I want to test my girl friend's loyalty. how should I do it?

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I have a plan. I want to take my gf out at a night club. I will arrange my friend (she doesn't know that he is my friend) to be at the same club after some time of our entrée. he is good looking and a good dancer. as me n my gf r dancing he should try to come close to us n try to impress her with his dance moves. I pretend I didn't notice anything. after a while I want to go out for a smoke. at that time I want my friend to approach her n try to impress her by appreciating her, offering her a drink n asking her for dance n asking her number. is my plan good or do u have some better plans that I can use to test her.

Creole_Flavor · Accepted Answer

A person's loyalty is not tested it is proven if she gives you a reason to not think she is loyal by her own actions then that is how you will know. I had a guy that I was dating me try to set me up by having his cousin try to make a pass at me on Twitter and Facebook. I did not fall for it decided to tell him what was going on then something clicked... I knew his cousin before I knew him so I know he knew that we were dating so I figured out that I was being set up but when I told him that his cousin tried to get with me he asked me why would he do that I even showed him the messages proving that I turned him down and ignored him. He felt so stupid and embarrassed as if he wanted to catch me instead of being glad that I passed his stupid test that we stopped talking because that is childish and insecure and we were not even dating for a month. Trust is supposed to be built and if you have self doubt you need to let that go. If you want to find out someone is loyal you have to trust them and if they fuck up that is how you will know. I would think that if she took the bait then maybe she is saying fuck you because you are not a good boyfriend lol even though she would be wrong it should still make you think about that. Don't play games that is childish if you have to go through all that then you need to be single. If someone hurt you in the past then you should not be making someone else pay for that person like seriously this is not right.

Poppykate · Accepted Answer

Here is the thing though. I know that if I am at a club, and I have a guy come unto me, and he is pressing his phone unto me. I will usually play along, and say that I can't talk at the moment, but will take his phone number, just so he will go away, without causing any problems. ( men can get aggressive if you say no). I then give the phone number to the bartender to throw away, or throw it away myself. (that's if I am on my own). If I am with my partner, I will just introduce them to my partner, and let him deal with them.

grlwguymind · Accepted Answer

This is not a good idea. Most likely she will find out you were testing her and have no respect for you. You know you wouldn't like her doubting you, so dont do it to her. This puts your friend in an awkward situation as well. And you would forever have to avoid introducing her to him later in relationship. And if you did introduce them to each other wouldn't that be weird because she would think one of your "friends" hit on her. Unless of course you would want to admit your evil plan you did to her.

PinkSummerSunsets · Accepted Answer

my ex cheated on me but I never dreamed of cheating on him. And I would have never tested him. Just the mere fact you are thinking of doing this tells me you don't love her. if you loved her you wouldn't have to do this, Instead you would know already you had picked the right woman and she had picked the right man. Don't do it. Instead tell her what you were going to do and break it off with her. You shouldn't be testing a relationship like this. it's not good.

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RationalMale · Accepted Answer

Well, it's a solid loyalty test.  Keep in mind, you're counting a lot on your friend, he can seriously screw you over in this case. Also best be mindful of any mutual friends they have.

jackyct · Answer

you're in your late 20s? you act like a teen.
why the hell testing loyalty? if you don't trust her at all, then break up because a relationship without trust has no future.
also, why would people in relationships go to nightclubs?

Unventured · Answer

Think about if she finds out you did this. Do you think she's going to be happy?

Anonymous · Answer

I think this is a dumb idea. If you don't trust her, don't be with her. If you trusted her you wouldn't feel the need to try to test her.

Saidthegramophone · Answer

You've got to be kidding me. And what were to happen if you introduce the two? She'll put the two together and you'll be seen out the door. Horrible idea, man. Horrible.

RaeBae · Answer

And if she fails the test... You know thats gonna really hurt you right =\

Catie101 · Answer

wow, thats low. If you dont trust the girl, dont be with her...

TheStupidBlondie · Answer

If you doubt your girlfriend's loyalty... there is no hope. Did she do something to make you doubt her? Wtf

GoldCobra · Answer

No, your plan is dumb. She won't do it if you are at the club as well. Even if you are out for a smoke. If she is a cheater, she will want to be careful with it.

Ruby666 · Answer

If she's on social networks, make a fake profile, pretending to be somebody else. Then you'll know.

JulieXO · Answer

Why would you even want to test your girl?

SillyQuirks_ · Answer

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