I really like this girl from school, yet I have trouble interacting with her? What do I do?
How do I make a girl feel special?
Start talking to her whenever you see her and you will see that she will eventually come up to you first to start the conversation. When you begin to get closer to each other you can surprise her with a gift or take her somewhere nice. Walk together through your town park or get some hot chocolate together on a cold day. Small gifts are always nice but don't over do them because she will start to expect them all the time and you don't want that because they are meant to be special. All girls are different but usually girls like chocolates and flowers but I'm not like that. I would rather spend the day with my boyfriend and just be able to have nice conversations with him. Spontaneous gifts are very sweet though. I hate holidays because you end up competing with everyone else's gifts. If you give a girl a gift randomly it will be far more meaningful and it doesn't even have to be expensive. It could be her favorite candy, a movie you want to watch together or something she has been saying she needs because it broke or she lost it etc. She will remember this gift because it shows you are thinking of her and paying attention to what she likes. Girls absolutely love compliments, reminding her how beautiful she is will always make her smile. Complimenting her on what she is wearing or noticing that she got a new haircut will make her realize that you might be into her. Always be open to new ideas because you never know what she may like! :)
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If you are nervous that she may be hesitant, just remember we LOVE confident men who make us feel like we are beautiful and special. Calling a girl beautiful, getting right to the point, and being a strong confident guy is very attractive to girls. If you decide to tell her maybe do it somewhere that is VERY casual but nice, like a park or a lake or riverfront or for hot chocolate or ice cream. No matter what age it would make an extr e difference in my opinion (:. Good luck hope you win her heart (:
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Be your complete total self. No need to show off. If you must play it 'cool'. Be confident, but not cocky. Girls like a confident guy. Perhaps compliment her on something she's wearing. Ask her questions about her interests, and see if you have any in common with her :) Try not to act awkward either, because... it'll get awkward :P Have something in mind already that you want to say to her before you tell her so that you don't freeze up when you see her :)
Don't want to do everything at once. Of you want to make her feel special it needs time. Do it on a long distance. If you do it too fast she'll think that you are fake. You don't have to give big surprises but pay attention to her on a long distance. Every now and then surprise her with something special but don't do it too often. Make *that * moment special.
Don't only listen but actually pay attention to what she says. Share your honest and personal opinion on the things she says (if It needs to be commented). Remember what she says. If she feels down comfort her. Keep a track of her emptions but don't get too attached (!). If you see that she's sad/happier than usually then ask what's going on.
There are many Nice favors you can do. Pock some from the other opinion sharers'.
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Write her sweet notes and become a secret admirer. Breaks the ice and starts dialect without awkwardness and uncomfortability, plus every girl is attracted to the whimsy of mystery.
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Give her subtle little compliments and remember to smiiiiile smile smile! Nothing is cuter than when you catch a guy looking your way and he smiles. As for making her feel special, if you treat her well that`ll kinda happen naturally. Good luck, go charm that girl! :)
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When you see her in the halls, smile bright and say hi! But not everyday, make her come up to you so she can say hi too. When you talk to her, laugh a little when its the right time and look into her eyes often. Compliment something about her (her hair, eyes, sense of humor etc) while in the middle of a convo and during those awkward silent moments, glance at her and smile again. If you do a little physical contact, that'll get to her. Do a playful punch or pat on the arm, just don't go below her waist haha.
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Love letters, rose (single one is so romantic), compliment her all the time, telll her how important she is, give her chocolates occasionally, tell her to meet you outside of school for a casual meetup, ask her for an icecream meetup (not date if she is not your gf yet, and if you want to ask her casually, just ask her for an icecream date) buy her baloons :P (i don't know i love it) Send her long texts, meaningfull ones stating how sweet a person she is and how special she is to you. end her Goodmorning and Goodnight texts with cute smileys and stickers. :')
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The only thing a girl would want most is for you to be yourself. Be confident when you talk to her because she won't be. Try to keep the conversation going, make it so it feels like you guys have been talking for hours, heck make her laugh! make her feel special girls love that. Overall make her smile, if you do that your in
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You could ask her to be your valentine in a really creative way. It'll show that you put in the effort and can be helpful considering you have trouble interacting with her. You could like give her a note and then it'll give her directions to do whatever to reach wherever it is for the way of asking her to be your valentine. ... Or you could do none of this because it's pointless or a waste of your time? I'd say just look at her and smile. :) A smile can go a long way. :)
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Well for how to make a girl feel special part I'd say engage with her. Really be truly into what she has to say and show her your attention by asking questions about what she's talking about and listening. Although this isn't really for how to make a girl like you (but hey , getting or having a deep conversations maybe will who knows) but no matter what it will make her feel soecial, especially if she likes you already.
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Just talk to her and be honest. There's not much else you can do! We appreciate honesty an genuine compliments. And if we like you back, we're probably 10x as nervous as you are, so don't worry :) just be yourself and if it's meant to work out, you'll be fine!
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There are five "love languages": physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, gifts. If you don't know hers, I suggest experimenting with small gestures of these kinds. Bonus points if you praise her for some quality where she sees herself as weird.
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simply approach her, no need to worry! :) girls like guys who approach her. it also depends on the girl, if she's the quiet type, she might not like loud people and vice versa. Simply be yourself and start off with simple questions. Try to get her to talk about something she enjoys doing!
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Maybe tell her she's pretty and comment on small things that most guy's wouldn't notice like her new hair style or a pretty top. Just small things because you don't want to freak her out... Also maybe talk to her on social media because it's much easier to talk to someone over the computer (won't be as hard) When you talk to her try to get what she's interested in such as music or subjects (just small things) Good luck!
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uhm do something to show her she is really important to you. For example, if she passes by you and you re with all your friends, look at her and say hi and give her a smile. In this way, she ll understand that she matters to you because the truth is, you guys almost ignore the girls you like when you re around friends. If you talk to her in front of your mates, she will think you re really into her and not ashamed for talking to her.
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Find something she likes and show interest in it. If she likes art, ask her to go to an art gallery with you. If she likes books go to a library. Even if it's boring, it's a way to spend one on one time with her that will make her feel special. One time a guy spent the entire day watching all The Lord of the Rings movies with me, because he knew I liked him and now we've been dating for two years. Just spend time with her.
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To get a girl interested you have to start off with subtle things such as when you see her smile and say hi if you have her for a class just come up and ask her a? Related to school work etc.. If it helps act like she is just a friend you know because that will help you be more confident. . if you seem nervous girls dnt usually like that so just relax and put in your mind she's just a friend
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don't consider her as a last choice. she is an important choice.
also don't ditch her for other people.
this is good to make people like me with anxiety and loners to like you and feel safe with you.
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Give he compliments, walk her to her classes (not all but some that are close to your classes) , make eye contact when talking.
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Look... confidence is key. Girls find it very irresistible. If you are too shy she will never know how you feel and if you are too nice and just do whatever she says to do she wil find you a push over. That means immediate friend zone. You don't want that.
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Just be present and seem interested. No texting or being on your phone when talking with her... That's a rarity these days and she'll appreciate your undivided attention.
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Write her a poem! Poems can express more in a way than a normal conversation could ever do! A poem doesn't have to rhym but make sure it still has good rhythm.
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Make her laugh, smile at her, just spend time getting to know her. Girls notice little things and nothing makes us feel special than a guy who just wants to get to knows for us
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A rose :) not necessarily roses but A rose is theeee best thing ever
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