I need ideas on how to spoil my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been going through a rough patch and I have done a few things that have upset him so I want to make it up to him.

Any ideas as to what I should do? (Please no sexual favors, that's an obvious... anything else?)

[matrix124]

I have lots of ideas that I'd like to do for my future boyfriend/husband:

1) Back massage, with the oil & all
2) Flowers (but made out of fruit or candy)
3) Bake him a cake, cookies, muffins, etc.
4) Chocolate covered strawberries
5) Bubble bath
6) Take him out on the date, pay the bill
7) Make him paintings, write him poems, other crafts
8) Romantic dinner with candle light
9) Dress up for him
10) Back massages, already said it, but seriously, who doesn't like back massages :)

[theshewolf]

cook for him, cook his favorite meal, give him a massage ( like a real massage not a sexual one)... im a massage therapist went to school for it , i give my boyfriend massages.. the same that i give customers at the high end spa i work at...( not those nasty dirty whore ones) .. he's currently away right now but when he comes back to town i am going to cook for him and give him a massage.. to spoil himm... just do things you know he likes...

[dartmaul15]

massage? all of my yes, that's a good idea!
I figure you know this (seeing as you've attended school about this), but miss op shuld be aware guys never really bother to loosen up their muscles so usually they're rather tense (especially in the shoulder area). So don't dig too deep at the start. Instead gradually work them to loosen em up slowly. The goal is to make him relaxed and comfy, not torture the poor guy for a couple minutes first ^^

as for the record. Guys really like massages/back rubs and that sorta stuff. Especially when it's done in a gentle and caring way (with passion).

just my added 5 cents on the matter.

[theshewolf]

I know that and more.. hun...

[big-michael-1]

spoil him will not help fix things in fact it may make thing worse best thing is to sit down with and have a long talk with him and find out went wrong and discuss how to fix it

[Anonymous]

Gifts aren't going to fix it, they'll help, but they won't fix it. What you need to do, is start doing what he wants...