Is it normal that my gf cannot put my whole dick in her mouth during bj?

I hope I've chosen the right topic lol.:D So, my tool is 16cm ( 6,3 inch according to google). When she gives bj she can't put the whole in her mouth. ( in fact I asked her to go deeper but then the spagetti sauce that we cooked earlier finished on my laps lol :D I wonder though why there's always carrot in it, nvm. ). Also, I don't think she has a small mouth. Maybe she's doing something wrong?
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I never forget her face at that moment tho :D
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  • This is an example of the harm and damage that p*rn has on people, especially young people.
    Young couples now consider the female trying to fit the guy's full dick into her mouth as a pleasant romantic time spent together. Or other acts, such as anal sex, and being ejaculated on on the breasts, face, mouth etc as quality time spent together, all due to the images that p*rn portrays.
    Let me tell you, fitting a full sized dick in the mouth is unnatural, uncomfortable and painful. The gag reflex is there for a reason... to prevent choking from occurring. There is no such thing as a "bad gag reflex"... other than no gag reflex at all.
    Your girlfriend's physical reaction of vomitting is very normal, because trying to fit a full dick in the mouth is NOT normal, and should not be done.
    Having this expectation, wanting a female to perform this act is infact disrespectful and abusive, physically, emotionally, and psychologically.
    The only reason some females state to enjoy doing these kinds of acts, and other p*rn related acts, is because they believe this is what guys want, and are just wanting love and acceptance from guys. They are also lead to believe that these acts are "normal", from watching p*rn, and start to question themselves for not enjoying performing these acts, which is so sad. So many females feel pressured to perform like females do in p*rn, and so many guys have this expectation.
    Have you ever seen any of the cut out p*rn clips? That show the truth behind the scenes? The female p*rn stars are often seen crying, yelling at the guy to stop, asking the cameras to stop filming, so they can have a break, running off to vomit.
    And have you ever read the statistics of the suicide rates amongst female p*rn stars?
    Please, respect females, respect your girlfriend for the incredible human being that she is, and don't place these expectations on her. Stop watching p*rn, and start spending some quality time valuing her.
    All the best.

    • I think it has more to do with him having too much than it being abuse emotionally, etc. If he had a 4 inch dick, his gf would have zero problem fitting in. As a male (asker) whose above average, he should have understood that there are certain things that can't be done on a larger penis. And p*rn is not the only reason people try deep throating. When blowing a dick, it's pretty natural curiosity to consider trying to fit it in all at one point. But regardless, I agree with you.

    • Yes curiosity may have a little bit to do with it, but if you ask most guys where they got the idea, or where most girls got the idea from, and why they think it is normal to be able to perform such an act, and many other acts that a lot of couples are now attempting, the majority will say that they saw it in a p*rn clip. And yes, size would definitely affect things. But the fact is, young couples are no longer getting to know one another, and valuing one another for their personalities, with the natural progression of a budding relationship. Almost everything is now sex based, eg sending one another photos of one another's genitals (sexting), pressure to give bj's, losing virginity at such early ages such as 12/13 years old, violence during sex, one night stands, an acute increase in some STI's amongst the young, such as chlamidia, increase in rape. Mostly due to p*rn. What ever happened to the romance our parents and grandparents experienced when they were growing up?

    • But I'm glad you can agree with the point I am making @chocolatedragon

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  • It maybe the way she is positioning her head. She should try tilting her head to make more room for your penis. Don't push her head really hard or hump her face (unless she wants you to). I'm not say do this stuff, but if you are at least do it well. Oh and she doesn't need to bob he head while you'r completely in her mouth. She can suck while licking your tip. she can also just suck the tip while licking it. It apparently feels really good.

    Again I'm not saying you should be doing this. This is not the only way to be intimate and please make sure there is no pressure and you're BOTH ready!

  • Dude, really? How about you go find a 6.3 inch carrot and try to fit the whole thing in your mouth. I'll tell you right now that it can't be done without shoving it down your throat. Deep throating is not nearly as common as p*rn makes it out to be, and I personally will probably never attempt it. Any guy who automatically expects that from a woman is either stupid or a compete ass.

    • I'm a stupid then, thanks. But actually she is my first girlfriend and we aren't even very experienced.

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  • HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHA SPAGETTI SAUCE OMG IM CRYING IM ROLLING ON THE FLOOR :'D :'D ΗΑΗΑ haha... anyways she maybe has a small mouth or you have a big dick... here comes the laugh again HAHAHHAHAHAHHA (or maybe she just doesn't want to put it all in)

    • Since that time, every time we see or hear spaghetti, I look at her with a bastard smile and she is like " come on , stop it :DD"

    • hahaahha I laughed at that parenthesis part too LOL spaghetti sauce. I love that but now I can't look at it the same way anymore. "Dad! What's for dinner?" "Spaghetti Sau--" "Can I skip dinner?" *silence* "Why?" "Can't look it the same way no more." "How about some carrots?"

    • hahahhahahhahahahaha im still thinking that and laughin' OMG HAHAHHAHAHAAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

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  • If she's new to it, it might be because her mouth isn't use to that kind of intrusion, or she could just have a really bad gag reflex, if you have a spencers near buy they sell throat numb spray, it works pretty good and if it still doesn't work then she may just not be able to and thats normal some women can't go deep no matter the length

  • This is why I'm glad my boyfriend never watched porn..

  • ew you puked on her?

    this is such a troll question

    • No, it's not a troll

    • And she puked on me

  • Not many girls can do that.

  • ... um, go get a banana and shove the entire thing down your throat.

    ... not particularly easy or pleasant. Life isn't a porno, girls have gag reflexes you tard

  • It's normal, because your penis is (and has a big girth) longer than a frankfurt sausage (10cm) and she has a small mouth

    • You just manipulated my mind. From now on, every time they say Frankfurt sausage , I think of... Blowjob :P

  • Why don't you eat her out give her the best orgasm she has ever had, then come back and complain about how she can't deep throat your dick.

  • imagine putting 6 inches in your mouth, it wouldn't be easy haha

  • ewwww yeah we cannot take the whole thing, sorry

  • If she can do it I wouldn't want her as a gf because she's probably had a lot of practice. No thanks jeff

  • yes.

    gag reflex is learnt over time.

  • Erm people have different necks and gag reflexes. Just bc you saw a prnstar that has taken 10000 different dicks in her mouth do it, doesn't mean your gf can too.

  • That the gag reflex, it's normal, she isn't doing anything wrong. Some people almost have no gag relfex, while others puke by just sticking in a finger.

  • Cool story bro. Tell it again.

  • Stick a finger in your mouth as deep as you can without gagging. Them measure it. I don't think most girls can fit anything more than 10cm in her mouth without it entering her throat.

    The puking thing? Been there, done that, while trying to deepthroat a guy who was... I don't know know how long exactly but the shaft is only as long as the width of my hand. It was so painfully embarassing and after he wiped the puke up I could taste taste my own puke when going back down on him. Ergh.

  • Umm, nope she isn't doing anything wrong.

  • Wait so women are telling us that they can't fit more than 3 inches into their mouth? I call bullshit. I've got four inches and women tell me it's tiny.

  • A real woman could take it all. A mere girl can't.

    • Actually real women don't shove shit down their throat.

    • Says the mere girl.

    • @Goddessoftruth

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  • Most mouths can fit like 3ish inches without any real problem, if you want her to fit more she has to practice taking a little more in at a time. Swallowing sometimes helps. But I've given perfectly good bjs that didn't involve deep throating so don't think this is the only way.

  • You are fucking kidding right? That would choke a woman! If she's not a p*rnstar and just a regular girl you are a tool for asking if she's doing something wrong!