So, I cheated on my boyfriend yesterday. I know that's bad but I really want to break up with him, I've wanted to for a while..and in my mind we are already over. The situation is that he was doing a ton of heroin and right now is in rehab for it. I have no way to talk to him til he comes back. I was going to break it off before he went but I felt if I broke up with him he wouldn't have gone at all, and he really needs the help(he was shooting up to 6 times a day). He was awful when he was using, not himself at all, and he knew how much it upset me, but it meant nothing. He's a really manipulative person, and he told me before he left "I will need you when I get out..without you my life would be pointless and all I will want is a needle in my arm." He has also told me in the past that our relationship is "perfect" except for his drug use and that if I think he's bad, I should see how other guys treat girls. They will treat me like sh*t. And I'll end up begging him to take me back..... Show More
How do I tell my boyfriend it's over?
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It doesn't matter if it was already over in your mind, that doesn't give you free license to cheat on your boyfriend. It's a good thing this guy is getting rehab, his choices and their consequences must have meant something for him to want to change. When people are seriously addicted to something, they say and do a lot of things they normally wouldn't. If I were you, I would talk to a counselor that works at the rehab center and find out the best way to get out of the situation that wouldn't be detrimental to his recovery (or at least not as much). It looks like you've both made mistakes and if you are going to walk out of someone's life when they are trying to make a positive choice, you should at least try to ask someone with experience in that area what their best advice is on the best way to end it. I imagine breaking up with someone in that delicate a situation is a bit different than the average advice anyone can give.