Bottom Line!.never put a time and date on when you should say the "L" word!.When you feel it say it!.Don't make things harder by trying to determine when its right and when its not? If you are in love.SAY IT!.Everything else goes from there.
Well there isn't really a period time you have to be dating but you don't wanna move too fast. It depends on your feelings for her especially if y'all have been together for a while. Maybe you should just sit her down and talk to her when you feel it's the time to talk.
Saying I love you. Here is what I think after reading several answers.
I didn't realize we were such a fairy tale culture. you know, everything shouldnt change just because of those three words, and yet they do. Now even not saying them is supposed to mean something. Maybe some people aren't so sentimental and believe the most important things should be felt never said. maybe saying it spoils them. Maybe they should be said in other ways, like in actions and in clues so that it is so endearing and important it's never trivialized.
When she's ready and comfortable to tell you she will. Also, just because she hasn't said so, doesn't mean she doesn't love you. She could just be unsure, or not ready with herself to openly say so. But if you love her, go ahead and say so! It may open the door for her to say the same ;D
Wait until the guy says he doesn't love you (after saying he did years ago when perhaps "prompted") then call him four years later and ask him if it was for sex or love and when he says it was for sex you admit for the first time that he is the only person you've ever loved in your life. That's what I did!
Never ask her if she lover you, she will tell you when she is ready. Also before saying "i love you" actually think about if you really mean it as its 3 little words that should not be said lightly. Often love and lust can be confused!
dont ask her if she loves you! If you love her tell her that in person. And watch her reactiona dn what she says. Her face will give you a clue on how she is feeling when you tell her that you love her. Good Luck!
do you have another girl you're interested in so you don't waste time on this girl who doesn't love you potentially? wicked. usually after great sex is the right time; any time before that is way too soon. besides girls are simple, least I think, we just want to be around a good uh. well yea a good lover :).
never, ever ever ever ever! never ask a girl, I've had that done to me before and it is such a huge turn off, it is SOOOOOOOOO confusing aswell. if you love her and want to know if she loves you too, JUST TELL HER. I swear, ask her if she loves you and she will just think you are playing games with her.worst move you could ever ever make.
On the third day I was with my boyfriend he told me he loved me(we have know each other for 3 years prior to going out). I was like wow.ummmmm.
But we still go out and I totally love him and I told him so!
I don't think there is a time limit to start loving someone. It varies. And I don't think asking someone if they really love you is the way to go. You should be able to tell from their actions, or even better, you should hear it too. Just be patient and if everything is going well, you probably won't even have to ask anything.
hehe, you won't fall in love during the dating periods dude,how long could dating go on?i guess maximum a month,but love is a hard thing to come by it takes time,now don't confuse love with proximity infatuation.
If you have to ask it shows doubt on your part. I know with my situation it just blurted out and she said she loved me too. If you really love her just say it. If she say's thank you or OK you know not to bother. But make sure you mean it some women have been through this and heard it all before. Timing is everything.
Shouldn't ask, it should be told to you unless you have uncertainty as to what her intentions are. if you ask it comes across as needy and insecure, women hate that, they want a confident man, so act as if she's just GOTTA love you, of course, you expect it
You should never ask her if she loves you she will say it when she is ready. If you truly love her then tell her that you love her. People use the words I love you way too lightly nowadays though. They just say it because they think they should since they are in a relationship. I love you are very strong words and before you say it you should make sure you really mean it.