normally about whatevers going on in our lives. than after awhile he had to go so he tld me he'll call me later.. but it got late so i slept off.. and after 3 hours he sent me a message sayin 'i think ur asleep now sorry i cudnt call u back.. we'll talk tomr' i responded to his message in d mornin bfre leavin fr collge sayin 'yes its ok.. we'll speak later' den in d after he called me 3 tyms but i cudnt receive as i was in college so once i got back from college i left a message sayin 'i will call u in an hour.. leme reach home' he replied in an hour sayin 'sorry im quite busy now' den i was like 'really/ okay.. den he was like 'sorry im out'. den i was hurt coz he's never really dt busy to not b able to talk to me.. but
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since i cnt do nethin. i just replied with 'okay fine.. ttyl' den he sent a 'okay :)'
now what do u think he's tryna do? does he want me back or he just wants me as a friend? - +1 y
u really think so? :D yay! im so happy! he hasn't called me yet.. maybe he's still busy.. coz its still early in his country.. the time difference is just killing me! but i only felt bad about one thing.. today wen i said i will call u in sometym coz i ws in college he just said sorry m out. that ws rude ! he never said that befre wen we were together! but again just befre sometime he liked my pics on instagram again!! :D i am happy haha!
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You have a sgood start, a positive note... I have a husband out in Egypt, we break up off and on, and even when we are not speaking or talk of divorce----We still seem to pop up in on eanother's lives... It's like fate has a way, I think... Yes, the ;liking' of the pix is a good way to begin, and the open lines of convo is so important with or without a break up... xx
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oh is your husband a muslim too? or u r muslim? he said that his parents myt not accept me coz i m not muslim :( but he's sayin that without even trying!
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lol... Yes, he found me on FB 3 years ago, fell in love and I zoomed off to Egypt, where I had returrned to marry and live awhile... The family loves me, I am a Christan, but we have had on and off problems during our marriage with making up and breaking up... We have discussed a divorce, but even right now, for we are speaking again he says: Pars, what do u want?" I would love to go back over and live but middle East is getting so bad, ISIS is sooo very bad as of now, and so scary for our lives... But God is here to guide me, I know... He will guide you as well... xx
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Than why does he say that since we are from diff rekigioms it will not work. i mean he's faamily accepted u even though u qere from a diff religion ryt? So won't my guys family accept me.. all this while i was thinkin mayb muslim families are actually very strict about religion n stuff but i guess they are not! Mayb ryt now my ex just needs sometime to figure out what he really wants.. i shud give him the tym to realize.. ryt? N if itseant to be it will eventually happen?
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And i am also very insecure about one thing.. befre he met me.. he was engaged to this muslim grl from his country n dey were in a relationship fr 5 years.. but dey broke up coz she cheated on him.. n since den fr 3 years now he hasn't spoken to hr n he left eqypt n came to india. d grl came bc once sayin if he wants hr bc he shud not goto india to study but stay in eqypt with her.. he said no he wl go to study n he came. but im worried coz he kept d relationship wd hr fr 5 years without touchin hr.. as it is a custom in islam nt to get physical with each other bfre marriage.. But with me he just cudnt kip his hands off me!! I m worried coz i think sometyms mayb it ws more of a physical relationship wd me coz how cud he stay wd dt grl widout touchin hr fr 5 years n also stayin apart.. it ws long dist relationship fr dem too. but with me he breaks up d minute i leave d country!
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I was always insecure about dt grl.. he tild me in d very beginnin of our relationship bout hr coz he sais he wanted to b hobest bout everythin wdme. but even aftr dat i was insecure n kept fytin wid hin bout dt grl.. but he ws always so calm n patient sayib she dsnt mean anythin to him nemore n even if c comes bc he wl nvr take hr bc. but now he's goin bc to eqypt n he wl b dr fr one year dr
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So he myt mut up wid hr n may fall in love again as c is single nw :'(
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What do you mean by play ear fr awhile? Do i still text him as a friend? I miss him so so much. :-\
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so ya yest nyt i called up my ex n he again sounded so happy ! so we were just talkin normally again.. n i told him i feel dwn yest while goin to college n hurt my knee.. n he ws like u shud b more careful.. u shudnt run to class.. n why did u gt late to cls.. den i said i slept late the prev nyt so i cudnt wake up in d mornin n again he ws like u shud sleep early n take care f ur health.. n are u eating proper food.. i ws like yes i m eatin proper food.. n i can take care f myself! den he ws like good to kno dat u can take care f urself nw.. after this i thought he really cared about me.. coz the way he askin me questions it ws like he ws his old self! it felt exactly like d old tyms.. so i asked him if he wanted to gt bc together.. n den again he rejected me! I don't know whats up with him
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y is he doin this ! he's actin so concerned n all but he dsnt wna gt bc together. is he confused bout his feelings? n he kept sayin last nyt dt once his fiance betrayed him real bad.. n he's had a vry bad experience so he knows more den me. n he said i m 100% sure u r goin to find a guy of ur age after some months n u will leave me.. i ws like no.. i won't leave u coz i really love u.. but he wudnt believe me.. he's vry insecure? I don't know wht d main reason is.. he just wudnt gv me a chance! he's giving different reasons everytym.. but if i ignore him fr a week r so.. he ll again strt likin my picss.. I don't know whts wrong
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Do u think he'll ever wanna start again? He also said dat.. 'just wait fr sometym.. aftr i gt bc to my country i wl kno watever my parents hv planned fr me.. N ill contact u.. if u like it den we ll b togedr n if u dont we wl b frens'
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I don't know wht it is at all :'( he said his parents hv suddenly decided fr him to come back n work.. somethin more. i mean can't he raise his voice sayin he wants to b wd someone else or does he not want to b wd me at all? How can he just listen tp his parents just like dt
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he again called me just now.. n was sounding kinda low.. he was just askin me how m doin n watsup n all.. but d phone got cut.. due to bad netwrk.. so he msged me sayin he'll call me again once he reaches home. I don't know if he just wants to b frens.. r wht
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does he want me to keep waitin r wht..
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From what I see, he is now keeping you on the sidelines, he won't see you, and may be just excuse to be polite.. Move on, I think he will get caught up in his own life, and now that I have all the facts with Islam involved, I am sure his family probably will want him to marry a Muslim girl.
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he's calling everyday now n talkin with me casually. today i ws just sayin i shud strt datin other guys n he ws like b careful.. all guys r not good out dr n stuff. n he was sayin again n again just wait.. till i gt bc to my country i wl let u kno wht my parents hv decided fr me
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Okay, I seee... It's up to you if you want to wait it out. I admit he still wants you in his life, but I would also tell him he is old enough and should be able to chose who he wants in his life and to marry, without his Islam mom and dad's permission. I know my husband's parents had counted on him marrying aMuslim girl, but he never wanted it. They did fall in love with me when we had met, but of course, messing up as I did, I ruined it. However, he still has not divorced me, has no one else he wants or loves, so I think your guy has to put his foot down and make a decision as well, stand his ground.. It's his life, not theirs...
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thats exactly what i want him to say to his parents! i mean he cannot live his entire life wd some grl his parents chooses ryt! its him who hs to deal wd hr all his life not his parents. i just hope nxt month wen he gts bc to his country.. he tells his parents wht he wants :( he said he wl tell em about his plans but didn't mention anythin bout me. so wen ur husband mentioned about u to his parents d frst tym.. were dey very angry? :(
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n he also was actin kinda weird.. I don't know if m overthinkin ds but.. wen i said i got asked out fr a date by this guy who has a good body.. my ex ws like even he's gna strt gymin soon so i wl c d change in him! n again he ws like u wl find a good guy soon who'll take care f u.. wen i tld him its hard to find good trustworthy guys nowadays.. y would he say dt.. so easily.. i mean he shud b d one takin care f me :(
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I know what you mean... He is a free agent, living in Our country to choose who he wants, and even in hi sown country... My husband always had stipulated he wanted to marry an american, so they had no choice to accept it. They loved me the first time we all met, I felt like a Queen with all hundreds of family members, pulling off the 'Muslim manner' and dress, but it wasn't until I slipped up and cheated, that THAT----Left less to be desired... I haven't been back in areal long time, and now with so much bad, diseases worse, ISIS abroad everywhere, it makes one more wary, and between a rock and a hard place... I hope it is in the cards for you to both be together, and right now, it seems he still wants you around...
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u cheated on ur husband? hmm yeah mayb.. i just hope its all good :(
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Yes, I did, with a Coptic Christian, not Muslim, from my area... But we broke it off, my husband had forgiven me but all the Redrick for a year cause my family's faith and trust in me to diminish.. Unless I go over 'Tomorrow,' and straighten out everything, they will neve4r believe in me.. My husband did say though: Mom still loves you, Pars..." Not sure what will happen now, so bad over there, but I do know One thing, and I will share this for yourself as well: Everything is in God's hands. xx
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agaib today while i ws in cls.. he msged me.. sayin hey.. n den i was like hey m in cls. . den he ws like his in d gym.. i said cool wrk hard ! den i said 'i think I've grown more pretty!' n he ws like 'ur d prettiesr I've seen in my life honey <3 :-*' ! den i ws like 'and hotter too!' den again he said 'ofcourse no doubt bout it :-*' i mean he just sent me two kiss emoticons n cld me honey !! wht just happenef i ws blown away! i did nt return him ne kiss emoticons though.. !
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It sounds as though he Does still want you in his life, and may even be scared somewhat that along with his 'kissy emoticons,' he could lose you forever... He has feelings, I can see this... It may be a long haul, a choice of yours to either hang in there, which I think you may do, and see what happens... xx
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but aftr seein his last kiss emoticon i didn't reply to hm.. den aftr 6 hours now i msged sayin whatsup.. n he didn't reply to me! hr saw my msg! is he mad at me now? i m only doin ol ds so dt he learns nt to takr me fr granted
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He could be Waiting for your replay, and with this, you don't have to be mushy, but civil and polite, and just send a reply.. See what he says next.. I don't think so much 'mad,' maybe he is waiting for a response anxiously, a bit disappointed right now he is hearing nothing... xx
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he replied! he ws like sexy display pic... den i ws like thanks.. i look good ryt.. den he ws likr u look fabulous.. n in any condition u wl b d prettiest in my eyes! haha I don't know how ds sudden change came in him.. just two days bc he rejected me n said he dsnt wna gt bc togedr. wht do u think he's tryna do. is he tryna c if m still hung up on him.. bit its just been two days!
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it started since yest bcoz i told him.. one guy frm my cls asked me out on a date n i said yes coz he ws goodlookin n since deb he's been likin my pics old pics n msgin me ol ds !
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i just lied! i just wanted to c his reactiob n he reacted good! i dont want nebody else.. i want him only. but this tym i wl nt show dt i m inti him.. let him think i cn move on if i want.. but he still likes me ryt? otherwise he wudnt hv bothered
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yea ok i wl do dat... but my frens r tellin me dt he wl nvr b d same wd me again.. dt he sounds vry flirtatious.. n myt b only aftr my appearance n dts nt gud.. do u think so too? :'( i want him to b d same wd me like he ws bfre.. cn i gt him bc like d way he ws.. if i play hrd to gt?
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Naturally, things may never be the same again, but we hope they can be better than they were, if given a chance... And he is still keeping you in his life, still finds you attractive, and playing hard to get, is good I think... Keeps them interested, wondering... And when you told him you had this date, he didn't back off, he was still there... xx
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so if he ws stil dr den its very good ryt? :-D i hope he falls fr me mre den he had earlier
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omg i can't blv what i just saw.. i ws just checkib my ex's instagram yest.. n in one if his pics .. d grl he ws engaged too bfre has commented! c just commented a week bc. he told me he hates hr so much dey dont talk to each other n r not on each others fb n instagram. but wht do i c now! i fl so hurt n disappointed I don't know wht to do :'( y did he contact hr. is it bcoz he's goin bc to his country n she's single nw. is he thinkin of gtn bc wd her n dts y he lefr me? but again he's flirtin wid me too or I don't know wht it is. i feel so hurt ryt now
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I think being you and him are broke up, he most likely feels he himself can socialize with others, which I think you should do as well... I know you do not want to do this right now, but when you have licked your wounds, try and go out with at least some of your friends, stay busy... Maybe innocent, but when a couple breaks up, they will move on, and even though he still has you in the pix, you will probably have to accept things right now... He will be associating with many people when he goes back to his country... I know you're hurt right now, but he feels he can be this free agent.
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i called him becoz i ws so upset. . but i didn't ask him directly bout hr.. frst i tld him dat i got asked out on a date tonite.. so I don't know whether to go or nt coz i think its too soon. n he ws like yes its too soon at least just mit d guy as frens hang out but nt a date now. n he was like but if u like him den u cn decide what u wnt but if u ask me i think u shud gv it sometym.. den i ws like ok... n den i brought up d topic.. i asked him hv u started talkin agaib wd ur ex fiance.. i saw hr comment on ur pic in insta n he ws like nooo it ws just one comment only n i wrote bc thnks dts it i swear i hvent spoken to hr.. n she's nt even on my fb.. only insta n c ws always dr on my insta its nt recent he said. n i was like r u lyin coz i really dony care nw.. if u wana gt bc wd hr u cn since we both r just frens nw. n he was like noo its nothin like dt.. it ws just one comment onlu he said. I don't know again m so confused
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but i dont gt one thing how come c comnented on his pic only aftr we broke up.. c cud hv commented bfre also. i wl b more hurt if he gts bc wd hr ne other grl wl stil b ok.. bt nt her. how cn he even think bout gvib hr a another chance aftr c played wd him while m hr beside him tryin to change entirely fr him n willin to remain so committed even though m so young n i shud b havin fun. it would b really unfair. do u think guys cn b dt foolish? he's very mature he's 28 he shud b able to think ryt? or m i overthinkin ds whole thing bout his ex fiance commentin on his pic.. he ws just flirtin wd me last nyt..
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I think, though you're broke up, he Does care, does want you in his life, but I also feel, for now thaty I know more of this story, that he wants you somewhere in his life. But being you are broke up, he feels he can do as he wants, talk to who he wants, and I think you should also, for you are still young, go out and socialize when you are up to it... It seems you always see the ghosts of the past creep up when you break up with someone. His old girlfriends, whoever, and now you feel helpless... But I also see he has you in there somewhere, although no one knows what the future will bring... xx
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okay i wl go out n socialize too since i shud b havin fun.. but at d back f my mind he ll always b dr coz I've decided its him i wna spend d rest f my life with but since nothub is happenin ryt nw n everythin is so confusing i wl let tym do its job n hope fr d best. but its gud ryt if he still wnts me in his life. he always said he's never frens wd his exs.. n he didn't wma b frens wd his ex fiance either .. but he wnts to kip me. so he also thinks me imp?
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Yes, you are in there somewhere, I see... But he has also moved on, probably is not sure of his own future, for he is leaving soon to return to Egypt, and if you think of yourself, it's best to move on and let time take its course... See what happens when he goes over there and how much he contacts you too...
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yea i think so too.. my hopes are almost gone nw.. :'( i only hope one thing.. dt he shudnt gt back wd hs ex fiance.. ne girl is fine but nt hr. coz it would b like choosin hr over me.. n she's nothin compared to me. it wl really hurt me if he chooses hr over me
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I know that would sting like hell... But you will just have to see where it goes.. In the meantime, piece your own life back together... My husband and I are talking and skyping again, after a 4 week "Pout problem.' Same thing same problem, but I think it is love that holds us, Anyone together... I always leave it in God's hands, and so far it works good like this...
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so who contacted frst? fr u guys its meant to b.. i hope its meant fr me n him too.. n not meant fr hm n dt grl coz it would just b unfair.
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lol... We just end up texting one another...4 weeks ago everything was good, loving, then something peeved me off, and I started to email him (Saving minutes on my phone) Nasty remarks that were uncalled for and During Ramadan to boot... lol... But he is used to me... Then I emailed him as to where is my divorce? He started responding with excuses, and on top of this, he says now he has some problems with something that happened after Ramadan, but is not ready to tell me yet. It deals with some trouble he may have gotten in when with a few friends in Banha, I am thinking. So HE suggests Skype so back to this we go. So in between my busy schedule, I tr and connect with him... So I am wearing my wedding ring again, cuz he wanted to see it, for he says he thought I threw it away... uggg... Anyway, Like me, as you can see, just when you think it is Over, it's not, and fate has this way of intervening. Don't let this other girl get you down...
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:-D:-D u gv me so much confidence n mke me feel better about myself. n i cn really relate my story wd u since urs is also frm egypt n everythin... its like m d younger version of u haha! im so glad to hv met u hr! thanku so much fr listenin to me n being dr.. i wl nt let dt grl hurt me. seriously she's nt even pretty.. i hv everythin n m young. . cs old fat n ugly also hs an ugly heart. i hope he realizes bfre its too late dts it
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Oh, shokran, I have given you a boost... Yes, I hear ya... lol... Just see what happens with this. But don't let on you are uptight, for that will leave you on the sidelines... You have a start... I wish you both could just go back together, but that will have to be determined in time, I suppose, or what is int he cards... xx
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haha! today in d afternoon he uploaded a funny video on Facebook of a girl doing belly dance where her boobs shake a lot and he tagged me in it. i was shocked coz he never tagged me in any videos r pics on his fb bfre! den i commented on d post sayin 'more den lookin at her belly my eyes were on her boobs!' n he ws like 'hahaha... but she's hot and nice!' n i ws like 'i know wht u wear lookin at XD' it ws like befre wen we used to date i used mke fun of huge boobs n today he posted ds video whr d grl had big breasts! is he seeing me as his friend nw? :( i dont wnt him to bring me to dt level :/
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Hey, this sounds like a break through.. Yes, with This, he is bringing you back into the---Pix you could say---and treating you like a 'friend indeed,' than an Ex... lol... I asked my husband teasingly last nite why he hasn't divorced me, and he teases back: I am too busy,' but I know he hasn't got the nerve... He asked when I am coming, for he has an uncle with another apartment in the Suez Canal area that he wants us to stay in for a few weeks... I told him maybe towards his birthday in December... I am feeling God wants me to book up another trip, let's see what happens... We are back together again for the millionth time...:)) xx
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omg! again i get a shock.. i ws just checkin my ex's fiance's profile on fb.. n she had a post from 2013 n she tagged my ex in it.. n he had commented somethin in arabic. he told me dt he stopped talkin to her directly aftr dey broke up in 2011 n he hates hr.. but how come he made a friendly comment on her profile in 2013 den.. n he met me just a couple of months later in 2014 :'( i can't believe whats happening.. either he lied to me sayin he stopped talking to his ex.. n dey r still frens or he's still togedr with her n he just played me :'(
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wow!! thats soo great!! i am so happy for u.. n i really feel like u guys are meant to be! fate has u guys tied up in a knot!! :D yea it ws d past.. but he had told me that he hadn't spoken to her since dey broke up.. but they hv been speakin to each other.. mayb nt through phone but fb etc.. like just mentionin each other in their comments n stuff.. mayb just out f respect? I don't know wht it is m tryin nt to jump into conclusions hr n still tryin to hv faith.. becoz i really really like him. its just dt everyday i discoverin new new things n gettin very disappinted. however y do u think he would nt want to mention dt he still spks to his ex like just out f respect wen we wr togedr? did he think id b angry at him.. i mean i ws always vry insecure about her.. he knew it very well so he nvr brought hr topic up.. i used to force him n ask him bout her.. just to feel better :(
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n if he is bringin me bc to d picture as 'frens' den is dat good r bad? O. o will he think bout gettin bc togedr later if we remain frens fr awhile since ryt nw he has so much pressure frm his parents? im talkin less to im nw.. i dont text frst n i dont call either.. just lettin him think dat i can move on so dt he misses me. m just lettin him feel my absence so dt he misses me n comes bc soon :( its killing but im tryin to b strong n faith in my destiny :/
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is a breakthrough supposed to b good?
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You are doing the right thing by letting him think this, and yes, I think he wants to re, main your life, if even For now, a friend till the end. He is obviously hell bent on his parents approval, although my husband never would listen to them, even if he divorced me tomorrow. However, every Muslim is different. And when he goes off, test him to see if he keeps in touch with you. That will determine a lot. I think right now that he doesn't want to be tied down, leaving his options open, a lot on his future plate, but I see that he still cares enough to be in your life, and doesn't just put you on his pay no mind list...
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yay! i didn't message him the whole day today.. he only posted dt video on fb n tagged me.. n ryt now i get a text from him sayin 'how are you? sorry i wanted to call you today but i have been out since morning and rite now m on my way to a resort with my friends' n i was like its ok i understand n stuff! but i never asked him to call me! he dsnt hv to col me everyday now since we're not togedr.. but he still feels d need to? :D yay im so happyy!!
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Good girl, you aren't chasing and hounding him. He is doing This on his own accord and feels like he can just reach out to you with no troubles or worries... I am so happy for u... lol... My husband was looking for me all day online, but I have been busy,, in and out... Poor baby, told him I will see him tomorrow...:)) xx
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but after i replied to him he bcame friendly agin... i dont wnt him to friendzone me later ! i m gona bcome his wife :-D y do u nt stay wid ur husband? it must b diff ryt stayin in separate countries
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and yest nyt i sent him a song which i said to him dat 'this song will b played in my wedding day. . i love it! listen to it' n he replied sayin 'i wl listen to it once m back frm d gym ;-)' y did
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y did he send a winky face? he kips sendin winku faces all d time nowadays.. wen he cld me pretty he snt a winky face.. n winky faces r supposed to b flirty ryt? r m i readin it wrong? we used to discuss about our weddin bfre n he used to b like yea we wl do whatrver u wnt love. so now he jst snds out a winky face
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omg!! aftr sayin dat he ll listen to it later.. i said ok ryt.. den ryt nw he msges again sayin 'im very high...' den i was like 'oh ok grear have fun :-)' den he ws like 'thx, i wish i were here :-(' i got a shock again!! i just replied wd 'haha i think u are very high! yes if i ws dr we'd hv more fun' he saw my reply just nw n didn't message bc !
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Sounds like things are moving good with the convo... I am sure he just let it slide right now, for he had things to do and will get back to you.. He seems to be reciprocating with Replies for you and him are enjoying a bit of nursing and nurturing a friendship like, and he is going with this, so don't get upset... I don't think he will stop now...:)) xx
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hey.. im back again! haha me and my ex are back together.. its been two weeks now.. he asked me back n i gave him a chance. but just day before yesterday his uncle passed away and he's started ignoring me. i didn't know about it becoz he did not tellme.. he just changed his dp to R. I. P thats it! how am i supposed to know someone close to him died. so i have been msgin him n callin him.. he's seen my msges but just ignored dem completely.. I don't know why he dsnt wna tellme. so i got really pissed and than thretened him dat i would break up with him if he continues to ignore my msges n calls n doesn't let me know whats going on.. n he ignored this too! later i got to know through his fren that his uncle died. but i dont get why he has the time to message his frens on fb n let them know his situation but can't even tell me that his uncle died! he is just ignoring me and expecting me to understand on my own. I don't know what is going on in his little head? :'(
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Hey, hi, sweetie! Great, back together again, however a bit of trouble in paradise with a Death in the family, shutting you out now... Okay, let him go, give him room for space... It's a big family affair and along process when a family member dies, believe me... I guess before you found out that Uncle Sam died that you did the mean messages to him? Then found out? I don't think it wasd fair of him to Not have told you, making you upset and having afriend in passing tell you, seeing all his other replies on FB... When he is over his grieving, have a long talk again so you can both clear the air... You're newbie back together so don't pull apart now, it is just a matter of misunderstandings... xxoouncle
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Okay i will do that thankyou! But why wudnt he tellme and make me suffer by ignoring? He isn't ignoring his friends :'( also he always takes out his anger and frustration on me.. when i dont even do anything to him
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You're so welcome... I do not know if it was After you "Got mad at him" when you didn't know there was a death in the family? Or if he did this because he was just answering other friends, putting you hlaf assedly and not Kindly on aback burner dduring this time... He uses you then as a scapegoat when he thinks he csn get away with taking his frustrations and emotions out on you and doesn't think you will say anything.. I do also agree that being you are a soul mate, you should have been included in this funeral family function... You both need to talk a soon as the smoke clears... xx
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No he was doing that before i got mad.. i got mad at him because he ignored me!
He thinks im too young to understand.. n its so difficult to clear things out when you are in a long distance relationship bcoz he will say sorry now but he will repear it again :-/ - +1 y
Ah, yes, Long distance, I know this well... Married a man out in Egypt and after I had returned from the states, we have had many a heartache, heartBreak and break ups and makeups... It's not easy, I know because you never know what they are going t do or what they're thinking... Have you tried Skype or Yahoo? It's a life savor. xx
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Yea we always skype..
Its been two days now that he's been ignoring me and just now he liked my new pic on instagram! What is he trying to do.. if he's in pain and grieving then why is he on social networking sites.. and if he has time to go through my pics den why not contact me? I dont understand this guy y is he playin with my mind :'( - +1 y
When you "Unfollowed" him in instagram, this may have ticked him off... Even when you put him back On instagram, now he is just checking things out, although you have broken up and is probably still pouting and prodding around to get any hints what you have been doing on Instagram when you unfollowed him... I know it is confusing but I am slightly familiar with this saga.. I have a husband out in Egypt who is always breaking up and making up with me and me with him and any time we delete whatever with one another, he is pouting and prodding around and not speaking to me until I make the move to speak first and then he usually relents... It's complicated but they play mind games... I don't like it. xx
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No but we're not broken up.. i said i would break up with him if he continued ignoring me but than i apoloziged as soon as i found out the reason from his friend ! So we're still together.. he isn't talkin to me but continues to look at my pics do you think he's missin me? But he dsnt wana contacr bcoz he has to explain himself n he's just too sad to do dat?
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Okay, so No break up, but he seems as though he is pouting regardless and by being on instagram, he is showing you that he is around but not speaking to you. I read again that you didn't want to break up but he did in the end? Do you think he has broken it off anyways or taking his break?
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No none of has broken it off.. we're still together he's just showing that he's upset about his uncle so he does not want to contact anybody. but i m not sure why he wudnt tellme dat he's upset himself. . n not avoid me.
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He is obviously shutting You out the one person he needs to communicate with and with communicating with FB friends and not You, he is making excuses to be with you online even and talk about anything right now... I think this is why he is avoiding you... Can you do Skype with him?
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I did not get you.. Why is he avoiding me?
I tried calling him up on Skype but he did not answer. - +1 y
Okay, well with Skype unless you call his mobile, th ewlite has to b eon... Okay... I think he is avoiding you and turning to Other Facebook friends because he doesn't want to communicate with You right now, just not mind with them because he doesn't have to sit and explain himself to them... Apparently he is taking his space and time in communicating and this is why he is not on for you and ignoring you... I find him rude and crude because you are a soul mate, not just some Facebook friend...
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He just broke up with me again today! All this time ignoring and then i finally get a text from him saying 'im sorry i cannot do this anymore' seriously im si angry with hin now he can just go fuck himself. without any reason he will leave me n disappear n den again come bc wenever he wnts. he dsnt care about my feelings ar all! He has broken up witg me 3 times nw n has come back in less than 2 weeks. this sucks u kno.. in startin to believe we are not meant to b. i think i will leave for real this time.. its enough i cannot take his shit anymore. he thinks he can come bc wenever he wants to n i will b waitin with open arms.
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Yes, playing head and heart games... No more contact, block him, he is a fickle pickle who wants the chase today and when he Gets You, he leaves on a whim and a wimpy prayer... I am so sorry, sweetie, find someone and give it to this loser good.. He lost the best of the best, his loss now... Feel better... xxoo
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It just sucks.. i really thought we were meant to b u kno.. this distance is killing it. i feel really bad.. life is really unfair sometimes
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- Xper 5 Age: 32+1 y
My friends ex does still follows her on Instagram and likes her fb photos and Instagram and he has a gf. And she is not in love with him In fact she dumped him. I think it means nothing
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- Xper 5 Age: 39 , mho 70%+1 y
If you figure it out please share. Or Let me know what you would do.
This happened to me with my ex... she broke up with me... deleted from FB... added me and liked some of my status' pictures. Of course I wanted to get back with her.(I still do) But any way about 3 weeks ago I liked some of her pictures and this time she blocked me from facebook. I haven't really talked to her for like 5 weeks.
Yesterday, out of no where asks me "If I have a credit card (I found it odd Im pretty sure she knows i do) If so how long does it take to get it?"03 Reply- +1 y
i think you shouldn't have liked your gf's pics.. when she your pics you should just let it be and waited to see what she wouldve done next ! thats what im doing now.. i am just avoiding him.. even though he is liking my pics im ignoring him.. coz he treated me really badly when we were breaking up.. i was begging him but he was acting all cool. :( so did you reply to her msg? i think she is just trying to find a reason to talk to you now..
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Yeah i know that know that now. I was just really missing her. We never really fought or had problems. The break up seriously came out of no where. The night before we went over to my brothers place and had dinner. She bought my new nephew some clothes... I did end up replying to her.
Im sorry to hear you got treated badly. I've been trying to avoid her even when i get the urge to text her or call her... I tell myself not to instead I go for a run or do something else I enjoy. I dont want to annoy her or have her hate me.
I wrote her this letter but Im not sure if I should give it to her. I wrote all my feeling and everything I've wanted to say to her since the break up. At the end of it I just wrote that if were supposed to be together we'll get back together and start a new journey and if were not then I wish her happiness and the best of luck. Its cheesy but its the truth.
I think you can think about it the same way. You also have to ask if you really want him back still. - +1 y
yeah i just spoke to him.. i did not bring up the topic about the break up or about gettin back together coz im really scare he myt stop talkin to me alt! we spoke as frens.. discussed about how things are going and everythin.. im glad we re frens now.. n lets see what happens in the future.. as u said if we meant to b we will b together..
- Xper 6 Age: 30+1 y
Lol lmaooooo. Man this was same shit I did back in 10th grade, Believe me. He just wants sex or trying to set on a revenge or somrthing
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He wants you as a rebound girl, he probably left you in the first place for a different chick.
00 Reply- Xper 4 Age: 39+1 y
absolutely means nothing anyone could like your pics, well i think he's as well trying to seek your attention
00 Reply - Xper 5 Age: 35 , mho 57%+1 y
he is back dear... go get him...
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yeah yesterday nite i talked with him over d phone.. he sounded happy to hear from me and we talked normally about whatevers going on in our lives. than after awhile he had to go so he tld me he'll call me later.. but it got late so i slept off.. and after 3 hours he sent me a message sayin 'i think ur asleep now sorry i cudnt call u back.. we'll talk tomr' i responded to his message in d mornin bfre leavin fr collge sayin 'yes its ok.. we'll speak later' den in d after he called me 3 tyms but i cudnt receive as i was in college so once i got back from college i left a message sayin 'i will call u in an hour.. leme reach home' he replied in an hour sayin 'sorry im quite busy now' den i was like 'really/ okay.. den he was like 'sorry im out'. den i was hurt coz he's never really dt busy to not b able to talk to me.. but
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since i cnt do nethin. i just replied with 'okay fine.. ttyl' den he sent a 'okay :)'
now what do u think he's tryna do? does he want me back or he just wants me as a friend? but it was me only who contacted him this time after a week! he did not bother to.. even though he liked my pics! - +1 y
don't be upset... such things are normal...
he still have feelings for you, that's why he followed you at Facebook etc...
breakup was recent... and reasons for teh breakup arent' address by you or him either...
so he might be in 'hurting' phase again... give him some random messages... jokes with cute animations...
be loving.. but don't push him...
just show that you love and value him... may be gift or something would help... or you can show up with flowers... you know him better... think 100 times before you do anything... and don't expect much... he is here.. don't panic or you may make him run.. - +1 y
and if you meet him, make sure you get the best dress and hair you could... or go for any dress he loved...
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no i can't do any of those things coz we are in different countries :'( he's in egypt n im in singapore!
thats y im more insecure about him findin someone else. he told me the reason d breakup is dat he cannot handle long dist n i kip fightin with him.. n also dat dr is no future as we r from diff religions so our parents will never accept :( so i dont get why after all that he would still like my pics n follw me.. he just liked my pic again nw! n he told me earlier he's never frens with his exs.. so come he is with me den? O. o do u think he wnts to kip me so dat if at all dr is a chance in d future he will come fr me.. so he wnts me to wait? - +1 y
oh! you didn't mention these things before...
girl.. if you listen to me... just avoid him...
reason... this relationship has no happy ending..
i seriously don't get such guys... i mean didn't he know this before talking to you that his parents won't agree... wasting your time, energy and now saying all this to you...
he is just selfish (don't know if he is just playing with you or confuse) ... but if you guys can't be together.. why waste even a minute for him...
go and find someone who is willing to spend his life with you...
block him, unfriend him... and go live your life, before you get to 30 or 35... you are girl.. you have age limit... he doesn't... he can play with you for ever...
but you can't become a mom after 35 without complications...
so stop thinking about him... - +1 y
my dear its been around 3 days you are thinking about him... and his act of liking your pics... while he is on the run living his life... so take your choices carefully...
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so ya yest nyt i called up my ex n he again sounded so happy ! so we were just talkin normally again.. n i told him i feel dwn yest while goin to college n hurt my knee.. n he ws like u shud b more careful.. u shudnt run to class.. n why did u gt late to cls.. den i said i slept late the prev nyt so i cudnt wake up in d mornin n again he ws like u shud sleep early n take care f ur health.. n are u eating proper food.. i ws like yes i m eatin proper food.. n i can take care f myself! den he ws like good to kno dat u can take care f urself nw.. after this i thought he really cared about me.. coz the way he askin me questions it ws like he ws his old self! it felt exactly like d old tyms.. so i asked him if he wanted to gt bc together.. n den again he rejected me! I don't know whats up with him
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y is he doin this ! he's actin so concerned n all but he dsnt wna gt bc together. is he confused bout his feelings? n he kept sayin last nyt dt once his fiance betrayed him real bad.. n he's had a vry bad experience so he knows more den me. n he said i m 100% sure u r goin to find a guy of ur age after some months n u will leave me.. i ws like no.. i won't leave u coz i really love u.. but he wudnt believe me.. he's vry insecure? I don't know wht d main reason is.. he just wudnt gv me a chance! he's giving different reasons everytym.. but if i ignore him fr a week r so.. he ll again strt likin my picss.. I don't know whts wrong
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ok... let me help you to see the pic...
words... you should eat, drink, take care of yourself, love you, gud night, sweet dreams
actions... to hell with you and your heart... i will play with your emotions as long as i want... and than one day i am going to delete you from Facebook - +1 y
he will keep doing this to year or longer... and than whenever you will ask to get back together he will reject you... it will frustate you, lower your self esteem, damage your emotional and physcial health.. and worse, you might not be able to meet anyone new in this time... that would leave him as winner and you as loser...
welcome to reality - +1 y
if you like to be used... continue talking to him...
if no... tell him clearly that if you can't be together and his parents won't allow him to marry you.. what the hell he is doing in your life... and wasting your time...
you will be 35 .. and than you will be physcially unattractive to other guys... no one will ask you for date... and you will end up alone - +1 y
i think he is a jerk... and if you want to save your life.. run...
you will run.. now or after one year... but than you will only regret...
choice is yours - +1 y
:( okay.. i will try to forget him.. i think he does not want me anymore..
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no... he wants you... he want someone to play with... he won't leave you that easily dear... beware
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he's calling everyday now n talkin with me casually. today i ws just sayin i shud strt datin other guys n he ws like b careful.. all guys r not good out dr n stuff. n he was sayin again n again just wait.. till i gt bc to my country i wl let u kno wht my parents hv decided fr me
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told you... he won't leave you that easily... he would gain time... and once he is fed up with you.. he will put al blames on you and disappear... you are vulnerable right now.. but you will learn with time... :) i guess you have to learn this thing yourself...
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agaib today while i ws in cls.. he msged me.. sayin hey.. n den i was like hey m in cls. . den he ws like his in d gym.. i said cool wrk hard ! den i said 'i think I've grown more pretty!' n he ws like 'ur d prettiesr I've seen in my life honey
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'ur d prettiest I've seen in my life honey <3 :-*' and i ws like 'and hotter!' den again he said 'ofcourse no doubt bout dat :-*' i mean he just sent me two kiss emoticons!! n cld me honey! wht just happened? i ws blown away! i didn't return him ne kiss emoticons though!!
- Master Age: 28+1 y
Maybe he wants you back
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he says he's leaving me coz we cannot get married and he's 26 now.. im only 19. he's from egypt so he's muslim.. n im a hindu so he says that he loves me a lot but since he's parents won't accept me, he needs to end it now rather than hurt me later. but i dont understand one thing if he loved me so much then why wouldn't he at least try to tell his parents.. he's giving up without trying and thats breaking my heart.
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Because he knows its a lost cause. Would you revert to Islam. Leave Hinduism etc? His parents won't accept him married to a Non Muslim - its against religious beliefs. So tbh I think he did a good thing by leaving you now.
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He's not worth it - he sees you as a plaything - believe it or not - he will end up marrying a Muslim girl and intends to keep you on the side. He's disgusting you should just get over him
It means he thinks it's a nice photo. Nothing more
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It means he still has feelings for you
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so will he make a move to contact me soon? its been a week now since we broke up :(
I think he probably wants you back or something.
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