You definitely sound like your clock is ticking with the babies thing, so guys may avoid you if they don't want kids. Like I personally was very close to having a vasectomy but backed outta it and if I were on a date with a girl who was bringing up kids very soon I'd keep my distance.
However I have been with multiple women over 30 and have had amazing fun sexually with them. Oldest I have messed with is 49 and I had lots of fun with her. The biggest plus to meeting older women is they're not immature about sex like many girls are in their 20's. I never hear the bullshit that comes outta young girls' mouths with the "valuing their bodies by not having sex" crap. The older women are more mature about it that I have met. I'm 29 myself and would be very reluctant to date a girl in her lower 20's because I never meet ones who are actually mature. They always swear up and down that they are until there is a disagreement... which is then followed by insane ranting and rambling and I get very turned off.
Physically, I think a woman in her 30's is quite viable.
As to why you are still single, I think the reason for that effects things too and not just your looks. It depends on the reasons for that. I wouldn't mind if the reason was because you were so absorbed in schooling and following career that you never got around to it much, or you made a personal committment to never date/marry and are now having second thoughts. These are somewhat understandable. If the reason was because you are a disagreeable individual and no man can have a sustainable relationship with you, then that would be a big issue of concern - how could I succeed where so many have failed?
Overall though I think there are very beautiful women in 30's.
I'm 46 and I can't count on one hand the men who are interested me... the oldest being 59 and the youngest being 28, the closest being 5 minutes away and the furthest 12 hours away... I have been stalked and begged and this within the past year. I have more men interested in me now than when I was younger. There are men who prefer younger and there are men who prefer in their own age range and men who prefer older. Just as there are men who prefer paper thin and some prefer obese. Some prefer dark, some light. It's not really about age it's about attraction and compatibility. Your smile will get them talking to you but your personality and confidence is what will keep them wanting more. Don't think of your age as a flaw... it's not... but being negative is... so love yourself and smile and your confidence will shine through.
There's this one girl at my work, who is 35 or something and I shit you not, she looks bloody 18. And her body, DAMN she is fine. I am so jealous of how great she looks and she got dem curves and an itty bitty waist.
I wish to look as good as she does when I'm 35, lol.
no its not dont worry.. i might as well tell you that some women are more beautiful at that age (i saw it thats why i tell you) you will find someone dont worry after all you still have time its not like you are 80:)
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Men can be attracted to women of all ages, and 28 isn't even getting close to prime! But you can't push the snooze button on the biological clock forever. It is hard to conceive the first time after 35 for many women, and the odds get a lot worse with age. But ask yourself what you are or are not doing to find a mate. Are you putting yourself in a target rich environment or do you work and socialize in an environment of all women and married men? Have you tried on-line dating? Have you let your friends know you are interested in finding someone? A lot of great relationships started because a friend set up the first meeting. And are you dressing like someone who in interested in attracting men? Something sexy but not slutty? Tasteful attire and accessories can get a man's attention. Good luck!
To be very honest, I'm attracted to some 30+ woman more than a young 20 year old gal! :p
But that Woman should have a good outlook. For me it seems as if they are so much sincere and so much perfect!
Actually 30+ are the best as to be honest, they are sexually matured too I feel.! And they have a good mindset. They don't think stupid like young girlies! :p (sorry gals don't mind this please) :p
I'm just always attracted to them.
I'm 21 though.
And if a 20 year old gal proposes me Then I won't say NO !! Lol
Yes, men are sexually attracted to woman at almost any age, however you will find less suitors with age and the older you gets, the older the men going for you will be.
Sure young guys will find a 40 yo ok, for sex, but hardly ever for dating.
You biological clock is in trouble, but not so much regarding men (you are still young by the way, 28 yo is still youth), but more in regards to having babies. You should have you first child before the age of 30 and the last before the age of 40.
Read this:
https://www.advancedfertility.com/age.htm
There are plenty of guys out there over 30 who are single and looking for a lady who is established and stable. Younger girls can be fun for a brief period, but when it comes to settling down and moving forward with things many are not ready or dont want to. So you will be fine.
There are lots of very beautiful, sexy women waay past middle aged. Genes play a major role here.
Exercise, watch what you eat, and you will like what you see.
My mom hasn't put on a single pound since grad school. My dad has a few but it's hardly noticeable.
Your Biological clock is ticking. You can attract a man in any age. 30 and over is not old. You are middle aged. I find that men in their mid 30's and late 30's are not willing to after women their age. So yah...
I mean there is Older woman Younger man relationships. My best friend (female) is 35 and is in a relationship with a 23 year old guy, they've been together for 4 years. It can work out:)
Girl, you're delusional. 28 is not old, and 38 is not old, and 48 is not old. You're not 30 yet anyway, and you're already feeling like a dinosaur? Come on. I'd say you are on the best part of your youth, as you now have some experience to look back on, and some aspirations to look for.
You're fine :)
age is just a number baby :P but no in all honestly age dont matter in a relationship... however considering u want kids u better hurry or it will be 2 l8 it just goes downhill form 30... im in the same boat 27 and still want kids running out of time but finding the right 1 is stressful i got posts on 4 dif dating sites and im in several chat rooms... i dont really go out and talk in person until were meeting for that first date
Women over 30 marry all the time. 28 is not old, or unattractive at all. If you really want to get married and have kids you can. How soon that happens depends on how picky you are about the guy. If you have some very specific things you are looking for, then you may need to be willing to sacrifice in some other areas. Otherwise it will take longer to find the perfect guy.
Well I think they are especially if you look good. My cousin is 30 and people don't believe her when she tells them her age. You are really only as old as you feel. Youth and beauty will still be there if you take good care of yourself. I understand the pressure you feel though, but you can still find someone willing to settle down who wants the same things it is not like you are going on 100 lol
how are you holding up today?
I was just thinking the cost of 10 years precious youth for figuring out this dilemma awareness doesn't seem a little expensive? And why these two options are the side?
No , you still young, and yes, theoretically too old to attract a boy, but not a man. a boy wouldn't approach a woman cause they're afraid of puting a clown face on theirself by your experience and intelligence, though yourlost something, still got the time to patch up hmmm
Um, you do realize that you ask two questions that are opposites... yes to "Are women in their 30's still beautiful and capable of attracting attention from men?" would be a no to "Is youth and feminine beauty all over by the time we hit 30 years of age?"
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Everyone ages differently. I am 22 and people think I am a high school student. Some ladies age slowly. Women over 30 can still be sexy. In my opinion sexier than some people in their late teens and early 20's; the increased psychological maturity really helps
You should have no problem attracting men. A lot of men don't even realize they want kids until they hit 30. As long as you have reasonable standards in men it shouldn't be an issue. You can find a guy pretty easily.
Well i been with my fiancee 4 years now we met on Facebook and in same year at school and i find that beauty is not just skin deep but from within. We are both in our 40s and yes i love her personality but i also love her as a person and her body. So yes we love older ladies as i am always told your age is but just a number its how you feel as a person.
i said no, but honestly it depends, we are all given a ticket to health and sexual attraction in our youth, how long we stay there depends on how well we look after ourselves when we get older, eat healthy and stay fit and you will stay attractive for far far far longer, i've found myself turned on irl by a woman almost 50 who was hot even though she had a few wrinkles -and i have no special fetishes
Well as you get into your mid-30s it gets a little old to really start a family. And yes I think most guys prefer younger women. You just need to look at older men, like in their 40s or 50s who would love a 30something year old. Women generally are at their peak from about 18-30ish... after that younger women are generally more desirable. Which is why you see older single moms who wasted their best years on 'bad boys' alone going into their older age.
The poll can be a bit misleading. You're asking two polar opposite questions.
First: "Are women in their 30's still beautiful and capable of attracting attention from men?" - I voted yes in the poll because of this question.
Second: "Is youth and feminine beauty all over by the time we hit 30 years of age?" - Some people might answer the poll based on this question. My answer to this would be no. But I voted yes because of the first question.
Women in their 30 are at their most sexiest. They still have loads of natural beauty but now they have knowledge , experience and are more confident.
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