I 100% agree with nina- we don't expect guys to be crazy chivalrous and wait on us 24/7. We just want to feel loved and respected. Every guy has a different way of showing and communicating their appreciation though. Some guys might be very openly talkative about how they feel so they communicate using words (I find most guys aren't usually this type.. Most guys I've connected with usually don't know how to communicate their emotions so it's something guys In general I think should work on :) ... Few guys are this way though.. Other guys communicate their feelings through intimacy. When I say intimacy I don't just mean sex... It can be anything from hand holding , cuddling, having romantic dinners etc. some guys show their feelings old school style - holding doors, sliding girls chairs out.. Walking them to their front doors at night. There are many ways a guy can be a gentleman. The important thing is making the girl feel special, loved and respected :)
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To me, a gentleman is just someone who really cares about me. He doesn't have to open doors for me all the time or pull out chairs for me, but I would like him to make time for me. I think a lot of the time women say they want a gentleman, but, really, they just want to feel wanted, valued, and appreciated. A feel like quite a few guys these days don't really put in the effort that girls want n a relationship. Like I dated this guy before (and we were pretty serious in his eyes), but we only saw each other three times in the period of three months amounting up to about six hours of seeing each other. Lol. We aren't asking for all your time and attention, but knowing that you'll be there for us whenever we need it means more than you'll ever know.
Really listen to her and ask for her opinion, compliment her, don't be immature, stick up for her and let her go first
Being a gentleman has nothing to do with what Hollywood would make you think. A gentleman is someone who will get to know you find what makes you happy and be willing to make romantic gestures based on who you are as a person. Not some handbook.
Read a book on the practices, of course. Etiquette is at the heart of it all.
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a gentlemen is someone who will be there for you at your worst moment. they will go above and beyond to make you feel comfortable. a gentlemen is someone who makes you feel like you are valuable, highly desired, and appreciated. a gentlemen is cool, level headed, sane, and confident. they are accepting of you and dont look down on you. also, they call you beautiful and they make you feel like you are gorgeous even when you're in your sweatpants without any makeup.
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