I will start with the important details. I am 26, my boyfriend is 22. We met online and were long distance for a while and then moved in with each other 4 months ago and have been together 14 months now. I guess the usual decline of the honeymoon stage is going to happen after co-habitation but recently I feel as though he is too comfortable with me and everything I do for him and doesn't care about what happens.
I say this I am the tradtional kind of girl. I cook for him every day, make his lunch for work, do the laundry. I work till 3.30 Monday to Friday he gets in at 7pm so has longer days, which is fair enough so I feel I should have more responsibility over the housework an I view it that way anyway as is how I was brought up. Thing is I'm a nice girl, too nice, I'd literally do anything for him, I am also very sensitive and jealous. I worry sometimes when he's out with his mates he is chatting up other girls cuz his mates are like that and he doesn't seem to have passion for me anymore or want to have sex with me more than once a week, also we never make out, just little pecks on the lips now and then, usually initiated by me. He just switches off all the time, On the weekend I asked him if he wanted to come out for a drive to which he retorted "Naaa I wanna stay in" we haven't gone out in ages, he'll just be interested in playing xbox and chatting with his friends, and doesn't care to talk to me about how I feel and how he makes me feel. I cry an cry and he just ignores me 2 the point whre I hafta give out the olive branch in order to just feel normal again.
I must add he did tell me recently he suffers with depression but th I feel he makes me depressed, he's hpppy an laughing when talking to his friends, but never wants to be serious or do anything fun with me to take his mind off things. I dont think he is cheatnig, I dont know who would want him tbh he is awful! But I can't help but love him cuz he used to be so different.
I say this I am the tradtional kind of girl. I cook for him every day, make his lunch for work, do the laundry. I work till 3.30 Monday to Friday he gets in at 7pm so has longer days, which is fair enough so I feel I should have more responsibility over the housework an I view it that way anyway as is how I was brought up. Thing is I'm a nice girl, too nice, I'd literally do anything for him, I am also very sensitive and jealous. I worry sometimes when he's out with his mates he is chatting up other girls cuz his mates are like that and he doesn't seem to have passion for me anymore or want to have sex with me more than once a week, also we never make out, just little pecks on the lips now and then, usually initiated by me. He just switches off all the time, On the weekend I asked him if he wanted to come out for a drive to which he retorted "Naaa I wanna stay in" we haven't gone out in ages, he'll just be interested in playing xbox and chatting with his friends, and doesn't care to talk to me about how I feel and how he makes me feel. I cry an cry and he just ignores me 2 the point whre I hafta give out the olive branch in order to just feel normal again.
I must add he did tell me recently he suffers with depression but th I feel he makes me depressed, he's hpppy an laughing when talking to his friends, but never wants to be serious or do anything fun with me to take his mind off things. I dont think he is cheatnig, I dont know who would want him tbh he is awful! But I can't help but love him cuz he used to be so different.
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