Ok, so we started dating around 7 months ago during summer. At first it was really great, he seemed like the perfect guy, so considerate and caring and loving. Then after about 3 months he changed a bit but not noticeable, the relationship wasn't as great. And for the rest of the time he's been an unbearable prick. He just doesn't seem to care about me any more, despite saying he does. He constantly tells me that I'm causing arguments between us, when I wouldn't have to if he didn't act like such an asshole. He never says anything sweet any more, when I'm upset he quickly skips over it and we have to talk about him, he thinks that talking to me over the phone is boring and he feels 'nothing' (I see him once a week because of distance and I know he hates it). I've spoken to him loads about it, there have been countless arguments all resulting in him telling me he will change he 'promises' but he hasn't. Today I showed him some screenshots of our old conversation that I found and told him I missed the way it used to be, to which he responded 'it's not all about you though'. Am I really asking for too much? For my boyfriend to show that he cares and loves me. Should I just end it? I really do love him and I couldn't bear to lose him but I can't do this any more, he doesn't seem to care about me at all.
My boyfriend has turned into an asshole, why?
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