You have to move on. Expressing your feelings to him won't change anything. You have to learn to accept what is and wasn't meant to be. Feelings change and life goes on it doesn't stop. You expressing your feelings to him won't really do anything it'll just make you look bad and make him look good. Try to move on the quickest way possible. The more you chase them the more they walk away. I know it is difficult moving on from someone you once loved or had tough feelings for. But if you give it time you will forget them, well not forget them but lose feelings for them is what I mean. Don't be someone's doormat who just wipes there feet on you. You know you deserve so much better. Why waste your time with someone who won't even take the time to be with you? That's just taking that's not giving anything. You have to learn how to move on when you are being treated with respect. If you know you deserve better and you weren't happy in your relationship, then why stay with someone who sway maybe made you feel like crap or treated you like dirt? Why be head over heels for someone who isn't even head over heels for you? Why, its just a waste of time. Don't save a spot for someone in your heart that doesn't make an effort to stay. He obviously maybe lost feelings for you or something who knows. If someone truly cares about you and loves you for you they will make an effort. Not excuses but an effort to be with you. Try to move on someway, if you two work together or something etc act like he doesn't exist. That's what I do with my ex and it works like a charm. And you can do it too, it just takes time.
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Stop wasting your effort on someone who is not making an effort to be with you. Reading this I thought you were in your teens, not nearing 30. You need to work on moving on from him. Someone who really cares about you and wants to be with you won't do that stupid on/off shit. When things get hard you either decide to work it out because you love the person or you end it and move on. It seriously sounds like this guy may be emotionally abusive. Either way, stop always chasing after him with your tail between your legs.
I say tell him how you feel, and even if you don't get back together at least you got it off your chest. If you tell him and he rejects you getting it out there could be what it takes for you to move on.
You can tell him how you feel butttt, why do it. You'd just be wasting your time. HE'S YOUR EX
You need to move on pal. It's over and the sooner you accept this the better.
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Exactly so move on. He clearly has! Things change and feelings fade. Stop holding on to the past, look forward. It didn't work not easy to accept but life must go on
Honestly you should move on, its probably the hardest decision/choice to make but you'll find someone better. By the way how old was he? Maybe he's scared of the age gap you have between which i dont think so... but maybe thats the reason.
How long ago was this?
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