we lived together for a year and went on a break for 5 months and have been working things out recently.
In the time I was living with him I stopped eating pork and to be honest I did do it for him.
While we broke up I was eating pork and still am atm of which he is aware. We recently had an argument in which he said there are things I won't compromise on like my partner eating pork and my kids eating pork while living in his house.
He said out of respect to him and his beliefs I should stop eating pork in order to set a good example for the future kids.
However I feel like by doing this for him id be losing my views and beliefs (because I don't care about pork as I wasn't raised to not eat it) and I feel like its an attempt at controlling me and what I do.
Im curious to see what others would do.
Would you?
stop eating pork in full awareness that I would be doing it solely for him and his values and out of respect to him?
Offer the compromise of not eating pork in his presence and if we live together not bringing it into the home out of respect?
tell him that I will continue to eat pork as I see fit and if there is no long term prospects in this instance that we should go our separate ways?
And believe it or not hates head scarfs and burqas.
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