I am an Asexual meaning that I don’t feel sexual attraction towards either sex. So we don’t see attractive people and naturally think of having sexual contact with them. We may experience aesthetic and romantic attraction towards one or both sex however, but not all Asexuals do. I think for most sexual people these three forms of attraction sort of blend and don’t necessarily need to be distinguished. So for me when I think of an intimate moment with a girl whom I feel attracted to in a romantic way it would not involve sex, but maybe cuddling. It sounds like your BF may fall on the asexual spectrum - some people fall somewhere between asexual and sexual, however he may not be aware of it. Asexuals only come to a good understanding of their (a) sexuality when they learn of the concept of Asexuality. So before learned that I was Asexual I would confuse Aesthetic attraction to be Sexual attraction. I would ask him if he has ever heard of it, and explain to him the concept of it. However, I would not recommend accuse him of being such or even bring it up as possibility for him. Just bring up a conversation about the general idea of it. If he does turn out to be an Asexual don’t fret, because if he has been with you for 7 years he obviously loves and is willing to have sex with you. There are also other advantages like he will not cheat. You can look up AVEN for more information. Best of luck :)
Guys are not sex craze maniacs like some people like to paint us out to be. Yes, sex is great but sometimes a cuddle and a great conversation is great as well. You should be happy that he appreciates you for something other than your body because that's what's going to make the relationship stand the test of time. One thing I would say though is if your sex life has come to a complete halt he's probably getting bored... you need to have a heart to heart with him and see what is on his mind.
If you are in a relationship it's fine. My bf was really tired the other night and we were just cuddling although he was rubbing my legs haha. But next time we saw each other we had crazy sex. As long as he wants sex often it's normal that he sometimes just wants to cuddle. Because in a relationship you know the sex is there and you like the person for more than just sex. Men like intimacy too and just wanting to cuddle sometimes means he actually likes you a lot.
I had an ex like that and he just made me feel like I wasn't sexy so I broke it off but there are surprisingly guys that don't always want sex… wtf
well i guess that my bf is one of those hehe
Wow what a demanding insensitive bitch. protip: men don't exist for you to use.
Be straight forward and ask him if he finds you sexy and hot!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It is normal, guys have different preferences, maybe he's more of a romantic type and wants that sort of thing, and other guys are more masculine and want rough sex instead, I like to cuddle and then when the right moment happens; have sex
Of course, especially if, from a historical perspective, he has had sex with you considerably more than he has in-depth dialogue and cuddle and quality time with you during the course of the relationship.
Besides, stimulation outside of the bedroom oftentimes increases stimulation inside the bedroom.
Wow for me cuddle is part of foreplay and the best after making love. But to choose cuddling over the invitation to make love I will take making love everytime.
Nothing more delicious than swallowing a woman's orgasms cuddling afterwards is very nice
thanksssss!
I would love to have a partner that would let me just cuddle and play with your breasts and rub her etc. etc. politely reminded your boyfriend it the purpose of just people being together is so that each person's needs are met both physically emotionally and mentally and you need his help doing this. And if that doesn't work then tell him that you need to find a new boyfriend
I'm the same. I enjoy hugs and cuddles, but I usually get horny and it leads to sex. I think that's only natural.
Have cuddles, then sex, then have more cuddles afterward. That should keep everyone happy.
To answer your question, it is 'yes'. To respond to what you 'can't' believe, you should accept what he prefers.
Just because he likes to cuddle it doesn't mean he doesn't like having sex.
I'm confused about the "turn off" aspect.
The thing is that i was hot! And he told me that he prefers talking and cuddling than having sex...
Yes, i rather cuddle, hold a girls hand, hold her close to me
than to have sex, all girls need to feel love instead of being
used just for sex. If you need sex all the time than you need
to find that type of man if you feel your mans not making you
happy it's whatever you like
i really love that guys do that... I mean every girl will kill to have a guy like that like you... But for me when it comes to sex that's something important... because i am like the type of girl that doesn't ask for it all the time. and when i do ask for it, it means that i really want it. That's the thing.
Yeah, whatever have a nice life
Well some guys are like that, unfortunately I can't relate to that personally since sex means to world to me, and I have a high sex drive. Also I can't help being turn on easily by my girlfriend, I don't mind cuddle but it usually leads to sex. I can't cuddle without being turn on.
So every man is different.
something is not right men prefer to have sex over cuddling. you cuddle after sex but I would never turn down sex with a hot lady like you say you are. if he doesn't want sex then you be dominant and demand that he fucks you maybe that will fire him up!
WELL! I MUST SAY that you and i are in the same page. I know that guys like romantic stuff and whatever, but when it comes to sex... you don't say NO! it's suppose to be like "HAAAAA" heaven I MEAN guys even if you are like the most romantics guys... you just do it. i really don't get this guys. but thanks love it
No. we're higher energy than women. get used to it or become a lesbian.
hahahahah! well i think that i will get used to it cause lesbian is not my thing! jeje
Being in a relationship with a girl isn't all about sex
if thatbwas the case people would have fwbs not gfs
and then some people are asexual
Maybe he has a minor case of erectile dysfunction and is embarrassed?
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