my mum the same, I've got friends male and female that also have the same thing. it's her place to question it thou, if u ask them it will come across as u don't respect them there house or there rules. u could be sneaky and set an alarm for 5am and go back to where ur ment to sleep then (just don't get caught) so times its a culture thing other times it's purely because they don't want there child (however grown up and legal it is) to be having sex or anything close so to avoid that u can't share a bed when they can control it
Sounds normal. I'm 22 and living on my own, but when I go visit my parents, my dad still doesn't like my boyfriend staying the night - even if he uses the guest room. My mom, on the other hand, doesn't care if he stays in my bed. But we follow my dad's rules.
They are parents and do not need to think of their daughter being sexually active. Take this time to get to know them... and snesking is fun, too.
Hm... instead of complaining i suggest meeting her parents and asking for a dialogue. Come to an agreement both are okay with, and understand how they think and why they want to do that.
At the very least it'll create a mutual understanding, and thus reduce the chance of conflicts emerging. PLus, it'll make you come through as more mature.
That is quite normal. having their daughter and boyfriend doing the bed board bop while mom and dad are in the next room. Is not something the parents want happening under their roof.
Besides it's their house. Their rules.
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Nothing too surprising. She's their daughter, they should be able to have a say about what they think is best for their daughter. And it's their house after all. And don't forget, if you intend to really be with her, you gotta get on her parents' good side too. ;)
Look man,
parents will always be parents. The way they look at it is that unless you're officially married or at least engaged, then there is not reason for you both to share a room, at least not yet. Age also play a big role in stuff like that. Being 18 or 19 still won't constitute an okay from parents, legal age does not matter unless you are in your late 20's...
There are many little things that parents will make a deal of, including having their daughter be in the same room with a boy.
They don't want you to be all over her at night. I think it's kinda silly, but eh, you can't really do anything about it, I guess she has to stay at your house at some point to stay in the same room. Or book a hotel, I don't know.
Their house, their rules. I don't think it's too uncommon to have that rule at a parent's house, especially since you're still on the young side. My parents are somewhat laid back and assume that my gf and I will stay in the same bed when we're over for the holidays, but if they didn't want us to I would just respect their rules
Parents house. Parents rules. Always respect that. Just be greatful they are letting you under the same roof as her. they seem very protective of her. just let it be and don't try to push it or things won't be pretty.
I think that's normal, some parents still exercise certain rules in their house regardless if their child is 18+.
I guess her parents are just being cautious or it's actually pretty normal. Boys and girls always sleep in different rooms in our house :))
Makes sense, don't complain to anyone. Their house and daughter.
That is pretty normal, most parents won't let their daughter stay in the same room as her boyfriend.
Honestly I don't see the big deal but everyone has different values, and you'll have to respect that.
Their house their rules. They probbly don't want you having sex in their house.
Simple answer: They're cock blocking you.
I think it's their house, their rules.
Ha, "This level of injustice!"
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