My boyfriend makes me feel like crap.

alexxx18
Okay so I'm a little sensitive and my boyfriend knows that. But he still feels the need to snap at me and make me feel like crap for saying or doing something that he thinks is rude or bitchy of me.. Like yesterday we were in bed doing our thing and he accidentally kneed me in the face and just stopped and put his face in his hands... I know he was embarrassed but I was fine and I tried to let him know but he continued to awkwardly lay there... And I said "sooo are we done or what?" And he started yelling at me and saying how that was such a bitchy thing to say and continued to put me down while I'm bawling... I can't handle being screamed at very well which he also knows. Things escalated and they almost got resolved but once again I said something out of line... He told me he didn't know when I felt like being comforted by him after a fight and I was crying and spoke a little emotionally that it was a hundred percent of the time... But he thought I was "yelling" at him and when I tried to tell him I didn't mean to and he totally misconstrued that, he called me a liar and continued to scream at me in my face. During these fights he is so irrational so I have to work really hard to think about everything I'm going to say because I really just want him to calm down at that point... But he gets mad when I cry because he says I just do it to make him feel like an asshole and unfortunately I can't help it when I am getting yelled at.

He also has a huge time admitting when he's wrong... I've caught myself apologizing for so many ridiculous things just to keep the peace.l Every once in a while when we're not fighting he'll tell me he knows he does this to me but it only goes well for a week and he's back screaming in my face again...

Ugh I know that all seems so petty but it's the one that made me Google "boyfriend yells at me" lol. I just figured an example would better explain what I'm going through... and I really need advice because he really is a sweet guy he just has such a temper but I really do love him more than anything he's done so much in my life. What can I say or do to make him realize how bad he's hurting me without him taking it offensively?
My boyfriend makes me feel like crap.
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