Boyfriends phone is disconnected?

[Anonymous]

It's been disconnected for 2 weeks. It never has before. He had a change in jobs, and are relationship has been long distance since march. I feel like we need more than one way to communicate. How should I go about suggesting this and how should I respond when he does contact me, which woulf be when his phone is back on

[Irish_cutie]

Just tell him that you don't like not being able to talk to him for so long and having that wonder when you'll be able to talk to him. Suggest something like social networking or skype. from the sounds of it he use to live close to you and recently move? If so just let him know it's been hard on you because you miss him and want to see him, hear his voice, be around him and you love him. And because of these things you want to do everything in your power to feel closer to him.

I know how it feels trust me! and there's nothing annoying that not being able to talk to your boyfriend for so long because his phones down. But it's just something you need to work through with him. :)

[Asker]

thanks you're right this is very new to us it just recently became long distance. he's also very old fashioned and he doesn't believe in social sites. he thinks they destroy relationships not so much make them better

[Irish_cutie]

well Skype is a good thing than because its not social networking. It's a simple app on the computer he can use to instant message, video and voice call you for free :)

[itsme_goodsamaritan]

If he really wanted to contact you, he would have done it anyway - phone or no phone. I think he''s a little busy with his work/life. That's why he has been silent. When he does contact you, tell him how much you missed him and that you didn't like so much distance between the two of you. One thing is, in a relationship these things are common. Have a heart-to-heart talk and see how it goes.

[1NAMDERAJ]

He probably stopped paying his bill or he's just a little punk and sending you a message that he wants to break up by getting a new number I don't know I'm most likely way off.

[Asker]

Lol yeah you're way off. thanks though

[madhatters4]

do you guys have email? fb? regular telephone? Skype?

[Asker]

he's old fashion. I have Facebook and email and he doesn't do any of that as long as I have know him. Our relationship just became long distance here lately. he received scholarship to this school. and there has been financial changes since he had to use the money he had to get a new place. histone was usually always the way we we communicated. that's how we communicated when we would get together. we are normally really good at quality time with each other. to be honest is all new to us. neither one of us have ever been in a long distance relationship.

[Asker]

I was just wanting suggestions on how to get him to communicate in other ways he's so old fashioned and fixed,

[Anonymous]

Just ask nicely for him to use email and tell him you worry about him and need to keep in touch.