My boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me and is on webcams with girls. Please Help!!?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 year. Living together for almost three!
Very early on in our relationship he cheated on my when he was very drunk. It took a while but we worked through it. A month ago I looked at his snap chat top friends for fun and it was a random girl. When I asked him about it, he said it was a random girl who added him. As I had her snap chat name I sent her a message and she said they met through a video chat website called omegle. When I asked him about this he admitted he lied and he had met her on omegle. But he said he only went on there twice. I was told omegle can be really sexual but he assured me it wasn't. He was just looking for someone to talk to as he has a lot of time home alone.
Yesterday when I was using his computer to look something up, under recently visited it had a couple of webcam websites. I had a better look and there was 2 webcam sites and several p*rn websites (from what I could see, im not very good with computers). The p*rn doesn't bother me. However the webcam sites do. I see them as being more personal as you can chat to them. When I asked him about it he said he doent chat to them so its the same as p*rn.
However due to his past I don't feel like I should be letting him away with this. After I found out about the girl he had been chatting to I told him it was his last chance and if he did anything again it was over! And Im not sure if this is bad enough to end it, but I don't want to be a push over.
We have a really good relationship. We hardly fight and if we do its about doing dishes or something silly. We have a lot of fun and he is like my best friend. We have a really good sex life. We are also planning on going overseas for a couple years next year. He is younger then me and I have talked with him about how I worry he isn't ready for such a serious relationship but he assures me he is.
I don't know what to do.
Any advice and ideas are welcome!!!

Break up

Stay with him

Its not a big deal, get over it

Take a break

[Bob5555]

I think you guys need counseling and you may need to take a step back and wonder if this is really making you happy. Normally I wouldn't be so harsh but you've already established that he's capable of cheating. That should be a huge red flag from the get go anyway. Usually they're not worth the effort. Now he is chatting with random girls and he apparently gets off on REAL women doing things in front of him and not just typical p*rn. All signs point to the idea that he wants to have sex with other women. He sounds like a ticking time bomb. I don't think it would be good to stay in a relationship with this guy but I know it's hard to leave this guy when a lot of things in the relationship are going well. That's why I'm saying you should take a step back and evaluate what is going on here. Go see some counseling.

[cesvcarl0s]

He is not worth your time.. can't imagine how upset you must be..

Honestly, break up.

[piggie90]

I would have be really mad and upset. I would pull away for a while like taking a break or something. He needs to respect you. He needs to realize that it is unacceptable to cheat. I hate cheater, and I don't want to keep dating a cheater. But I guess you guys have been together for fours year already, and you must love him a lot. You already gave him a last chance, so hopefully he won't mess up again.

[Anonymous]

I think he's a cheater, & you're wasting your time with him.

[Daddyissues]

If it's not worth breaking up then shut it! You won't break up so why stress?

[Asker]

Well i'm considering breaking up with him, that's why i'm stressed. So you don't think its worth breaking up over even though I said last chance last time?