Guy I'm wild about calls me "my love", I don't know if he's available!
the story is that we've known each other for several years, but just casually working in the same artistic circle. I asked him out awhile back because I was picking up on some attraction from him - him touching my shoulder when I passed by, smiling shyly when we chatted, feeling general attraction when we were near each other.
i'm older, so I thought it would be fun to ask him out. turns out he had been dating someone, but he said he always thought I was awesome, he would love to hang out, implying as friends. turns out he flaked every time I tried to get together with him.
i moved away, & a year later after I asked him out, he gets in touch asking how I am, & how my love life is. when he learned I was going to be in town, he says he wants to get together & hang out, wants to see me. he never gets in touch - again! after learning I'm moving back to town, he says again he wants to hang out & asks for my number. keeps saying he's going to call, soon. in fact, now is the time he guestimated he would be avail to call me. all the while, he's graduated from calling me "dear" via e-mail, to "darling" & now he said "my love". I don't know whether he's still with that girlfriend or not, & now I'm not sure if he's suddenly going to own up & phone now that he's upgrading his terms of endearment.
confusion! I'm not waiting around, I'm super busy, but this tease is driving me crazy after years of attraction! thoughts? he called me "my love". what does this mean?
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What Guys Said 2
There is a high probability that he's in to you but it COULD be that he sees you as a really close friend...I say this because one of my best female friends (she's like a big sister to me) also calls me Hun and My Love and she treats me exactly like he treats you... But there is nothing between us as a matter of fact she got married early last month. We're just good friends that's it. Sorry if this confuses you more but at lest its another perspective
means he's into you heavily and is shy to confess his feelings or something in his life is holding him back such as a Girlfriend or something I mean it could be anything from a broken phone or car to space aliens from the future preventing yours and his demise o.o...im like half your age so...i tried :) hope I helped - Nick
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