While I totally understand that he is extremely busy, I have been paranoid about whether our relationship is going anywhere. We text each other a couple of times in a week and hang out maybe two to three times in a month. I feel I take too much initiative these days because I am always the one to accommodate his time or initiate new dates.
I talked to him on this and he said he could not manage so many things (work, interview, reading, cases, critics etc) at a time. But he did like me therefore he tried to make time for me. And he seldom makes promises or says sweet things (He is INTJ and philosophy major), therefore makes me feel even more insecure. And he replies my texts only during mid nights.
I think Law school and himself is his universe. I interned as a banker and worked 100+ hours a week, yet still had a couple of hours a week to hang out. Do law school students really that BUSY? Or it is just him not willing to make more time for me or put me into his priority? I like him a lot but I almost cannot control myself from "thinking too much". Shall I move on?
Thanks in advance for your kindly advice!
I will work this June, maybe when we all get busy, I can stop caring overly much.
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