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I felt like my boyfriend tortured me? He used rope and tape to tie me up- he left me alone in the room. An ordeal which lasted five hours?

I was threatening to leave my boyfriend because he told me he went to the strip club- and got a private dance from one of the girls. I was angry I was sceaming "I'm going to leave you" my bf snapped and said "YOU FUCKING WAIT HERE IM COMING BACK" he went to the garage, grabbed thick rope and black tape and used these to tie up my hands, feet and mouth. I tried to fight him away from me but he kept attacking me and I couldn't move. I couldn't breathe properly because I was so scared. He left me in the room and I was alone- I kept crying I was struggling to tell myself "it will be over soon don't worry" after two hours he come back and placed a bowl of water on the ground near me to taunt me and tease me. I could hear his stupid friend laughing which upset me more. Five hours.. When he finally came to his senses and untied me- my wrists and feet were marked and bleeding. He's like "are you going to leave me now? I did this to teach u a lesson you stupid bitch" I said "I want to go home" he's like "you better not leave me otherwise its going to get worse" I said "how" he's like "test me and you'll see" This wasn't bondage sex. This wasn't BDSM. This wasn't SM. i was tortured for five hours and I can't get it out of my head.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You go to the police and write a statement file a restraining order... Take it from someone who has been in a domestic violence relationship... IT GETS WORSE!!! If he was that extreme with it... GET OUT NOW!!! Not trying to scare you but next time you may not live to see family again... I know your scared and afraid to tell your family... But your family love you they will protect you... But you have to do this for YOU!!! F his feelings f anything that comes out of his mouth...

  • if that really happened why are you calling him your bf instead of the guy I' called the cops on am taking to court pressing charges and hope gets locked up.

    how is he your 'bf'?

    what he dxid was illegal. you do know that dont you?

    and there's no way you could ever trust or respect him now. why should you get it out of your head. you should put him jai.

    • yes like a shari said you dont have time to contemplate. you have to move quickly. meditation always works against you then you have to explain why you waited.. just do it now. whether he likes it or not there are witnesses -his friends. and they are guilty of aiding and abetting just by being there saying nothing. failure to intervene or report the crime themselves and providing psychological encouragement to the guy who did it. its understandable you're sacred but now what you know what he's capable of not reporting it isn't going to make him be a better person. he needs to be accountable for his actions or hell keep thinking its ok to control thou however he wants. is this the first time he's been violent with you? how did you mange to toe this to us? if you can type it all out on w./e you're using then you can surely make a phone call. if you're stuck there then email a friend and have them call the police. but make a move.

    • you have some amount of peivcy if you can type the who;e story on here. so contact someone NOW. !!!

    • Also next time a guy TELLS you he got a strip club dance etc. you leave. you dont tell him. you just go. bc he's obviously trying top manipulate your emissions. outside of just being a completely obnoxious disrespectful repugnant character, hurt shows he's a control freaks and has little sense of accountability. this mAkes him dangerous. so you just leave. how did you guys stay together in the fieriest place? when is the next time you can leave. i mean do you go to work or school. when does he leave? he has to leave eventually.

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  • Why is he still your boyfriend. Leave him asap before you end up seriously hurt or dead. He says better not leave him or it'll get worse, no honey, stay with him and it'll get worse.
    If you're going to stay with him, nobody anywhere, online or offline, can help you. If you leave him, there is help available.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Wow, I'm glad you posted this on the internet instead of calling the police. Let me just grab my cape, and I'll fly right over and whisk you away to my fortress on Jupiter where you'll be safe.

  • Good thing you posted a question here instead of calling the police

    • Obvious troll is obvious...

    • How can I ca them do you know how scared I am

    • You pick up the phone and dial

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  • This is when you go to police!

  • If he really did this it is obvious you go to the police. If you still consider him a boyfriend there is something wrong with you.

  • I'm sorry, but if this really happened would you really go write about it on here? Call the police, call your mom, call the fucking pizza delivery guy and steal his scooter, just get the fuck out of there. Or stop pissing about on the internet about shit that isn't funny.

    • I don't find any of this funny what gives you the right to say it's not true I came here to get advice not to be ridiculed Fuck it I know what to do

    • Yeah, get the fuck off the internet and go to the police! How did you NOT know what to do before? You gave me the right by posting here, I honestly hope to God you aren't telling the truth, I'd prefer that to this actually having happened to you.

  • So I'm assuming you're going to call the cops and he's going to be your ex bf soon.

  • Go, to police, and place a report. u got proof on ur body. faster better

    • This.

  • Depending on where you live, I can think of at least 2 or 3 felonies that he committed. If you're not going to call the police, get advice from a rape crisis center and get the hell away from him. It'll only get worse if you don't.

  • Do u live in Saudi Arabia or a small midwest town?

    • No I'm not from the middle east

    • Its tough if you share a residence with him. There is no way out of it.

  • go the the police. You have been dating so he knows a lot about you. If you moved he would probably track you down. This is not something to tread lightly with. Next time he could actually do something worse. Please go the the police and avoid a next time!!!<3

  • umm... are you writing this while waiting in the police office?

  • Are you kidding me? report report and get the heck outa there

    • I'm waiting for him to leave the house

    • I don't know if you are messing with us... but your dude is straight up whack!!!

    • I would never post something just to get a rise out of people. Like no that's just wrong I know he is fucke up

  • I know some Dominicans that can take care of the issue for the low.

  • Holy crap he's crazy, report it to the police. AnD buy something for self defense.

  • Call the damn police. What are strangers on the internet going to do?

  • Why didn't you call the police?

  • That is very wicked of him :(

  • If you're being honest, then that's terrible! He should definitely be rotting in prison. You have to call the police.

  • cool story, i hope some point in life you'd realize it's unhealthy to get off by these made up fantasies

  • did you tell anyone?

    • I'm scared to tell my family about it because I don't want him to get pissed off.

    • he's going to be pissed. people dont like going to jail. tough. you can't worry about him being angry yo have to get help.

  • I would call the police, if you don't things will eventually get worse, once you let a guy get away with it once they do it again if not worse, fuck him if he was gunna kill you he would have done it there and then, people who actually kill dont threaten they just go and do it. People like him Are all mouth no action, he only tied you up because he knew what your reaction would e like , he's just trying to scare you.

  • Ok if your boyfriend did all of this then why do you still call him your boyfriend?
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    • Instead of calling the cops where did you get the time to go on the internet to ask this question?

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