Pretty much what I've heard is, "I've always wanted to bang one but that's not the type of girl you marry and settle down with. Kids need their mom."
So I am curious what the thoughts and opinions are on this...
Hard to know where to start with this, but the answer is yes, I would totally date a chic who was a cop. Hands down and what it really comes down to is that I know if she passed everything to become a successful cop, that I can count on her to handle herself and life better then almost anybody else, that she has a sheep dog protector mentality, that she's intelligent, rational, and logical by sheer necessity. That she is trained to defend herself and others and knows how to shoot if needed and make that call when it came to it. That she believes in serving the public, that she is brave, and so much more. The potential is that she could be a true partner, not a concern or a liability. There are some down sides to it... the long irregular hours away from each other... the distances that information would need to be kept from each-other due to the nature of her work. The high stress, the op tempo, the dealing with what she saw and had to deal with that day that she will never truly get over... the natural suspicion of everything that stems from the job... but compared to a relationship with a 'civilian' woman who has no perspective beyond herself and sheltered worldview who may or may not be prone to bouts of drama and self centeredness over trivial matters who might have the basics of shooting a gun but no true reliability to defend herself, or you, or have a situational awareness and appropriate guard up... its very easy to see why dating a female cop could be a breath of fresh air to a military man or another cop who wanted a partner to trust, share life and depend on each other with where both of you knew what wearing the uniform really meant.
Dating a cop is incredibly difficult for anyone - that profession has one of the highest divorce rates for a reason.
Having said that, there are guys who aren't looking for children, but rather for a wife/partner to live their lives with. Find one of those - there are plenty of them. It probably isn't realistic to have kids when you're a cop - the weird hours, the stress, the danger, and all the rest - they wouldn't get to see you much, and that's really not fair. But for many men, that's okay, because kids aren't their priority.
Obviously, it's not going to work with a guy who is looking for a traditional stay-at-home wife and lots of kids, so you have to accept that and go for what will actually work.
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I voted NO because I really don't like the police.
The only cops that have been decent to me are the Chicago cops. Too much stuff going on to harass you over petty BS.
I'll give you an example. Recently my friend from Jersey got pulled over in a small suburb outside of Tucson. He gave the cop his New Jersey license & insurance. The cop asked "what's this?" My friend said it's my license & insurance that you asked for. The cop didn't recognize the license so he gave him 3 tickets. NO VALID drivers license, no insurance & I forgot what else.
Seriously? All the cop had to do was run the license & see if it was valid.
My friend can't wait to go to court & tell the judge "apparently your officer doesn't know wast a NJ license looks like"
Girls in uniforms are very hot. :3
I think it'd be slightly intimidating to date a cop, but not necessarily in a bad way. I'd probably be just like in awe of her or something, lol. So, girl cops are cool... unless they wanna arrest me for torrenting. :I
I have a negative view of anyone who enforces laws against victimless crimes, such as drug use, consensual prostitution, gambling.
But I think someone who works to tackle crimes which do have victims such as rape, assault, murder, theft, is a good person and doing a worthwhile job.
So if you're only dealing with homicide, great. But if to get to that point you had to put a lot of nonviolent drug users behind bars, then that is bad in my view.
Also I'd be slightly worried about the dangers of the job but the dangers wouldn't be a deal breaker.
I would not be interested because of how stressful the job is and how it's so infested in negativity. If she could handle that I could be interested but I'm skeptical and I don't want to hear her complain about the "tweekers" that broke into the old ladies house in the middle of the night with her there and the 40 year old guy fighting the teenager at 6 am in front of the gas station. Yes, I know police officers.
Honestly, I'm looking for a woman in law enforcement to be with. I used to be and I know that I will understand and be able to support them. Regular civilian woman just don't get it. They don't understand what life really is or how different you see the world after being an LEO of any kind.
Dating Soldiers and Police officers is always difficult. If you ask my personal opinion on this matter, I could marry a cop but I have no intension to have children in my life and thats why I believe it can work out. Service women in Military and Police is impossible to have children,
I wouldn't mind but there's a part of me that would think she'd judge me for having done something illegal like smoke weed a long time ago.
I'm also not into dominant women and I think cops sort of have to have that dominant attitude. If she can turn it off while she's not on duty I guess that would be ok.
Most police officers have done drugs (they just have to be clean for 3+ years and not have a criminal record from it). So I wouldn't be worried about that.
See I am the complete opposite of dominant, I'm a people pleaser to the core. Which is part of the reason I want to be a cop, it's outside my normal nature, so it's going to be a huge challenge.
Lol... Wrong business, cops are not people pleasers by a long shot.
thatmotherfxer is correct. just watch an episode of cops to see the b. s. they need to deal with the dominant behavior needed to deal with the jerks they deal with.
Definitely no! I would be concerned that too many male officers would hit on you. Also, many police bring their aggressions and dominance home.
I would have no problem marrying female police officer
my grandma was married to Deputy Sheriff I've always been
a law biting citizen
well if I think you are the one then it doesn't matter even you were an executioner
You haven't really asked a question here but if you're asking if I would date marry one yes I would and have dated a few and have female friends that are police
the role playing games we have are fun.
As long as she doesn't bring her job at home after hours...
No guy ever in his life said "I've always wanted to bang a female cop".
That wasn't even the point
Your 4 friends were the first guys to ever say they wanted to fuck a female cop
Already dated one. Also, she was a washer and dryer repair person.
I personally don't think I could deal with a woman that works as a police officer seriously or not, just don't think it would work out.
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