Last week, My boyfriend and I hung out with some other friends (my friends and his friends). At first he was all like "I am tired. I just want to go home" So I said "We just hang out with them a bit and we will go home" and he agreed. Then we started to drink and had fun. At 1 AM, the bar was closed so everybody decided to go to one of the guys' house to drink and hang out. I had to get up early the next morning and also was very tired and drunk. My boyfriend decided to go with them and I went home alone.
So for me, I dont like what my boyfriend did that night because we had planned to go home together and then he ditched me because he had a better plan involving drinking and smoking weed which I even hate more because he had said many times before that he was going to quit drinking and smoking.
My friend, on the other hand, told me to chill and be cool about it. She believed that we can spilt and do different things if we want. I dont understant. Then its not called a committed relationship anymore. Its more of a relationship of convenience where you only stay with your bf/gf when you need them and you can ditch them when you have a better plan.
Please let me know what you think. Thanks a lot
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