Are you together in a relationship? Have you had the exclusivity talk? If you haven't then you have no right to expect an answer to your question and if you're worried about your feelings then remove yourself from the situation and if you are so concerned about STD's then ensure that contraception is worn and used. It's not full proof but it offers some form of protection.
0 0 0 0So then you say that. You say "I enjoy being with you, but I'm also concerned with my health. If either of us are sleeping with other people, I'd like to know so I can take the necessary precautions"
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I don't think you should worry about it. If there is a connection there and he is a good guy, typically he isn't sleeping with another person. If there are red flags, then you should ask... but don't put an awkward confusing moment in a good thing.
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0 4Ask him if he's been tested for stds's He'll know what you mean. You don't need to spell it out, do you?
0 0 0 0Ask straight up. Be slightly vulgar to take the edge off.
1 0 0 0If he's out with other people, you're not together. You're just seeing eachother.
That aside you can just ask. Might not be a good idea, but it's really that simple.1 0 0 0Be straight up.
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