Is it ever ok to tell a girl that you feel nervous when you're talking to them?

[Anonymous]

If you just get nervous talking to women.

It's ok

It's not ok

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+1 y

Assuming you don't know them that well

[juliaanita]

First of all girls are people too, and we are sometimes (maybe always) as nervous as the guy. Secondly, If a guy was brave enough to tell me he was nervous when he talked to me, I would be rather flattered, because its kind of a compliment:) I think in the right situation, when all the other vibes are harmonious (if you get my drift) it is actually the perfect thing to say to a girl!

[Asker]

Even if you don't know them well?

[juliaanita]

Yeah-maybe especially when you don't them that well. To be crass, it might even be a good pickup line:)

[PassiveAggressive]

You can say it but don't say it too much or you'll run the risk of turning her off. Say it maybe once or twice if you really feel like it's necessary and she'll probably calm you down. Most girls in that situation would feel a bit flattered assuming they like you already.

[Asker]

What if you don't know her that well.

[PassiveAggressive]

I would try to hold off then just to be safe. You want to put your best foot forward when you get to know someone and not come off as unsure. It really depends though on what type of girl you're dealing with. If she's kind of nervous and insecure herself then she probably won't mind as much. It'll be more impressive if you act yourself and try to be confident than to not even try and tell her how nervous you are.

[existing_not_living]

Yes! Of course it's okay. I think it would be adorable if a guy told me that. It'd make me feel flattered and if I liked him, then it would make me less insecure because at least now I know that the both of us are nervous talking to one another.

[Asker]

What if you don't know her that well

[existing_not_living]

Well, define how well you know her.

[existing_not_living]

I mean, even if I didn't know the guy all that well, if I'm talking to him comfortably enough I would be okay with him telling me that. I'd still think it was cute and it'd probably make my day, haha. 8)

[Asker]

Yes, I've found girls can be a lot more understanding and caring than guys when you open up to them but I find it hard to do.

[existing_not_living]

I know it's hard, but give it a try sometimes. Girls like it when guys show a little emotion.

[LauraMarx]

I always do this. I always start conversations with cute girls like I'M SORRY I- I- CAN'T FUNCTION

[BertMacklinFBI]

yeah I wouldn't.

[Anonymous]

It would actually probably put me at ease a bit and it's cute and shows you care about her and are an honest person. So, really I only see positive things coming from it.

[Michael-in-SC]

She'll likely feel flattered.

[manar]

Yes! Of course , why not

[Asker]

What if you don't know them that well?

[manar]

girls are people too it's okay sometimes we are as nervous as the guys

[danielleflocas]

It's okay, most girls probably would find it cute

[NoDoubt]

Yeah it's okay.

[Anonymous]

Yeah why not?

[sweetness10]

Yea its ok