Your brother is not your "master", but he is your brother. You do not have to "follow his orders" but you should tell him about things that pertain to him. Dating his best friend definitely pertains to him, so he should know. But he is still not your controller. You simply tell him next time you are talking that you have started dating his friend. If he gets angry, ask him why? Doesn't he trust his friend? And would he rather you date someone he knows or a stranger he does not know and will wonder about?
Your brother may have a talk with his friend about him treating the sister right, but that is just being concerned and protective.
If your brother asks about things in the future with this guy, just tell him. We went to the movie or we went to the dance. Yeah I still like him and I think I am getting to like him more. If things get sexual, you may have to tell him that yes, there is a little more than just kissing, but it is not his business. But remember that your brother knows this guy, may have heard him talking about other girls before, and knows how he respects them. So remember to listen to his advice and thank him for it. If your brother sees that you are really listening to him, he is more likely to trust your judgments.
Your brother doesn't rule you and there's no requirement that you have to tell him because you have your own life. Let him find out on his own. He will soon enough anyway because your BF may bring it up.
Do it the easy way. Don't tell him that you're already seeing his friend. Tell him you like his friend. See what he says he might be okay with it. If not ask him why. Listen to what he says. If it's not anything bad then sweet talk. Tell him if you mean anything to him he will want you to be happy. If that doesn't work then tell him that he doesn't own you nor his friend and if his friend likes you too then you will see him.
welll. i'm a girl but i've been in a situation where my brother dated my best friend. i was okay with it, but me and her aren't friends anymore because she never talked to me and when she would come to my house she wouldn't even acknowledge me and just go talk to my brother. I don't know, just let him know.
Just tell him straight up. He might be angry at first, but what else are you going to do? You need to just be honest
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well it all really depends on how close you are to your brother... hopefully your relationship with your brother's best friend works out because if not thing are going to be really awkward between all of you.
If you're frank then nothing to worry about, if you are friendly then jist tell about his friend to him n say you like him n describe something about him n talk about him.. Then tell you are dating him.
I'd suggest having him sit down and explain to him that the two of you are dating. But try to be as subtle with the topic as you can
Just tell him straightforward.
"im dating ur best friend"
You're selfish and stupid
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