I'm living with my boyriend at the moment. I care about him and also the people that he cares about. My boyfriend cares about his brother and so do I.
Unfortunately, my boyfriend has been through some crisis and he's lazy as hell and doesn't work. He don't even try. Th government gives him money. He want to take things the easy way by relying on us and especially my boyfriend. We even decided to try and take kinship for his kid but we just didn't qualify. I mean, that's a lot to ask for and we went for it. I financially helped him out before as well. I spent money on him too. He in return gave us nothing. Also, he been in jail and steals and can't be trusted!!!
Recently, his brother has been through another crisis and can't pay his rent so he will soon have no place to live. He asked my boyfriend to "STAY" with us! There's just NO WAY for that to happen. First, i don't trust him because he steals second, he will take a lot of our privacy, third, I won't finance him and take in a bum. I was really angry when i heard that because this is really TOO much to ask for. Especially, from what he said to me, he's just way to lazy to work and make money! I tried to help him by looking for jobs for him and a really cheap place to live. He didn't even look at those options and just wanted to stay with us. I think he just wants to take the advantage that we have a nice place and will make his life a lot easier.
I was really angry when my boyfriend told me that he'll pay rent and food. I was like, I know even you don't want him here with us and you know I will hate it. I was really angry that he even wanted to negotiate with me the possibility to change my mind. It's not like I haven't helped him financially and helped him to make his life easier. He even mentioned to me that he's being lazy and not working. I'm so mad. I shouldn't even let him over during this weekend because he will not leave and just sleep here. Am I mean?
Unfortunately, my boyfriend has been through some crisis and he's lazy as hell and doesn't work. He don't even try. Th government gives him money. He want to take things the easy way by relying on us and especially my boyfriend. We even decided to try and take kinship for his kid but we just didn't qualify. I mean, that's a lot to ask for and we went for it. I financially helped him out before as well. I spent money on him too. He in return gave us nothing. Also, he been in jail and steals and can't be trusted!!!
Recently, his brother has been through another crisis and can't pay his rent so he will soon have no place to live. He asked my boyfriend to "STAY" with us! There's just NO WAY for that to happen. First, i don't trust him because he steals second, he will take a lot of our privacy, third, I won't finance him and take in a bum. I was really angry when i heard that because this is really TOO much to ask for. Especially, from what he said to me, he's just way to lazy to work and make money! I tried to help him by looking for jobs for him and a really cheap place to live. He didn't even look at those options and just wanted to stay with us. I think he just wants to take the advantage that we have a nice place and will make his life a lot easier.
I was really angry when my boyfriend told me that he'll pay rent and food. I was like, I know even you don't want him here with us and you know I will hate it. I was really angry that he even wanted to negotiate with me the possibility to change my mind. It's not like I haven't helped him financially and helped him to make his life easier. He even mentioned to me that he's being lazy and not working. I'm so mad. I shouldn't even let him over during this weekend because he will not leave and just sleep here. Am I mean?
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Typo- it's my boyfriends brother thats the bum and going through crisis
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