When a guy says he's not ready for a relationship right now. What does that mean?

[sailors_girl]

when a guy says he's not ready for a full blown relationship right now. What does that mean? Does that mean that he's just not that into you? Or does it mean that he will be interested in dating you a couple weeks from now, couple months from now? Or does that mean that he is not over someone else? Or does he think that someone better might come along?

[ryanontario]

without knowing full situation , I'm going to guess he's not ready for a serious relationship for whatever reasons , some guys just aren't ready at that age to get more serious with a girl

[sailors_girl]

He's 39 and was married for 17 years, 6 years ago. Was I a serious relationship for a year and a half. That ended about 3 months ago

[SavageTapioca]

@ryanontario has touched it with a needle. Don't waste your time...

I'm so sorry...
Tapi

[Anonymous]

He doesn't want a relationship with you. In other words he's a player or likes being single or your not his type etc.

[Anonymous]

It means he wants to try to bang other girls as he fails miserably doing it.

[sailors_girl]

Haha yeah so true.

[kleet]

But what if he says that, and he doesn't want to have sex with you. What does that mean?

[Anonymous]

Perhaps he's got business to take care of first? Is he goal oriented?

[sailors_girl]

Yes but he already has his masters in mechanics. He has completed the major goals.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry to say it just sounds like he's not that interested in you. Pull away and see if he draws you back in. He may be testing to see if you're clingy.

[Anonymous]

It means he wants to be in a relationship just not with you

[sailors_girl]

That's how I feel too.

[bDizzie]

At the risk of being blunt, when guys say they're not ready for a relationship, they actually mean they're not ready for a relationship with you.

[ahmerali]

I m ready for long time sex relationship